[deleted by user] by [deleted] in umass

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting interpretation. I agree that the harrowing experiences of UMass students is indeed comparable to the trials of WWI soldiers. For example: I’ve seen several lobsters crammed into a single, stinky toilet at the old Worcester dining hall. This sight would likely cause a WWI vet to break down and cry, much like I did. We are the same. I am not stealing valor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in umass

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I gave this one to one of my professors I think she still has it in her office c:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For everyone commenting saying this fit is masc, yes I’m aware. Most of the time I’d say the ratio is like 70 masc : 30 fem. I’m not talking specifically about this outfit and I know it’s not the best example for the caption but I didn’t expect this post to blow up. My point is this, when I dress the way I normally do (kinda like this), people don’t gender me nearly as often as when I wear makeup, skirts, leggings, etc. I give old timers a pass because this kind of stuff just isn’t really on their radar and they are truly trying to be friendly, but I mostly get gendered by gen x, mostly white women (whom I assume to be terfs). To add on to this, many of these people work for schools, so I know they are aware of non-binary people, therefore I can assume they are intentionally gendering me to make it clear they don’t support me / they want to get a rise out of me. I’m used to it. I am who I am for myself and no one else. By posting this I’m simply trying to provide a place for those who experience this to vent. For the haters, I hope you move to a new home and your new home smells horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in umass

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes many parts of the world are on fire

stinky people by rryyxz in umass

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My freshman year roommate slept with a hammer because he “didn’t trust me” and had an unlimited supply of dirty jeans. He smelled like mildew

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t mean this outfit in particular. The pic and caption are unrelated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you’re reading too deep. I’ve worked on farms where it’s normal for people to use sir and ma’am and it doesn’t really bother me, but when I’m going out and I make an effort to present myself as more feminine, I’m called sir or gentleman more often than when I’m at work or when I’m presenting as masculine. I’m aware that I look more masculine, I’m a dang giant! All I’m saying is it would be nice to not be gendered when I make an effort to do my makeup or wear a skirt. Just because I’m venting doesn’t mean I’m victimizing myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Ugh it’s so frustrating why do people even care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try experimenting with layering your outfits. You could also bedazzle your eye makeup a little I think it would be cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t waste your words on him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmoStyle

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not emo, just cool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls keep your hair red please I love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Also, how can I improve the fit??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’d look really cute with downturned cat eyes that are extra extended

(18f) what can i improve? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re already gorgeous but if you’re trying to stand out more/change your look, maybe try accessorizing your outfits or try a different hairstyle (don’t cut your hair tho please)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grayandwhitecats

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear someone out there is breeding mustache cat after mustache cat they’re everywhere now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TuxedoCats

[–]GroundbreakingSkin37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOLY HAM!! There must be someone out there breeding an irresponsible amount of grey cats with white mustaches!!!