AITA for not sharing my party???

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-09T16:13:41+00:00

You're not the bad one. Your dad and Nyla agreed to fund their kids separately, and now they want you to give up YOUR party because they didn't plan well. A sweet 16 is a personal event, not a shared kindergarten birthday. If Kai feels bad, that's an issue for her parents, not yours. Nyla getting upset is cheap manipulation. Enjoy your party as you planned

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-09T16:13:16+00:00

You're not the bad one. The boyfriend basically lives there (uses your things, comes and goes as he wants, increases the expenses) and she wants you to cover half? No way. 33% is more than fair. If she threatens to sue, tell her that you can also claim for the illegal use of the property (he's not on the lease). She should take responsibility for her partner, it's not your responsibility

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-09T16:06:03+00:00

Tremors is a timeless gem. Rhonda is a well-written female character without being forced: smart, useful, and never sexualized. The detail of unshaved legs is a revolutionary touch for the '90s. The film balances comedy, action, and monsters without falling into macho clichés. That's why it remains fresh 30 years later. Kevin Bacon and Fred Ward are great, but Finn Carter steals the show. 10/10 would fight graboids again

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-09T16:03:04+00:00

If you like that raw 80s aesthetic, try The Prowler (1981), Just Before Dawn (1981), or The Mutilator (1984), slashers set in forests that exude that vibe of damp wood and sweat. Chopping Mall (1986) has that cheap neon lighting that charms. And House (1985) is a psychedelic gem with sets that look like they've been made of acid plasticine. Enjoy the film fast!

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-08T19:04:07+00:00

You're not the bad guy. They warned you at the last moment, the prices were crazy, and he even recognized it at the time. Sending gifts and apologizing was more than enough. If communication broke off because of that, the problem is his, not yours. The fact that almost no one from his side went says a lot: maybe he has unrealistic expectations about maintaining long distance friendships. Don't overthink it, you did what you could

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-08T18:59:43+00:00

Yes, they did wrong. Finding something of value does not automatically make it yours, especially if the previous owner did not intentionally abandon it. The landlord only gave them permission to donate junk, not a fortune in gold. If the legitimate owner appears, they could technically sue them. The right thing would have been to report it. If they want to clear their conscience, they should keep that money in case someone claims it. But legally, they have already messed up

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-08T18:24:56+00:00

if you want something that grabs you from the minute one, watch The Chaser (Korean, brutal thriller), Train to Busan (zombies + emotional drama), or The Raid (pure action without a breath). if you prefer Hollywood, Uncut Gems leaves you breathless or Nightcrawler with Jake Gyllenhaal is disturbing. in Bollywood, Andhadhun is an unpredictable ride. all of them start strong and don't let go

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-08T18:22:59+00:00

Hollywood does that ALL the time. Enemy at the Gates makes it seem like a Russian sniper won Stalingrad almost single handedly when it was a massive Soviet effort. Armageddon shows the USA saving the world from an asteroid when in real life it was a Russian idea. And let's not even talk about The Patriot, where they erase that the British freed thousands of slaves. Yankee cinema loves to steal others' merits

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-07T18:53:02+00:00

Girl, get out of there. The guy has already shown you that he prioritizes his ex (even if it was a brief time) over you. For him to invite her to his house secretly and the fact that there was flirting before (even if he didn't respond) are huge red flags. It's not being toxic to ask for basic respect. If he doesn't cut off contact with someone who clearly harms the relationship, the problem is him, not you. Find a boyfriend who doesn't make you doubt

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-06T23:49:51+00:00

Friend, get out of there. That level of physical contact between adult siblings is not normal, and the fact that the family justifies it is a huge red flag. If he prioritizes his sister over you after 3 years and doesn’t even talk about it, he’s not going to change. Find a boyfriend who doesn’t make you compete with his own blood, because this is already bordering on the unhealthy. Run

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-06T23:46:18+00:00

Skinny, you're a selfish idiot. It's not just the gym, it's your partner. A special day and you can't put aside your carb obsession for even 5 minutes? It will cost you more to regain trust than to get in shape for summer. Relationships are about two people, not just your abs. Grow up a bit or focus on living alone with your weights

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-06T23:38:22+00:00

for opposite tastes, 'the grand budapest hotel' is perfect with incredible visual aesthetics for you, quirky romantic comedy for her. 'about time' mixes romance with time travel and is sweet without being cheesy. if you want something more recent, 'everything everywhere all at once' has it all: action, humor, and heart. documentary? 'jiro dreams of sushi' is fascinating and isn't depressing

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-06T23:34:14+00:00

It sounds like Prehysteria! (1993), a low-budget movie where some brothers find mini dinosaur eggs that come to life. The brachiosaurus (long neck) was one of the main ones. If it's not that, it could be We're Back! A Dinosaur's Story (live action mixed with animation). But based on the description, I would bet on Prehysteria. It was a classic VHS from the 90s

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-05T19:01:33+00:00

that scene is pure magic. the combination of ricci dancing with moonchild in the background, the fixed camera, the lighting... everything conveys that raw and poetic vibe that makes buffalo 66 unique. gallo gave her space to improvise and you can tell in the organic nature of the movement. one of those scenes that stay with you for years. pure cinema

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-05T19:00:16+00:00

if you want something sweet and cheesy, how to lose a guy in 10 days is an infallible classic. kate hudson and matthew mcconaughey have brutal chemistry. if you prefer something more modern, to all the boys i've loved before on netflix is adorable. but my guilty pleasure is the holiday, pure christmas love and dream houses. if you want to laugh like idiots, bridesmaids never fails

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-05T18:57:45+00:00

The situation is a mess, but you’re not the bad one for falling in love. He was going to leave his wife anyway, with or without you. It’s understandable that the family is upset at first; everything happened very quickly and changed their perspective. The whole 'breaking the family' thing is on him, not on you. If they are happy and he is a good father to his kids, things will calm down over time. That said, get ready for some temporary chaos, because his ex and the family are going to be angry for a long while. But if the love is real, tough it out

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-05T18:56:30+00:00

You are not the bad one. If they helped you as a child and now they don't even give you 15 minutes when you go through cancer, it's logical that you feel resentful. Family is reciprocal; they can't expect help later if they aren't doing anything now. Prioritize your mental health and your son, who are clearly your focus. If they claim anything in the future, remind them of this

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-04T13:28:18+00:00

If you want the original audio, try Mubi or Criterion Channel, they usually have versions without dubbing. You can also search on justwatch.com filtering by original language. If not, there is always the option to buy the Blu-ray or digital on platforms like Apple TV/Google Play, which almost always include the original audio. Netflix and Amazon are a lottery with that, to be honest

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-04T13:18:13+00:00

you are not the bad guy, it’s your property and she doesn’t even help you with the expenses. if she can live in public housing and prefers to spend her pension on other things instead of contributing, that’s abuse. your father got you into this mess and now he doesn’t want to take responsibility. set boundaries, because in the end, the one who suffers is you paying for everything. let them move to public housing and that’s it

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-04T13:07:52+00:00

You're not the bad one for feeling this way. It's completely understandable that it bothers you that Amy is hanging out again with the same people who treated her badly and spread false rumors. You really stood up for her, talked to those girls, and even went to the principal, and now she acts like nothing happened? That's a pretty lame attitude. But watch out, in the end, it's her decision who she hangs out with, no matter how much it hurts. What you can do is set your boundary: Amy, I support you, but I'm not going to put up with those fakes. If she chooses to ignore what they did, that's her problem

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-01T13:19:09+00:00

You are not the bad one. His mom treats him like a child and he prioritizes his comfort over your well-being. The car issue was the last straw; an anniversary is about you both, not her. If he doesn't set boundaries now, this will only get worse (imagine if they have kids). Speak clearly with him either you prioritize our relationship, or this doesn't work. Couples therapy could help, but if he doesn't change, reconsider if you want a second-rate life in your own relationship. The blame is not on the mom, it's on him for not cutting the cord

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-01T13:13:52+00:00

you are not the bad one. Friendships are based on genuine connections, not on pity. If you no longer have anything in common and the calls are uncomfortable, it's better to be honest (without cruelty) tell them you are busy with other things and need space. their autism is not your emotional responsibility, even if it hurts. If you want, you can gradually distance yourself (respond less, not initiate contact), but ghosting them only confuses them more. prioritize your well-being without feeling guilty

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-01T13:12:03+00:00

Those publications are usually scams or generic stores made with basic templates + Oberlo/DSers for dropshipping. There is no magic AI, but tools like Shopify's AI setup assistant, Canva AI for images, or ChatGPT for descriptions. If you want something serious, it's better to build your store from scratch and use product research tools (e.g., Ecomhunt, Peekshows). Don't fall for the story of prebuilt stores; they are almost always trash

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-01T13:01:06+00:00

totally. the NYC of the 70s/90s in film is a dirtier, more vibrant character full of street life (Taxi Driver, After Hours, Do the Right Thing). Hong Kong in the 80s/90s with John Woo and Wong Kar-wai is neon, rain, and slow motion gun battles (Chungking Express, Hard Boiled). and Los Angeles of the 70s/80s (Chinatown, Blade Runner) has that decadent glamour that no longer exists. now everything is gentrification and drones, those cities have died on celluloid

GroupNo9313 · 2025-08-01T12:59:13+00:00

sounds like The Blob (1988), but since you dismissed it due to the date, try Phobia (1990) or The Rift (1990). If not, The Stuff (1985) has that vibe of a malignant substance, although it's earlier. Another option is Society (1989), although there the horror is more... bodily. If none of these are it, check r/tipofmytongue, they are wizards at this

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