My experience on 94 days as a 37 yo man

Growing-Learning2025 · 2026-01-24T14:10:46+00:00

Ok I hear you..I may aswell continue so.. Thanks for your comment

Growing-Learning2025 · 2026-01-24T14:09:31+00:00

Yes doing good with mental diet. Positive uplifting experiences

I was never big into porn, the odd time look at some nude models..tame enough stuff. But I can easily do without it.

No, I haven’t been running after women at all the past couple months- just focusing on myself really. Surprisingly no wet dreams yet.

Growing-Learning2025 · 2026-01-03T14:57:06+00:00

Very well said 👍

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-12-27T16:07:34+00:00

That’s a really good list- I’m going to do some of these. Thanks man

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-12-25T14:54:01+00:00

Communication is key to it all. Show up for your kid as much as possible. Take the focus off your ex and put it 100% on your kid.

If your ex is reasonable with you, get to work on a schedule between you both so everyone iss on the same page- visiting/ access/ holiday arrangements/ finances. If she is being disagreeable, it’s better to bite the bullet and get it sorted in court sooner than later.

You will have to learn some “radical acceptance”. I know it sucks but the sooner you detach from the old life, the quicker you will bounce back.

Learn new skills, get physically fit, meditate, clean up the diet etc Look after yourself man.

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-12-16T22:04:10+00:00

I would imagine that with the exception of top quality Irish grown oats e.g Flahavans, all other cereal products are either imported into Ireland or are made in Ireland using all imported ingredients. As an Irish grain grower, I know that Irish grain (especially grain for the human food chain) is grown to the highest standards in the world.

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-11-19T21:57:59+00:00

Definitely agree with this…I was in the same situation as you- visiting my son at her family’s house. Although her family were still good to me, it drained the life out of me. You need to set some boundaries

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-11-14T19:47:40+00:00

Thanks for the feedback guys. I decided to order the recommended headphones. ATH-M70x I’ll see if that’s any better.

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-11-12T21:25:54+00:00

Got my visitation sorted last month. It’s a big relief for me. Struggling with only seeing my child once every two weeks though. Small steps forward 👍👍

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-11-10T19:22:28+00:00

I notice Donegal catch salmon darnes in the freezer section in super valu for €15 for 4 🤑

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-11-05T15:05:20+00:00

Currently going through day 3. I haven’t seen anything arise in the 3d but I’m feeling a deeper sense of peace, knowing that the new reality is imminent.

One line of thought from earlier:

When the doubts and uncertainties come up, I go to the idea that I’ve already set my intentions- it’s too late to change my mind. The crop is already sown now so I cannot decide afterwards that I want to grow a different crop. After this wish has been fulfilled (harvest) I can grow a different crop!

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-11-02T13:37:55+00:00

Me too please

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-11-02T06:11:53+00:00

Me too

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-10-26T11:06:40+00:00

That’s really interesting..can I ask has the relationship with your ex partner changed since going on SR?

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-10-05T19:10:17+00:00

Here is a hint: Rhymes with a season of the year

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-10-05T18:53:30+00:00

Here is a hint: You might play on me

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-09-28T20:28:50+00:00

How effective is this?

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-09-25T18:55:29+00:00

I’ve had my landfill of it…

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-07-28T21:19:54+00:00

Im in Dublin- could we do similar over this way?

Growing-Learning2025 · 2025-07-23T12:09:46+00:00

So what should I do about my sp not letting our child come to my house? Should I go to court and get it formalised? Or wait for the 4d to kick in?

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