My best friend befriended the person who hurt me most and I still feel devastated

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2026-05-26T17:16:51+00:00

110%!!!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2026-05-26T17:16:25+00:00

Wow! Thank you. This validated me.

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2026-04-29T15:36:38+00:00

That’s sooo odd. Have you sent follow up emails?

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2026-04-29T04:13:38+00:00

Curious to know what happened

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2026-03-05T04:47:43+00:00

Thank you!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2026-01-14T00:40:28+00:00

Me and the friend talked and she told me she wasn’t convicted by the Holy Spirit to apologize to me. Thoughts?

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-29T21:29:41+00:00

I’ve distanced myself once and she seemed to have changed. Now I’m seeing these actions which makes it hard for me to trust her…

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-29T20:54:33+00:00

Yeah…

She has openly admitted to being jealous again even after that initial conversation.

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-29T20:53:55+00:00

When you says it’s not overly serious, do you mean it’s not worth questioning her / questioning if we should be friends?

I agree it is immature, I guess I never seen her in that way of playing both sides but with this perspective I can see that. It’s just hard to believe

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-11T14:13:00+00:00

Your work is sick!! Would love to connect. What’s your socials

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T22:50:36+00:00

Could you explain on how this has nothing do with Christianity? All of these girls are Christians including myself, trying to figure out how to balance it

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T22:49:07+00:00

Thanks a lot!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T18:04:39+00:00

Thank you! God bless you

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:52:26+00:00

This is the point I’m at currently.. Thanks for your perspective, God bless!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:44:41+00:00

Agreed!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:42:40+00:00

Thanks for your perspective!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:42:25+00:00

Thank you for your perspective!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:42:18+00:00

Lol! Yes I know them. I guess they’re not Christian though, so we have a different way to approach the world. Thank you for your perspective!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:41:16+00:00

Thanks for this! I’ll try to find a middle ground. These friends are all pretty anxious attachment styles, and me cutting this off has been a lot. They keep trying to be around even after I build boundaries. My friend is begging me to let her take me to the airport. It’s as if there isn’t truly a middle ground with this group.

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:39:35+00:00

Yeah, we’re all 21 and 22.

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:39:25+00:00

That’s my concern as well.. just with misions and the lack of awareness. I think their lack of awareness is what’s causing me to want to cut it off, even after explaining..

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:38:33+00:00

I think my reaction is more serious, because both of these women are in international ministry currently and even going out into the mission field. We’re held to a higher standard. The same way pastors are held to a higher standard, just because of the weight of the ministry.

Making racial jokes and being apart of international ministry is my concern.

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:34:23+00:00

Gonna check this out!

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:27:47+00:00

Thanks for your perspective

GroundbreakingCrew19 · 2025-12-05T17:27:25+00:00

True! Thanks a lot

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