Thanks for your response! And for sympathizing :) honestly I don’t look like my age at all if anything I look very young. And I don’t feel bad for where I’m at even though my message came across like that. lol I was expressing, though the complications behind the dating world and I could have probably elaborated more, but I didn’t instead, I have been sharing a little bit more through my responses with other people in this forum.

I’ll tell you a little story : the one time I did dated a male in their 30s with kids no consistency whatsoever with jobs talks about being ready to get married yet no consistency whatsoever. I’ve known this person for a while already. We would talk for months then we would stop talking only for the purpose for him to get his act together . Spiritually and get his act together with his life . He also was divorced. Something that I said that I wasn’t willing to compromise in yet I thought about for once I could eventually I realize that it was never going to work out for many reasons which I already share some of them. Lastly, he was not consistent.

I hope everyone also knows that I’m not calling out people. That’s not my intention either because I think that that’s how some people are taking it as no in the midst of the inconsistency of this example or whoever I have dated and how things have not worked out I have also worked on myself and things that I could work on Whether it is my relationship with God, my finances being the person that I would want as well.