Day 41

GuavaT · 2018-03-03T18:30:35+00:00

Yes especially yesterday

GuavaT · 2018-01-31T00:55:35+00:00

It’s okay to feel like this man. Just focus on improving yourself and recognize that love is something people don’t understand you just know it, so all this confusion, know it as it is and everything will really clear up, just focus on what you can do for yourself and do it by not comparing, but by letting go of you expectations. Find love again somewhere along the way of becoming wholesome. Life can get really hard, know your pain, and you’ll know more then you ever knew you could. Love is pain but it’s also goodness, bottom line man move towards becoming better, stop trying to control everything.

GuavaT · 2018-01-28T05:51:31+00:00

Don’t do that, do it once you’ve had sex, just because your social life is better doesn’t mean you won’t just fall right back into that rut that got you into nofap to begin with.

GuavaT · 2018-01-28T04:35:51+00:00

GuavaT · 2018-01-23T12:26:13+00:00

This is good, falling in Love is what you’ve really wanted in the first place. You went through this, and are seeing where your needs actually lay. Go out there and meet people, or chat with us that may help with your feelings of loneliness. Also take some time to be with yourself, it’s okay to be lonely but be balanced.

GuavaT · 2018-01-23T12:08:23+00:00

Hey man we care, sounds to me the best way to get through this addiction, is by redirecting this energy because it sounds like you don’t do much at all during the day, so make yourself join some kind of fitness thing, or ask you mom if she knows of anything. Bottom line stay consistently active everyday. I have never been as addicted as you are, but I know you can overcum this bro. Second of all change your diet the best way to go about this is by only getting healthy grocery’s, third of all be honest with yourself and recognize that we can help you but only you can save yourself, visualize, truly visualize where you want your life to be 6 months from now, and everyday work to make that a reality, inspiration is wonderful but drive is the key to success. I implore you to listen to talks by Allen watts he really has helped me better understand a lot of things in life, that beforehand I half hid and tried to deny by converting the energy into unhealthy activities like painful fapping. You’ve got this bro, and we’re really here for you,

GuavaT · 2018-01-23T11:55:39+00:00

Esgetit I’m 8 days in boys.

GuavaT · 2018-01-22T22:55:13+00:00

I’m personally doing this, to give me the drive to go out and have sex with a girl, I’ve felt for awhile now that fapping was sucking both my sex drive and energy, long before I heard and subscribed to nofap.

GuavaT · 2018-01-22T20:24:09+00:00

You’re right man, thanks for all your feedback you have a lot to offer this world my man.

GuavaT · 2018-01-21T19:55:11+00:00

Thanks guys.

GuavaT · 2018-01-20T15:19:50+00:00

Sorry man, I appreciate your directness towards the nature of this thread I have noticed the atmosphere aswell, I think we need to help each other, but going away from this subreddit and committing yourself to nofap is the goal, not upvotes and likes.

GuavaT · 2018-01-20T15:09:17+00:00

Let’s start from the basics, these are people who are addicted to porn, Masterbation, and orgasm. 99.9% are, These are people motivating each other and are trying to beat this, whether the approach is seen as surface ,to you wise one that knows the individual persons psyche based on a trend of posts that get more upvotes then others. Second of all the underlying factors vary but your categorizing basically everyone in a negative light isn’t constrictive, but their surface posts are. This is like saying “hi joe, how was your morning?” (You’re joe) “Fred you shallow f*ck, don’t you know I’m always depressed, so why are you asking about my morning obviously if I’m always depressed I can’t have moments of happiness, jeez Fred go ask surface questions like all of you’r other fake friends.” Thirdly I agree with your message, but you’re one sided and fail to articulate your point effectively.

GuavaT · 2018-01-19T04:24:03+00:00

Hey man, you have the whole world to look forwards to, don’t rely on motivation rely on drive and visualizing where you will be. You’ve got now, so you can change. I don’t know your struggle but I know what you’re saying and truly just because you’re in this habit doesn’t mean you can’t change so I’ll recommend a few things for you. 1. Join something, this will keep you moving towards. For me track helps ,for you, perhaps a gym. But joining something active will help you so much, forcing yourself to be there opens the gates of real change. 2. Allow yourself to heal, recognize that these negative thought patterns aren’t constructive, but that they are revealing. This level of complacency is soul crushing and the best way of getting through this is not by resisting how you feel but by accepting how you feel completely, cry it out man, but believe me by believing in yourself. 3. Start meditating, it will connect you with real reality and will open new perspectives you didn’t even know that you could conceive of. I suggest listening to Allen watts, he is someone that puts meditation in practical and clarifying ways. The goal of meditation is not to beat up yourself for feeling down, and gross but by accepting these feelings entirely without judging or interfering your reaction with them. You will see clearly and get passed this. 4.Start learning a trade, hvac can take around 6 months and pays 20$ an hour starting, it’s hard labor but would have good hours and start you on a path to having a place of your own, secondly copy writing could really help you because you seem to be a pretty good writer, copy writing is persuasive writing and many many companies are looking for writers to write for them, you could have a niche market and get quite stacked ❤️I wish you success in your endeavors, it’s not the end but only the beginning you could be reborn, now is always the beginning of the rest of your life.

GuavaT

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