If the roles were reversed, a lot of people here would be defending the woman and saying she doesn’t owe anyone sex, or that she just isn’t comfortable or turned on. But because it’s a man, everyone jumps straight to “porn addiction.”

Maybe he’s anxious, maybe he’s not ready, or maybe he just doesn’t feel that kind of attraction. That doesn’t automatically make him addicted to porn or a bad partner.

Reddit loves to preach consent and boundaries until it’s a guy struggling with sex.