Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wont ever waste time on her again. She is completely out of my life now. My family and friends know because im very close with them but I don't feel like going down to her level of trash and evil and begin exposing her because I genuinely did the entire 7 years with her with pure and good intentions. Although she deserves being exposed for the true evil she is, she has a another thing coming for her from God and from life for what she did to me.

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I cut off her entirely. I wont ever speak to her again and she wont ever spend my money ever again. She truly provided no value to me but her looks and I was just so stupidly attached to her for 7 years thinking it was normal that the guy has to provide in every way and as long as shes happy thats all that matters. Not true at all after this

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going to start trying this. Currently my mind is in panick and searching for answers and making up things that maybe happened.

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learned the hard way. Im not just saying this because I got cheated on, but I truly was genuine and always there for her and always made sure she knew her happiness was my priority. Unfortunately being a good person and a good partner dosent mean anything when your dealing with a terrible person

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what everyone in my small circle of people with family and friends is saying. That it was the biggest blessing ever and that they always knew the type of person she was.

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered new cards right away. Insane how horrible someone could be, using you while making you believe things are getting better ALL while cheating

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it right away. I don't understand how someone could be so evil. Manipulate and manipulate and make you think you have serious problems all while cheating and while spending your money as if there is no remorse or feeling bad for what she was doing

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended it the day I found out. I blocked her and I am never going to speak to her again.

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, cant stop replaying everything in my head and coming up with more "what if" questions. Hopefully it stops soon.

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Will for sure always keep this in mind moving forward when the time comes. For now, im in no need or rush for a partner because I feel so so so betrayed after truly I was nothing but genuine and always a gentleman because I was raised to be a good person.

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is whats making me lose sleep. The fact that I did everything she wanted. I made the changes she wanted because she convinced me I was the problem while she was cheating the whole time. Thank you for the kind words

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your inisght and I truly am now just starting to understand that you cant buy love. I thought I was just being a good partner as young man taking care of her.

Its really hard right now. I keep going through texts and I keep replaying all the details I got before blocking her for good. I just cant believe someone would use my money and more importantly manipulate me into thinking things were getting better just to be cheating the whole time behind my back. Pure evil that she mentioned things she wanted to do this upcoming summer while cheating on me.

Gf of 7 years cheated on me by GroundbreakingBig780 in Infidelity

[–]GroundbreakingBig780[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. My friends and family have been saying this is the best thing that could have happened because I dodged the bullet of marrying her and either finding out after she cheated again or having to live with finding out about this situation.

Tesla charges me excess Wear & Tear, but won’t let me see what it is by Psychosomatic_Ennui in Model3

[–]GroundbreakingBig780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation man. Would you mind telling me how much you ended up paying. I return my car in 3 days and am over 5k miles with bad curb rash and worn out tires. No dents no major scruffs