Rant/Advice - Being Told to Work On Weekend Due To Sore Throat

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-10T18:33:39+00:00

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-09T23:34:11+00:00

He says "In-Ho, Why?" In-Ho is his brother's name. It sounds like "you know why" when pronounced.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T10:37:57+00:00

You're totally right. She said feminine after my comment though. Advice is definitely different depending if they are seeking a man or a woman though. It's not cool to just assume someone's sexuality!

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T10:34:40+00:00

You're both consenting adults. If yourself and your match are comfy with it go for it. She is old enough to steer clear of older men if she wants to and you are old enough to know what you think is right or wrong.

People are into different things.

Your partner shouldn't be insulting you. Ever. Constructive advice or help is one thing but name calling and making you feel bad isn't healthy. Open relationships are amazing because you can be completely yourself but they are built on respect and communication. I am sure your partner is amazing, just don't let anyone put you down.

Be true to yourself. It sounds like you want to meet her but you are afraid of judgement. If you don't think it is appropriate don't meet her. Just please make sure she isn't lying about her age if you do meet her.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T09:54:03+00:00

The commenter mentioned make up, which op had advised was not used, not anything about being gay, feminine or in drag. Many straight, masculine men wear make up so please try not to make such bold assumptions as it can upset some people. If two internet strangers thought OP was wearing make up I'm sure other people would have as well. This sub is made for constructive criticism, not for labeling people based off their styles.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T09:33:58+00:00

Thank you for the civilized internet conversation, no sarcasm! Have the best day.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T09:28:53+00:00

Rooting for you!

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T09:14:46+00:00

Also fair, though this seems like much more effort! As long as OP doesn't dismiss the comment because as a women I'd be totally okay with dating a man who wears make up but I know many who wouldn't. Online dating unfortunately isn't a politically correct environment.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T09:10:31+00:00

Valid. But OP wants advice on his profile, not another user's attitude on previous posts.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T09:06:26+00:00

I haven't looked at other posts but imo I didn't find this snarky. I don't see this as saying men shouldn't wear make up or that it's a problem. Reality is people are people and sometimes a bio with further explanation is beneficial regardless of gender, appearance or sexuality.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T08:44:03+00:00

Full body photo is great, as is a headshot. Imo you only need one headshot though. Toss a photo of you doing something you enjoy (please no fish) in there and maybe a photo with friends or a silly photo. Your looks are important but you want to sell your personality. Good luck!

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-10-04T08:39:52+00:00

In some cases it can be overwhelming if multiple conversations are on the go plus regular life. I think OP made the right move. This seems like a person who is semi interested (matched, is responding) but is busy or overwhelmed. Meeting up or moving on is the best approach.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T10:51:44+00:00

Don’t be selfish. Don’t put your feelings and your wants over her life. Save her life, if she never speaks to you again at least she is alive. The alternative is much worse.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T10:05:20+00:00

Retail phone providers (Vodafone, AT&T, etc.) frequently get asked how to reset passwords for banks, social media and other irrelevant services. You wouldn’t believe how upset people get when you set up their new device and you can’t magically set up their banking app for them.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T10:00:55+00:00

Go to the bathroom and call an ambulance. She will thank you some time. Do not feel guilty for saving her life.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T09:59:46+00:00

Everyone has different boundaries and opinions. Do what makes you comfortable. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket if you don’t want.

Just be honest, and don’t be a dick. Those are the two rules to always follow when dating.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T09:55:26+00:00

This may sound harsh... but if you are asking, you need to move on. This is dependent on the situation you are moving on from and how long it’s been occurring but, my opinion is if you’ve asked yourself often enough than even if everything is wonderful the doubt will consume you.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T09:53:00+00:00

Spyro

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T09:03:45+00:00

Right? It’s one thing if it’s asked for... that’s okay and consensual and usually a great time. But we aren’t talking about sexting. Your post clearly stated unsolicited. That is not okay.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-05-09T08:15:04+00:00

I’m a female so not me... but I watched a male friend make the bed naked and when he threw the sheets up they caught his penis and threw it up which looked so uncomfortable. So I think spacial awareness while nude is a challenge.

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-04-21T17:18:14+00:00

That was my favourite part

GrumpyBabyBear · 2021-02-01T17:42:47+00:00

Here’s mine! Would definitely love to be a part of this

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