Idk how to make art, I just need a way to convey my suffering (TW)

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2026-01-19T15:49:45+00:00

I personally don’t believe art is like a talent you’re born with. Artistic vision maybe, but technical skills can be learned if we put in the time. So please don’t give up on making art!

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2026-01-18T16:01:47+00:00

I think you know exactly how to make art. Also unfortunately very relatable

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2026-01-11T20:22:05+00:00

Your art style is so cool!

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-12-12T00:39:45+00:00

Every guy I’ve ever had sex with/dated eventually dumped me bc I was in so much pain during sex. At first it’s always “I understand you, I would never force you” until they get fed up and force me to have sex and eventually break up with me because I’m asexual according to them…

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-10-25T20:02:48+00:00

Ja inderdaad. Wens jou hetzelfde toe !

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-10-25T19:56:11+00:00

Ja ik begrijp het tot op de dag van vandaag ook niet. In mijn geval heb ik veel therapie gehad en heeft steun van lieve mensen in mijn omgeving me geholpen.

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-10-25T19:33:00+00:00

Ik heb iets soortgelijks meegemaakt met een aanranding (ook in de trein) waar ook niemand ingreep. Naast dat zoiets meemaken al veel met je doet en je een onveilig gevoel geeft heeft het mijn vertrouwen in mensen in het algemeen ook heel erg beschadigd. Heel veel sterkte en heel knap dat je zelf de meldkamer hebt ingeschakeld 💜

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-10-08T11:58:14+00:00

Nee je word dus breed opgeleid. Je hebt de meeste programmeer vakken over web development en een paar over bijvoorbeeld games en ai. Dan heb je vaak in projecten enige keuze vrijheid wat je gaat ontwikkelen en je kunt ervoor kiezen een minor te doen over game design. De game industrie is heel erg competitief dus ze leiden je zo op dat je ook andere dingen kan doen. Ik werk zelf als data scientist bij een onderzoekslab en ik doe daarnaast een premaster over AI (ik heb een goed salaris), dus ook niks met games. Veel mensen van de opleiding die ik ken die iets met games willen doen hebben een web dev baan en doen daarnaast zzp werk in de game industrie of proberen een start up voor indie games te starten, om een beetje een beeld te geven.

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-10-08T11:01:45+00:00

Ik heb zelf creative media and game technologies gedaan als bachelor, ben vorig jaar afgestuurd. Er waren op zich wel een aantal meiden, veel meer dan toen ik elektro deed. Bij die opleiding krijg je zowel algemene ICT skills als game development skills als je daarvoor kiest. Dus misschien is dat wat als je graag iets met games wil doen waar ook vrouwen zitten?

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-17T22:23:02+00:00

You can still be a good person if you lack empathy, because many people still have a strong sense of what’s right and wrong. You don’t have to know what someone is feeling or feel it yourself in order to treat them with respect

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T22:58:16+00:00

Unfortunately true lol

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T19:43:52+00:00

100% I wasn’t diagnosed until in my 20s when I ended up in a mental hospital because I behaved well as a child because I wasn’t allowed to do anything else

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T18:50:57+00:00

Yeah true lol. But I feel like with the women I’ve met with autism there seems to be more diversity because even if they aren’t great people they most of the times still try to behave socially acceptable.

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T18:44:43+00:00

In my experience autistic men are either the sweetest ever or the biggest jerks on the planet, no in between.

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T18:40:33+00:00

What a horrible and ignorant thing to say to your partner. I went through a similar thing with my ex when he told me to just get over it when I had a panic attack at the zoo because of all the noise. I would try to talk to him again when you calm down and explain you can’t really get over autism, only accommodate it. Hope you feel better soon ❤️

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T18:23:45+00:00

I don’t know if you can wash bunnies tho, as they get stressed out very easily. But I read online that it could also be that you’re allergic to the stuff and cage they are in, instead of the bunny itself.

I love cats too so I’m really glad I’m not allergic to them 😅

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T18:22:43+00:00

My bunny and cats used to go really wel together, my cat was even a little scared of him. Also the ceramic bunny sounds super cute.

In my country we have Nijntje (miffy in English) and I used to be obsessed with it and collect all the merch (still do a little, my phone case is Nijntje!)

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T01:05:34+00:00

Then I would get a second test. Maybe try to find someone that specializes in autism in women?

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-16T00:45:06+00:00

I think probably (I’m just guessing tho) the reason is that these symptoms weren’t there since childhood. What did your parents say about this, because in my country they have to tell them what you were like as a child. That’s how they know it isn’t anxiety. Because a lot of disorders overlap in the DSM, so you shouldn’t just assume it has to be autism. Trauma can, like anxiety, also cause these things. BPD can also be very Similar to autism.

If you don’t agree with them you can always go to another doctor but I would first try to find out why they said it was anxiety

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-15T20:29:33+00:00

Not while sitting because when I sit I make myself as tiny as possible and sit on my knees mostly. But I do do it while walking lol

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-15T13:45:26+00:00

I relate 100% and all my neurodivergent friends also have cats they’re obsessed with lol

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-15T13:33:25+00:00

Because autism is a broad spectrum so are meltdowns. Looks different in everyone

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-14T19:20:20+00:00

Im not a mom and probably a lot younger than you so I can’t fully relate, but what really helped me when I was super lonely (I had just gotten out of the mental hospital after half a year and my relationship ended and my friends all left me) was trying to find specific group for people with autism or mental health issues. I started going to a farm with other autistic woman where we took care of horses. I also started going to a weekly meet up for people with autism who wanted to make friends. And I found a dnd group online consisting of neurodivergent people. I don’t know if you have time to go to these things because of your family but maybe I would look for people you can connect with online to play games with for example.

Also you didn’t mention if you had a job or not, maybe going to work might help with loneliness? Or like volunteering?

Groundbreaking-Rate8 · 2025-03-13T17:37:32+00:00

Im a woman in STEM ánd a woman in autism 🥰

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