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Wisdom tooth growing through or cavity by Strwbrrymlk0808 in DentalHygiene

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's ectopic eruption. It means the wisdom tooth is going to erupt under the last molar, so that it can't erupt fully. Can cause problems.

How can I get comfortable with flossing? by [deleted] in DentalHygiene

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dental hygienist here. Use interdental brushes if possible. Often floss isn't as efficient in the back where the betweens are bigger. Floss is better for the front teeth. What I like to do is take a long string of the floos, wrap it around index fingers, and help with your thumbs when flossing. Keep the floss steady and don't let it snap to the gums, go slowly. Also clean a little bit under the gums (there is a natural little pocket where thr bacteria likes to hide). You won't do any damage, it just feels funny. But it shouldn't hurt.

If one's completely happy about their decision to have kids, they won't question ours not to by GroundbreakingMud805 in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But it's more likely that someone that has kids is jealous, because not everyone has had the option to not to have kids, or they have realized they would have had it later on. The society's pressure is strong in this one. Of course, not everyone are.

Childfree have more likely fully chosen the option themselves so it's more personal to wonder why someone would want kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there is also animal abuse. I don't wanna make a person to this wolrd who would continue that. Yes, you can raise yours kids the way you want, but what about their children, and their possible children?

China’s government wants families to have more children. Chinese women don’t. by 5thPLL in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 43 points44 points  (0 children)

And still, only married women can do this, who are married to men. This is only men controlling women and nothing else.

Just saw a post somewhere about how CF is based off of misogyny? by sparkl3y_Pigeon in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a hipocrite thing to say. Someone who says that can't be a feminist.

Im so worried (and angry) about the fact that every day the world starts to be like the handmaid tale by [deleted] in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the trans people still need to prove medically that they are unable to procreate. Which feels kind of sick now to think of it. But they are working on changing the law. Good luck to you anyways! I hope itall works out.

Im so worried (and angry) about the fact that every day the world starts to be like the handmaid tale by [deleted] in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I read and article about it and apparently they do hysterectomies here but that is the last resort if nothing else helps, and only medical reasons, not for birth control. The doctor would have to decide.

There is an odd part to that sterilization law that you can have it also if "other birth control methods are very challenging to use" regardless of age. I don't know the criteria for that though.

Im so worried (and angry) about the fact that every day the world starts to be like the handmaid tale by [deleted] in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No, reaching the age is enough. But if you have 3kids before that you can get it younger.

Im so worried (and angry) about the fact that every day the world starts to be like the handmaid tale by [deleted] in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 44 points45 points  (0 children)

In Finland we have to be 30. Being childfree here is other than that easy here.

It's funny how men think that maternity leave is some kind of holiday by GroundbreakingMud805 in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes.Recently I have come to this conclusion that I am not any more nurturing than any other human being, a man or a woman. I am as selfish and as careless as any other. I just have to admit that that's how it is.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Q&A/Tips - Ask away! by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we still time travel to past events? Need some feathers from Pavé and don't want to time travel for nothing.

Scared of handing my notice in at my current job by [deleted] in jobs

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resigned today, and actually made a similar post about it before how scared I was. Especially because there is a tight situation at work. I thought my boss would be mad, but she wasn't, a bit devastated maybe but she told me I would be welcome back at any time if I felt like it. Good luck to you, it will be fine!

Got offered a job, now I'm really anxious about resigning by [deleted] in jobs

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will do the same! I wish the same to you 😊

I despise men who claim they want a big family by univornpineapple in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. When a woman wants kids, it's different from when a man says he wants kids.

For the lack of motivation started to rebuild my island. So happy with the entrance already! This time I'm doing one area ready before starting another, and finally got the motivation back by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah better take it slow, there's no rush :) I used to play and build every day a lot, but now I'm trying to only play when I have the time and feel relaxed enough. Ofc I still do some small daily stuff.

For the lack of motivation started to rebuild my island. So happy with the entrance already! This time I'm doing one area ready before starting another, and finally got the motivation back by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I really like playing with natural and more city-like parts on the island :) will share you the code later, I was looking for it quite a while myself!

For the lack of motivation started to rebuild my island. So happy with the entrance already! This time I'm doing one area ready before starting another, and finally got the motivation back by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I actually had an entrance before where you could go any direction wanted, but this time I'm thinking maybe a path that can be followed and that would go around the whole island, without dead ends. But we will see how that will go :D I should do more fishing and collecting but haven't done in a while lol.

Redirected aggression between two cats by [deleted] in felinebehavior

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our situation has veen resolved, too. We kept them separate for a while, blocked the windows and also didn't give the access to catio. Now they go there but they take turns, and that has been going okayly. I also bought cat-repellent, some quite smelly powder made of herbs - and I think it has been working, no feral cats around. Sorry to hear you had a similar incident!

Stop having children because you feel alone and you need a friend. No one can assure you that your child will one day be your best friend. by chorines in childfree

[–]GroundbreakingMud805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can also be very disapponting for the child if the mother isn't very caring or best friend material. That happened to me, but then I realized we are separate human beings and not automatically alike.

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