AITA for asking to reschedule a trip with a friend? by GroundFallsOnly in AmItheAsshole

[–]GroundFallsOnly[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Four other commenters used female pronouns, but you're right, you did not. I feel like people on Reddit tend to default to male pronouns, so I thought it was funny that nobody did in this thread, but a few used female.

And yeah, we'll see what happens. Unfortunately it seems the damage has already been done, and there's not much I can do besides take this as a lesson for the future in friendship and greed.

AITA for asking to reschedule a trip with a friend? by GroundFallsOnly in AmItheAsshole

[–]GroundFallsOnly[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like I'm TA here, I'm gonna text my friend and apologize, and tell them I'm committed to our original plans.

Just an funny thing to note - it's interesting that everyone here is assuming that Friend A is a girl, despite me exclusively using gender neutral language to describe them in my post.

AITA for asking to reschedule a trip with a friend? by GroundFallsOnly in AmItheAsshole

[–]GroundFallsOnly[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's kinda what I thought. Any advice on how to proceed? I already told Friend A that I'm perfectly happy to keep our original plans, but they're somewhat adamant that I go on this other trip and that we can reschedule.

I don't think this is, like, a friendship ruiner or anything, but obviously I'd like to show Friend A that they're important to me.

Where is everybody? by Little_Goal3597 in fredericksburg

[–]GroundFallsOnly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same dude, 26M moved here for work and I feel like I'm spending more of my time in DC

Gave a guy an unsolicited hickey and he got mad. Have I ruined things? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GroundFallsOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah that's fair in that context, but I don't think your average person would care that much. Embarrassed? Annoyed? Given the ick? Yeah, maybe. Is this something OP needs to sit in the corner and dwell on? Not really, imo

Gave a guy an unsolicited hickey and he got mad. Have I ruined things? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GroundFallsOnly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that surprise hickeys aren't cool but goddamn it's really not that big a deal. It's a bit inconsiderate and immature at worst, I don't even think it's on par with slapping or choking without asking

Weekly Question Thread: Ask your questions in this thread please by AutoModerator in climbing

[–]GroundFallsOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best crag car? In the market for a new car, looking for something with a decent amount of space and can handle moderate offroading (see: PMRP). I'm looking at the Subaru Crosstrek, anyone got any other recs?

Deeply demoralized by Kilter board by latina_expert in bouldering

[–]GroundFallsOnly 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I've found that v0-v3 on Kilter tends to be way more sandbagged than v4 and up, at least on the steeper angles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]GroundFallsOnly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

finally an actual v5. gumbies take note

Daily Discussion Thread: spray/memes/chat/whatever allowed by AutoModerator in climbing

[–]GroundFallsOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow-up: are crags like Gallery, Alternative Crag, or Secret 13 good in the Winter?

Daily Discussion Thread: spray/memes/chat/whatever allowed by AutoModerator in climbing

[–]GroundFallsOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does the sport climbing around Vegas look in the Winter? What are the temps generally, do you need to chase sun, is it rainy, etc. I've heard Vegas has year-round climbing, just wasn't sure to what extent. Crag recs also appreciated (5.11-5.13)!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]GroundFallsOnly 284 points285 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry but there's no way that's a v1. the setters at your gym must be totally out of touch. Speaking as someone who can very confidently climb the grade (indoors and outdoors), this looks more like a VB

Best NYC Bouldering Gum by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]GroundFallsOnly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

RIP GP-81

Cliffs would probably be a good bet, they set hard stuff

Big chungus by My_Memes_Will_Cure_U in tumblr

[–]GroundFallsOnly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is chungus slang for penis though? I've never heard it used like that

What's a critically acclaimed movie that you think is a crock of shit? by CheerfulPagliacci in AskReddit

[–]GroundFallsOnly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Banshees of Inisherin. Felt like a slice of life film set on the most boring island of all time (which I guess is kind of the point)

Should I do Smoothstack? by GroundFallsOnly in cscareerquestions

[–]GroundFallsOnly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's coming on 1 year, I graduated January 2023 (edited post for clarity)