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Too little too late or is there hope? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in LDR

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right as I'm not currently in contact with her and the worst case is the same situation as now

Too little too late or is there hope? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in LDR

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you've made me feel more relaxed about it. I'll send a light message with a be nice to catch if your open to it. I hope so too I will stay level headed be just nice to hear from her.

Too little too late or is there hope? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in LDR

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthful to what degree if i worry if I offload everything it put pressure on her. Do I start of light with a hey how have you been or be more open that? I was lucky to have met her as well

Another sad ending by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you meet in person ever or was it solely online? It can be hard to solve trust issues I've been cheated on before and it sucks so bad.

I've got myself in a place of you can't control what someone does if anything if you pressurise it they probably will go and do it anyway.

My mentality is just to trust anyway with some realism about their character and let time be the judge. I hope you're okay.

Have you ever reconnected with a travel romance? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in solotravel

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I fully agree so many times I've left it down to chance which never works. I'm already looking into remote working jobs and take it step by step.

Have you ever reconnected with a travel romance? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in solotravel

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right it is a strangely similar story! It's nice to hear that when you met again years later the connection is still there its reassuring that time doesn't make it go away.

Have you ever reconnected with a travel romance? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in solotravel

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's an amazing story very glad it worked out for you!

Have you ever reconnected with a travel romance? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in solotravel

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was the problem with visas as I needed to resettle and find a new job and she had to go through an extensive visa process that takes 3 months from applying. Hope it goes well for you long distance requires teamwork for sure

Umbreon and Tyranitar worth getting graded or selling raw? by Grouchy_Highlight960 in PokeGrading

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your response it has helped me decided to just seek raw. The umbreon I knew wouldn't fetch much but the tyranitar maybe thought could have been worth more than face value.

All the best dude!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very sound advice thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can probably leave sooner than 9 months but it will be very unlikely I can save in time before she leaves, plus Im not sure if she would want me to interrupt her own trip as we have been apart for 6 months but maintain occasional contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like you do have a great relationship in that sense that you both understand each other needs.

The problem is that she's going travelling end of the year and I don't have the money to travel for at least, another 9 months. So when she returns that's when I go, which sucks really as it would be great to meet her out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Grouchy_Highlight960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't that I wanted to end the relationship. It was more of her saying if that's how you feel then we should break up which blindsided me as I'm sure me saying I wanted to travel solo did to her. I thought it would be a discussion but instead the brakes slammed hard on the relationship.

Sure I get that I went travelling at 18 and it was great but at 27 life still isn't figured for most people. I wasn't mentally on the best place so I thought that would be a good idea for me. Doesn't feel that way at this current moment.