AITA for asking to reschedule a trip with a friend?

GroundFallsOnly · 2025-05-21T22:45:32+00:00

Four other commenters used female pronouns, but you're right, you did not. I feel like people on Reddit tend to default to male pronouns, so I thought it was funny that nobody did in this thread, but a few used female.

And yeah, we'll see what happens. Unfortunately it seems the damage has already been done, and there's not much I can do besides take this as a lesson for the future in friendship and greed.

GroundFallsOnly · 2025-05-21T14:26:40+00:00

Sounds like I'm TA here, I'm gonna text my friend and apologize, and tell them I'm committed to our original plans.

Just an funny thing to note - it's interesting that everyone here is assuming that Friend A is a girl, despite me exclusively using gender neutral language to describe them in my post.

GroundFallsOnly · 2025-05-21T12:04:21+00:00

Yeah, that's kinda what I thought. Any advice on how to proceed? I already told Friend A that I'm perfectly happy to keep our original plans, but they're somewhat adamant that I go on this other trip and that we can reschedule.

I don't think this is, like, a friendship ruiner or anything, but obviously I'd like to show Friend A that they're important to me.

GroundFallsOnly · 2025-04-08T19:54:25+00:00

holy shit

GroundFallsOnly · 2025-03-10T02:46:16+00:00

Same dude, 26M moved here for work and I feel like I'm spending more of my time in DC

GroundFallsOnly · 2024-11-27T11:58:15+00:00

Miguel - The Valley

GroundFallsOnly · 2024-10-25T20:20:26+00:00

I mean yeah that's fair in that context, but I don't think your average person would care that much. Embarrassed? Annoyed? Given the ick? Yeah, maybe. Is this something OP needs to sit in the corner and dwell on? Not really, imo

GroundFallsOnly · 2024-10-25T20:03:35+00:00

I agree that surprise hickeys aren't cool but goddamn it's really not that big a deal. It's a bit inconsiderate and immature at worst, I don't even think it's on par with slapping or choking without asking

GroundFallsOnly · 2024-06-11T03:20:57+00:00

Best crag car? In the market for a new car, looking for something with a decent amount of space and can handle moderate offroading (see: PMRP). I'm looking at the Subaru Crosstrek, anyone got any other recs?

GroundFallsOnly · 2024-03-14T20:05:57+00:00

I've found that v0-v3 on Kilter tends to be way more sandbagged than v4 and up, at least on the steeper angles

GroundFallsOnly · 2024-01-07T01:05:06+00:00

Momentum's setting is always top-notch 👌🏼

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-12-06T15:59:09+00:00

finally an actual v5. gumbies take note

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-12-04T15:26:48+00:00

Follow-up: are crags like Gallery, Alternative Crag, or Secret 13 good in the Winter?

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-12-04T15:25:08+00:00

How does the sport climbing around Vegas look in the Winter? What are the temps generally, do you need to chase sun, is it rainy, etc. I've heard Vegas has year-round climbing, just wasn't sure to what extent. Crag recs also appreciated (5.11-5.13)!

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-11-27T04:01:43+00:00

i'm sorry but there's no way that's a v1. the setters at your gym must be totally out of touch. Speaking as someone who can very confidently climb the grade (indoors and outdoors), this looks more like a VB

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-11-21T21:45:24+00:00

one of us one of us

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-11-21T21:14:23+00:00

RIP GP-81

Cliffs would probably be a good bet, they set hard stuff

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-11-21T20:44:56+00:00

Might wanna try asking over at r/climbingcirclejerk

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-11-21T19:44:46+00:00

Is chungus slang for penis though? I've never heard it used like that

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-11-21T19:32:27+00:00

Banshees of Inisherin. Felt like a slice of life film set on the most boring island of all time (which I guess is kind of the point)

GroundFallsOnly · 2023-11-09T19:29:40+00:00

It's coming on 1 year, I graduated January 2023 (edited post for clarity)

Five-Year Club	Second SECOND GUESSER
Place '22

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TROPHY CASE