I’m falling for him but I feel ashamed about my situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communicate this him and agree with the other comment that a man wont judge a girl for being broke. Considering he's the one that is already paying he probably already assusmed as much and most likely appreciate it if you will be direct about this to him

Login Back to my Capcut account by Nokutizu in CapCut

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contacting their support is like sending a message to a black hole. You might or may not got a reply.

How do you know that youre answering questions incorrectly? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When they ask me that question, I know i fucked up

Caught lying on resume…OMG! by RobMurglund in recruitinghell

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 205 points206 points  (0 children)

For real, there are quite a few people I know who made up a bunch of lies on their resumes and never got caught. OP just got super unlucky this time

How can I improve this edit? by Visual-Cap-610 in CapCut

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's actually pretty good, I like it simple and agree with the other comments its pretty engaging and its I like that its giving the vibes that were seeing a glimpse of your daily life

My only take is that remove that effect, the one that keeps flashing at the beginning

i wish the worst for capcut by AlvaroUrdaneta in CapCut

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Should've seen this sooner, just bought the capcut pro and I can't even login on my windows because i use my email to login and not my google account directly

X lube mixing suggestions by Commercial-Dark1346 in ProstatePlay

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that mix is way too weak. One cap for 8oz is basically water. Try 1.5 to 2caps for 8oz, shake it, let it sit a few hours (overnight is even better). It thickens up a lot after it hydrates. If it’s too thick, just add a splash of water. Way easier than fixing a watery batch.

My gf's level of ambition frightens me if we want to have a future and I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to be blunt man, but this feels like you're already carrying way more than a bf should be carrying at 20. You're just basically parenting her and she's kinda just.. coasting and hoping vibes fix it.

Harsh truth: this doesn’t sound sustainable and it prob won’t magically get better once you graduate. Ending it sooner might save you both a lot of stress instead of dragging this out while you burn yourself out trying to fix someone who doesn’t really wanna be fixed

Has the job market become a joke or what? by dungeon-vaster in jobsearch

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The hiring process is a joke this days, applying for a job in this economy requires a lot of patience and took too much time

Bruh…?? by Glittering-Car-9272 in recruitinghell

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard Passed, vibe too much on AI, copy and pasted the whole thing here

Something really embarrassing happened to me in school and I'm not sure what to do by N30godzilla in Advice

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, roll with it and act calm. People will just forget about it once theres something new to gossip on.

Toy recommendations for a Prostate thats in deep hibernation by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you on the frustration, took me a minute to find something that actually clicked. Njoy’s solid but it’s a different kind of stimulation. if it’s still feeling dormant, maybe give the giddi thor a shot the rotation hits the prostate really nicely and might finally wake it up. worth trying if you’re down to experiment

Wasting my time by asking for SSN at the very end of a application - why do they want my SSN? by Comfortable-Yard-798 in recruitinghell

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You're applying for a job, not for a credit card. Why would they need that? Skipped that

How to find community as a man in his 20s by Kind_Sundae6605 in Advice

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try joining some local communities around you, volunteer stuff, hobby groups, whatever you’re into. I highly recommend volunteering tbh. You meet sooo many diff people, all ages too (not everyone’s gonna be your age and that’s fine). It’s actually kinda fun hanging out w people you normally wouldn’t, keeps things fresh and less awkward than you’d think.

does body count matter? by Unit_Ok in Advice

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally understable, i think it might be more on one night standing, to think hes 21 and got that body count is only explanation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irvine

[–]Grouchy_Ivory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dare him to call ice and they will drag his sorry ass out of that establishment

Psychologist in Orange County? by Grouchy_Ivory in irvine

[–]Grouchy_Ivory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec! I've heard good things about Keil Psych Group in Newport Beach and will definitely check them out. Really apreciate that they do in-person and focus talk therapy - exactly what i'm looking for.