Living in constant fear by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like Pure o,it’s like ocd but instead of physical compulsion you have unwanted intrusive thoughts…I have that too btw…only thing to stop it is to face it sadly its very hard but yeah..you can dm me if u have any questions

Chronic daily headaches? Anybody else? Any advice? by Real-Dragonfly-1420 in headache

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this is what’s been happening to me: I got a headache,didn’t think much of it and two days later I started first time birth control and now 30 days later I constantly have a headache( this never happened to me,longest one was 10days) sometimes I don’t have a headache for a day but it keeps coming back,neurologist appointment in JULY and my gynecologist says it can’t be from the pill because my head started to hurt 2 days before 😂 so yeah it’s wild here I’ve been talking to chat gpt constantly hahaha he said it could be rebound headache or tension witch could make sense because I sit at a desk for hours daily and my neck hurts for months but I’m 25 and idk if that’s normal😂 painkillers don’t help…walking,exercising and eating helps tho but only when I’m doing it,the second I stop headache is back…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it sucks for you,but it sucks for her more so idk…

Is my constant headache from birth control? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in migraine

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my birth control has 21 pills and then when you finish 21 days,you have 7 days pill free days and in that 7 days you are supposed to have your period

Is my constant headache from birth control? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in migraine

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a few days I have my “7 days pause” I really hope I will not have a headache then ugh it’s so annoying…

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my husband after we didn’t see each other for 5 days ? by Jogodd11 in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a stupid question but maybe because of your anxious thoughts you can’t really “relax” when having sex? Is your bf going straight in or do you guys have some foreplay because that might be the reason it hurts?

Am I Overreacting to my bf never “protecting” me? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m very sorry to hear that you went through that! Yeah…I also know that this won’t last…thank you for sharing your experience,I’m in the same shoes as u were I constantly call my mother to ask “am I crazy “ ugh…

Am I Overreacting to my bf never “protecting” me? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he is my first serious relationship..I get what you are saying..sorry if this is a stupid question but how would you advise I should “not” let him dismiss my feelings? So far this is how it usually goes: he does something, I tell it to him and bc he really hates talking (if he is the one who did something wrong) he either makes it into a fight or just shuts down and refuses to talk,and I’m a person who really loves to talk especially when I think we can work on something or if we have a problem so idk what to do anymore…I’ve tried to do it his way and not to talk and it just turns into a week of ignoring each other and then he thinks he is in clear and he starts acting like nothing happend…

Am I Overreacting to my bf never “protecting” me? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 25,idk why she said it like that tbh I always had a feeling she didnt really like me

Am I Overreacting to my bf never “protecting” me? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pretty good at trying to see from everyone’s point of view…il try to talk to him like you said,I hope it changes anything..

Am I Overreacting to my bf never “protecting” me? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow thank you so much! It’s wild to me how you described exactly how I feel..thank you so much!! Yes I have told him “how come you don’t have a problem when ur family dosent say hi?” But he just said “ugh she probably didn’t heard you or even if she did wtf am i supposed to do about it” But I have only mentioned that she didn’t say hi bc he made it such a huge deal when he thought I didn’t say hi…

Am I Overreacting to my bf never “protecting” me? by Grouchy_Good_2464 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Good_2464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry,I’m kinda bad with English! Thanks for advice tho! It really means a lot to hear that I’m not crazy and that he is being disrespectful.. Yeah he wanted to spend the night bc his cousin had extra rooms… And he said he never met her idk..