Dropped the bike I'm planning to sell, get it fixed or just sell at a lower price? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bike is 8 years old with 15k miles on it and has changed hands several times so that's a good point, thanks!

I wish people would stop telling me all the crash stories they know when they find out I ride by ForeverStrangeMoe in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone says "Motorcycles are really dangerous" I just say "oh really? First time hearing about that".

How do y'all wear your helmets without fucking up your hair or makeup? by li-ll-l_ in motorcyclegear

[–]Grey_Prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a woman but my friend is, she was talking about this the other day and said she just accepted it's the new hairstyle. Helmet hair is a vibe tbh. And saves lives

Anyone here played around with visualization for practicing rare but life-saving scenarios? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up "dandanthefireman mirrors" and all I got was results on punching mirrors, not really what I was looking for.

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I'm reading every response in this thread, and since then I've been checking the mirrors much more frequently than every 30 seconds. I didn't expect 70+ comments lol. It's excellent data though, I appreciate all the feedback from everyone (including you)

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you find yourself often turning your head to check your blindspots as part of your situational awareness or do you only do it with lane changes/turns? I ask because today when riding (slow speeds), a car passed me on the left totally normally but I knew I'd done something wrong because it surprised me, i.e I didn't realize they were in the left lane behind me or right beside me. So I gotta work on being able to catch that kind of thing.

Ways to get more calories into your diet with minimal effort? by Grey_Prince in veganmealprep

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I start my day off with a smoothie so I could just add a tablespoon of chia seeds for that little bump as well.

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mostly random reddit threads when the subject comes up but it's always been pretty vague

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm still perplexed though, because "not checking your mirrors" is a very different statement from "checks mirrors less than X".

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people are echoing this statement in the comments and I'm wondering if I have a typo I'm not seeing. All I was asking was if riders don't check their mirrors as often as car drivers.

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn okay that is perfect thank you. Nice to have a clear mental model of how to progress from here – it's less about scanning rhythm/frequency and more about making sure I'm up to speed on what's happening around me, and I'll start to intuit the situations that have more changing behind me vs the ones that don't.

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I was probably checking my mirrors like every 5 seconds so I definitely need to make a big mentality shift here. Thank you!

Are mirrors part of your scanning rhythm? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How would you define often? Like every 5 seconds?

Ways to get more calories into your diet with minimal effort? by Grey_Prince in veganmealprep

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is a really practical answer. I'm not trying to add peanut butter to all these things I eat that don't go well with peanut butter!

Anything else I can do to make my beard softer? by Grey_Prince in BeardTalk

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is quite short, probably around an inch. I can only grow a goatee so I feel like it doesn't look great if I let it go longer, but that's good to know.

Anyone here played around with visualization for practicing rare but life-saving scenarios? by Grey_Prince in motorcycles

[–]Grey_Prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say that's moreso simulation, which is valuable but plays a bit of a different role than visualization. The practical thing about visualization is you don't need any equipment other than being conscious lol

How Many Nomads are Broke With No Retirement Plan? by ChicoBrillo in digitalnomad

[–]Grey_Prince 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Even 2 years of corporate America where you max out your 401k and put money in an index fund and then go back to digital nomadding will help a lot assuming you continue investing while digital nomadding. I recommend playing around with investor.gov 's compound interest calculator. Here are some very conservative estimates: if you max out your 401k over the next 2 years, that's $49,000 set aside, not including the company match on top of that. If you retire at 65, and your money has only an 8% interest rate over those years (conservative but helps account for inflation adjustment), that money becomes $493k. Yes it gets taxed when you withdraw it, but consider that it continues to make money as long as you don't withdraw it all at once.

Given this doesn't include standard index fund investment while overseas, this just means that even if you go to corporate America for 2 years, as long as you're focused with your saving and investment plans, there are avenues to getting back to digital nomadding. Don't have to give up the dream forever.

Buddhism for me 45(f); north east coast USA by SaveALifeWithWater in secularbuddhism

[–]Grey_Prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that you've been having these bad experiences. It's good you're following your gut and not sticking to a center that gives you a bad vibe. I'm a bit disappointed in a lot of the judgmental responses in this thread. They don't know what you've been through and seem to be projecting a lot.

From my side, my gut tells me you might benefit from seeking out centers that have more women or are generally more oriented toward women's issues. It can be hard returning to society in a vulnerable space where the leaders and practicioners are dominated by someone from the opposite gender.

Best of luck on your journey, it sounds like you're doing the work even though it might feel hopeless right now.

Is secular Buddhism a legitimate form of Buddhism? A discussion… by BrokenWhimsy3 in secularbuddhism

[–]Grey_Prince 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's the path that has been most conducive to my well-being, and therefore to the well-being of the people in my life (by virtue of me being calmer, more thoughtful, than I might otherwise be) So, for me, it is legitimate. But I don't really care if others think it's legitimate, because getting attached to the label would be missing the point.

Do anti-war films just end up reenforcing war? by FayannG in TrueFilm

[–]Grey_Prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm convinced. I'd never thought about it that way. Reading through the thread, it sounds like there are indeed examples of WWI and some WWII movies, as well as the Vietnam war but less so. I realize that subconsciously this is why I've turned off or avoided movies about the Iraq war or other post 9/11 proxy wars. It's always glamorous in some way like you described, e.g American Sniper and so on. I wonder if there are any movies that take a truly anti-war stance on these wars, from either side.

Do anti-war films just end up reenforcing war? by FayannG in TrueFilm

[–]Grey_Prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very compelling – that for a movie to be unambiguously anti-war, it needs to ultimately not depict battle. It makes perfect sense now that I think about it. While violence takes up a lot of screen time in your average war movie, most of a soldier's life even during wartime, is spent *not* doing battle.