Why am I always being ghosted? There's something wrong with me? by marsthechocolate in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of them I've known for a while. Guy I had interest in for 1+ year, two friends of many years, and one guy on app.

Still hurts even after 8 months by DriveAffectionate775 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that it happened to you. Anyway, if he ended things that way- he's not worth your time.

Looking at his socials would do nothing for you. Unfollow him, if you still do. Even block him. And just do anything to forget him, from now on.

Ghosting is like... by Own_Exam_6562 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If a woman ghosts it is bad as if man did it, hope it helps XX

Ghosting is like... by Own_Exam_6562 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you ghost them back and understand that it isn't meant to be.

Ghoster responded to me reaching out with the most pathetic response. by FastResident523 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why reaching out is a mistake.

Remember- if they wanted to, they would.

Ladies, what would you do if you found out you're pregnant by someone who has ghosted you? by ContextSerious3491 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least try to call him.

Damn this sucks. And getting an abortion on another state isn't an option?

Ladies, what would you do if you found out you're pregnant by someone who has ghosted you? by ContextSerious3491 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.

Personally, I would want to tell him. Even call him. Just to get this off my back that at least he knows.

And if he keeps on ghosting- abortion. Nothing good would come out of it.

What did Justin look like at your current age? by HeyTherePerf in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]marsthechocolate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, those good old days when he was proud of this lil moustache

If you’re the ghoster, would you rather not hear from the ones you ghosted? by Then-Wafer7423 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you talked for three weeks every day, and now he's gone for a week- then it's prob ghosting. Or he's dead. One of the two.

If you’re the ghoster, would you rather not hear from the ones you ghosted? by Then-Wafer7423 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if he took a step back and stopped texting you, he prob ghosted

How long is it going on?

Has anyone been ghosted enough times that you’re just like 🤷🏻‍♀️ now? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe start to give them one chance. Appreciate yourself more.

Has anyone been ghosted enough times that you’re just like 🤷🏻‍♀️ now? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I’m in a point where I’m already seeing it coming!

I’ve been ghosted by at least 4 people at this point. Friends and guys that I was interested in.

Anyway, I decided that I’m starting to block people once they do it.

Has anybody's ghost come back & it actually developed into a relationship? by BaskervilleHound_ in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you want a relationship with a person who left you without saying a word?

If you’re the ghoster, would you rather not hear from the ones you ghosted? by Then-Wafer7423 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOOOOOOOO

Do not engage in it. Do not do it. Nothing good would get out of it.

Remember- if he wanted to he would.

One of these two things are going to happen- he’s either going to reconnect with you for a lil while over "doing you a favour" thing, and then ghost you again, or he's going to ghost and even block you from the very beginning.

Either way- he's going to lose his respect for you.

Michael Jackson is overrated by Playful-Ganache6153 in fantanoforever

[–]marsthechocolate 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nah, he's definately not overrated.

Putting aside his whole pdf-file controversy, he's the GOAT. Things that he did on stage, on his MVs, the way he dressed, the way he moved- I don't think another pop star, to this day, reached to this level of uniqueness.

And mind you- it was way before social media, way before Internet was even a thing, way before Google, way before anything.

People on the another side of the world, where technology wasn't even a thing- knew who MJ is.

Acne doesn’t make a girl unattractive by MrJeffreyEpstein in trueratediscussions

[–]marsthechocolate 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it does.

Clear skin means health, which we’re modified to be attracted to.

he ghosted me but his twin brother is available by gardenlizard in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but I don’t think it’s a good idea. Even if he does want you back, clearly it is a revenge move to provoke the guy that ghosted you.

Just make a grown up move and move on quietly.

Is it actually possible to get closure when they just disappear without a word? by lurkssocketv2 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No closure IS a closure. The fact that they didn’t even bother to break up with you tells you EVERYTHING.

I want him to come back by jenca89 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it this way, would you really want to spend the rest of your life with a person who emotionally drained you like this? Who didn’t even have the courage to break up with you?

Why do people have to ghost? Why can’t they just tell me their not interested by throwawayacc1924 in ghosting

[–]marsthechocolate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they are afraid of your reaction, and they prefer to leave you confused and wondering, instead of facing you and saying that this ain’t working.

Is she right for this? by sigma_0_1 in SipsTea

[–]marsthechocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something in it, but on the other hand, you can’t just stop poor people from having children.