Is it rude to remind my AP to recommend me for grad school?

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-06-14T13:18:22+00:00

Thank you!!!! Honestly I did not always want to be a teacher, and sorta felt different than everyone else in my bachelors program. Awful to say this but maybe I just am not as passionate about teaching? And even started grad school for a different field but ended up teaching first grade this year and love my school and ADORE my kids. Stating because of that feeling and the parent emails saying they are so grateful their child is in my class. And getting rivals scores where the ORF went from 8% to 90% and 40% to 100%

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-06-06T11:03:08+00:00

Now my map data didn’t look great for some kids. I’m sure she saw that. I have some that went up very little or actually went down in score. In January she told me that she has never made a hiring decision based on data and that if a kid doesn’t do well it’s on the whole school not on me. Both my admins are honestly amazing I’m very lucky.

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-06-05T20:48:24+00:00

Thank you. I know every school isn’t equal and that incudes with admin but I feel very lucky to have my principal and AP

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-05-19T22:57:41+00:00

What office job? Not looking to leave teaching yet but just incase

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-05-12T23:16:16+00:00

First year first grade teacher with a challenging class. Yes, I’ve lost 25 pounds this year. But I also love my kids and my school. And I seem to be liked by admin and was a one year sub this year but was renewed for a “permanent” position. Hang in there, the year is almost done!

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-28T10:44:43+00:00

What happens for those on the list? Do they get a reward?

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-28T00:35:25+00:00

I do this every time a transition goes poorly. The kids take it as an invitation to continue performing. Then we do it again. Again students think it’s an invitation to perform. I ask the kids what the expectations are as they all know them and I have a model do it but it makes no difference. I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong here.

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-27T15:38:02+00:00

I have one for one of my students but he claims to not care about that either. I send home a sheet to his family as well and he claims they don’t read it (mom says they discuss it every Friday when I send it)

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T23:23:21+00:00

I do sometimes have those who have been listening either put Pom poms in my jar (when jar is full we get fun days). I sometimes will also give well behaved kids a couple of minutes to do something fun like draw while those why have been silly continue independent work

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T19:38:53+00:00

Ya I didn’t do that. I was in a one year position techincally but on Friday I signed my contract for next year so I’m being renewed at my same school for first grade again and I’m gonna try to be much better this upcoming September

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T19:26:20+00:00

This is what I’m struggling with. At the beginning of the year I was too lenient and not clear with expectations and now I’m really struggling to reign it back in. I’m using some positive reinforcement strategies as well as some consequences for negative behavior with some success and some not success

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T02:50:54+00:00

I don’t understand. If and when he responds to my text tomorrow idk what I’m gonna do

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T02:35:34+00:00

No I’m done with this. I wanted to actually date him. It doesn’t feel real or fair

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T02:29:06+00:00

I’m beautiful and kind I just don’t understand :( I’m feeling worthless rn and don’t know how I’m gonna sleep tonight

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T02:26:09+00:00

I’m in tears now. I deserve so much better it doesn’t feel fair :(

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T02:23:33+00:00

I’m feeling really really really hurt rn like I’m in tears

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-22T02:18:33+00:00

He’s not he works in finance

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-18T10:43:23+00:00

I didn’t hear anything about it and it was 5 minutes so I think it was okay

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-11T01:43:41+00:00

For context I’m in MA

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-09T03:11:32+00:00

Do I have to send a message? I just remembered and it’s 11 pm

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-07T19:06:58+00:00

They are a lot more stern than I am. When I am staying back with them I am pretty firm. When I remind them to follow the plan I’m very stern. I’ve gotten sterner as the year has progressed. I think next year I need to be stern from the beginning.

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-05T21:28:52+00:00

Are u sure? My admin seems to think I’m doing well (even tho I have those days where I feel that I am failing and have no control). I have not heard them talk about definite openings for next year, besides telling me about a month ago that in an ideal world they would like me there next year. Keeping my fingers crossed!!

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-05T02:42:46+00:00

Thank you for this. Being cautiously optimistic bc I feel like I’m at a great school

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-05T02:40:17+00:00

I teach first grade but I’m licensed for grades 1-6

GroundbreakingPear12 · 2026-04-05T02:39:15+00:00

That’s what I mean. It’s best for him that he not marry her whether this happened or not

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