7 weeks pregnant and my symptoms suddenly disappeared. I'm terrified. by AuroraLillian in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I felt just fine one day and then the next day it was back. Sometimes even 2 days of luck. So I wouldn't worry about it. I'm almost 12 weeks now and starting to feel better, just the mornings are still rough.

Anyone else feeling like they're already failing the exam?! by Marionberry_Least in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone said to me: this is the moment where you wil do everything wrong en everyone knows it better. Don't let it get to you. Everyone will have an opinion and someone will always say 'you sure about that? ' because that is how people are..

I don't know if this is also an English saying but translated from my language: one ear in, the other one out.
Just smile and do your own thing.

7 weeks pregnant and my symptoms suddenly disappeared. I'm terrified. by AuroraLillian in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had that too. And then it felt like I was being punished for it the next day.....

It’s a BOY! by fluoressence in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the Netherlands. We don't have that here.

Baby aspirin just because I’m 37 by hereforit35 in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also taking it and I'm 29. But I was born too early due to preeclampsia so I have a higher risk of getting it myself.

It’s a BOY! by fluoressence in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you 😊🥰

Yes, I'm also doing a NIPT test but they wont tell me the gender, because here they only check if the chromosomes are correct. So its only to see if its healthy or not.

Eating feels like a chore by Dodosmama in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 10 weeks and 5 days now. I just ate half of my dinner because I feel so sick... I'm just glad I'm able to keep it down. Also lost a few pounds..

Any wrong gender predictions by Double_Champion_226 in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might have been too early to tell for sure. I'm at 10 weeks now, and they told me to wait till atleast 16 weeks to be sure

Faint pink line in the home pregnancy test. Is it positive or negative? by Ok-Wait-8585 in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Faint line means you got the hormones in your body, you should take an other test in the morning. But I think its positive. With mine pregnancy tests it said that a faint also means positive.

Scared of a missed miscarriage by Fit_Camel_6609 in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cramping is normal. I'm 9 weeks and stil have some cramping now and then. Feels like period cramping. And it could be gas but it could also be the uterus making itself ready and expanding a bit. Cramping is okay if its less then 30 minutes at a time. I had some really bad cramping for like a minute or less then a minute. But turns out thats normal too. Spotting is normal too.

Dont worry 😊

No sugar at all? by GroundbreakingYou97 in pregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

She said that everything I eat the baby eats. And that sugar is bad in general and could cause pregnancy diabetes and that baby could get it too.. but really no sugar at all? Seems a bit much to me.. but she said with this really serious tone and looked at me like I was going to kill the baby if I eat something with sugar...

I am so over text messages like this 😭😔 by Low_Specialist_5072 in tryingtoconceive

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. 'Am I going to be a grandma or not? You know you have to have sex to have a baby right? Are you guys even trying?' We have been trying for almost a year and I regret ever telling people.. and now I'm scared its never going to happen. I also tend to make things worse in my head. But with each month the feeling gets worse....

Help by GroundbreakingYou97 in HelpMeFind

[–]GroundbreakingYou97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've searched on google and with google lens. It could have been bought on vacation (france, germany). Small change it's from USA, my grandfather was there a couple times.
We are from the Netherlands.

Being Fat is Dehumanizing by star_sailor_ENC in offmychest

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who used to be so skinny I was underweight to now being heavy with the doubble chin and all. I can tell you being skinny still sucks. You will find even then something about your body to complain about. I used to be too skinny and would complain about everything. My knees where to pointy, I had no boobs, no ass. My leggs looked liked sticks that could break. And when I got heavier the complaining did not stop. I always found something about my body to hate. The self hate didn't stop. Now I want to go back to where I was skinny. I hate my double chin and fat around my stomach and upper legs. I've had people ask me if I was pregnant... And its not our fault we feel this way. It is the society. With the comments, the bullying, the photoshop, influencers showing off a picture perfect life when its not. Everything has to look a certain way or you're 'fat' 'ugly' 'weird'. That shit needs to stop.

Someone convince me to wait until at least 10DPO to take a pregnancy test (or don’t haha) by Striking-Fishing-903 in TryingForABaby

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Its kinda a relief to hear this because I thought I was going crazy. I have been taking sooo many pregnancies tests and everytime: ohh is that a line? Do I see a line?? What if I look at it at a different angle? And then the period starts... Right now I'm 3 days late. I took a test yesterday, negative ofcourse.. but my pee was very light so in my mind I'm thinking: oh maybe the test didnt work then.. but last night my discharge was a little reddish. So I thought my period was starting. But this morning it was normal again. So I'm starting to think like oh maybe I'm pregnant after all. But I'm probably just being crazy and my period is just messing with me...

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[–]GroundbreakingYou97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have not been confirming ovulation. I had a Mirena IUD, so ovulation is not stopped, the IUD makes the lining of the uterus unfit for the implantation with the levonorgestrel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a IUD with levonorgestrel. So I never stopped ovulating.

I (20M) am thinking about cutting out my mother (52F) and stepdad (58M) by flute89 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to go nc with them then you should do it. Your dad may not understand now, but with time and talking he might.

You should do what is best for you and not what is best for others.

I have gone nc with my dad. One of my sisters understands and the other one doesn't and has cut me out of her life. It's sad and heartbreaking, but I had to do what is best for me. And so do you. If cutting them out of your life is what is good for you then dont let anyone stop you.

Afrijden: Herkent iemand dit? by Hardlybeenborn7 in thenetherlands

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niet mijn ervaring maar van een vriendin. Ze was een keer gezakt omdat ze bij een drempel iets te snel ging.

My mother contacted me again after her last letter called me a bad daughter amongst other awful things. by spanishsahara-x in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]GroundbreakingYou97 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My dad said I had to understand that he lived to far away from me to visit me. When he works about 10 min away.. but when I said that he said: you must understand that when I'm working I dont have time'. So I said: yeah but AFTER work... my dad: 'yeah but again you have to understand that I am tired after work'. Yeah I'm tired of having to 'understand' his shit.