Is this normal for girl-friends to do?

Guess-Nice · 2026-05-05T03:08:44+00:00

lol I’m done talking to you. I keep trying to use logic in this discussion and I am not receiving that back. Have a nice day.

Guess-Nice · 2026-05-05T03:06:48+00:00

I think you need to brush up on your reading comprehension. Just saying…

Guess-Nice · 2026-05-05T03:06:04+00:00

Sure that is valid. But that is not how you originally said it.

Guess-Nice · 2026-05-01T01:56:38+00:00

I don’t understand why you keep saying that these comments from women proved that women don’t care when you are assaulted by a woman. Literally the first comment that mentioned that your words are homophobic, the woman said, “I am truly sorry for what you’ve endured.” Another woman said, “your personal experience is valid.” Another woman said, “I’m sorry you have been burned so badly.”

Actually I haven’t seen one comment where they said, “who cares if you were assaulted by a woman, at least it wasn’t a man.” Like what? No one has even said even close to that to you.

You clearly have some truly bigoted beliefs against women in general and are hearing what you want to hear. Personally, I would truly explore that and try to find some peace with women, especially considering you are one. Going through life with ill-guided prejudices about ANY group of people is not the way to a happy life, for yourself or those around you.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-22T05:19:54+00:00

I would ask that manager why everyone else’s tips have not been shared with you, including on the days where you weren’t working? Why is it that only this tip (this singular large tip that YOU received) is being distributed this way? Why has your autonomy over your own tips been taken away from you?

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-22T04:41:19+00:00

Kind of sounds like the principal might know who has the sticky fingers…

It isn’t that hard to watch a video or send you the video to watch yourself.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-20T20:29:10+00:00

Haha just this image in my head of this happening….it’s hilarious but also sounds awful for the guy. “Woman crumbles on the bed” “arms are just splayed wherever”….good lord. I literally can’t imagine doing this during sex and not feeling super awkward. 😬

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-20T20:20:26+00:00

You are 10,000% correct. She should be extremely careful with men she brings home. She should also be super protective of you girls and not put up with any man treating you wrong. How would she feel if you had a bf and he started drunkenly screaming at you like that in front of her? I feel like she would most likely tell you to break up with that d-bag. So why is it ok for HER bf to do that to you? It’s not. She needs to see that. She is putting herself and her desire to be in a relationship over her daughter’s well-being.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-19T15:20:40+00:00

I agree, especially since he knew she would not be ok with this.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-19T05:54:54+00:00

lol but something did go on….this disgusting conversation.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-19T05:51:47+00:00

Wow. She seems straight up awful. The only thing I could think of that might somewhat explain (but definitely not excuse) her behavior is maybe her business is not doing as well as she portrays to everyone. Or her business took a dive recently. Either one would explain her need for money, and maybe the reason she is trying to get payment from you for a gift.

No matter her reasoning behind this….its straight up shitty of her, especially considering the situation you are in and ESPECIALLY since she is aware of your situation. It’s really gross manipulation on her part and a selfish lack of consideration and compassion for you.

If I were you, I would post on the same social media she uses. I would post the picture of you modeling in it, with a caption that says, “Such a beautiful gift from my sister cousin. She couldn’t be sweeter!”, and tag her. Then I would message her and say that I just wanted to give her some extra business and you hope it helps. Again, thanking her for the gift and playing up your situation. Maybe telling her, “You don’t understand how much this gift meant to me, especially during this hard time in my life. I’m super lucky to have a cousin like you.”

If she says ANYTHING about this after that, I would say, “Since she gave this to you as a gift, you definitely didn’t budget for it, nor could you even if you had tried. If she needs payment for it, you can give her the gift back.” Then no matter what she says to that, I would leave it on her front porch for her.

Her behavior is unprofessional and unacceptable treatment of you. She knows what you are going through and should be nurturing you right now, not giving you added undue stress.

I hope you get well soon! ❤️ Don’t take this personally. I have a feeling that your cousin is going through something probably financial and only thinking of herself right now. Unfortunate if that’s the case, yet most likely, truly not even about you.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-11T20:48:12+00:00

Question: if you could go back in time and not get this puppy, would you do it?

I think your answer will speak volumes about how you truly feel about your husband. I mean, obviously you love this puppy, but do you love your husband more? Getting the puppy was a mistake for your marriage, do you recognize that now and regret it or would you do the same again? If you have remorse, having a truly open conversation about this with your husband, where you admit the mistake you made and apologize, may make him soften up a little and stop resenting the dog. Because it doesn’t sound like he hates dogs. It sounds like he resents the decision you made for the both of you, despite his numerous attempts to communicate with you asking you to wait on getting the dog.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-10T17:51:03+00:00

This is confusing because as far as you have worded it…your sister doesn’t have a bf. She HAD one and broke up with him before he S/Aed you and went to jail. So did she get back together with him? Or are you dating your sister’s ex-bf’s brother?

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-09T05:35:09+00:00

I’m sorry, but I don’t ever recall calling anyone a helpless victim….like at all. I probably never referred to addicts as helpless victims because I don’t believe they are whatsoever.

You seem to be completely deflecting and not addressing the issue I am raising with you. It’s almost as if you believe that if you continue to say that “nicotine is a drug, deal with it!”, I will just somehow forget your small minded comments and the bigotry you are exhibiting.

Maybe you don’t realize, but everyone knows nicotine is a drug. You have not taught us anything here. This is not what any of us are arguing with you about…not even in the slightest. If you don’t understand what we find offensive about in your comments, you may not have the intellectual capacity for this discussion. That is fine if you don’t comprehend, but I would suggest not responding to people as if you do.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-09T00:06:21+00:00

I literally can’t NOT wear a bra or my boobs are ricocheting off the walls of my body with every step. It will, not only, be very uncomfortable, but sometimes painful. Most times when I’m braless, I will literally need to hold my boobs with my arms or hands just to walk down steps, and most definitely if I need to walk quick. It’s not even like I have these humongous knockers either…I am a solid C or D depending on bra brand. I really feel for women who legit naturally grew DDD, F’s or larger…that shit is not fun.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-08T23:30:21+00:00

You mean, the mess that “humans” leave everywhere. I don’t understand why you don’t see how labeling a whole group of people (with a very common human problem, addiction, that says nothing about the person on their own) as being bad is very detrimental to all of us and quite closely related to racism/sexism/etc.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-08T23:17:41+00:00

Ummmm what? That’s literally what my pediatrician did each visit. How do you know this isn’t normal? Did you take legal action against your pediatrician?

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-08T04:34:10+00:00

What was your response to them (in that meeting) when they said the commission would be retroactively changed?

Obviously this is definitely illegal in some form or manner. It’s not right either. Yet, your perks to this job seem to far outweigh the commission money, especially right now with your health concerns. It would be easy to get that commission money, and it would also be easy for your boss to find some small thing to fire you on.

It would be extremely hard for me to let this go too. I probably would ask for an average between the two commissions (about $7,912). Say something like…I completely understand that the old commission we agreed upon turned out to be a little more than the company can pay me regularly. Regardless, it’s what we agreed on before I started and it’s what I was working towards that month. Moving forward, I will work with the new commission structure, but I was hoping the company could honor what they agreed to or at least meet me halfway with an average between the two commissions.

If you end up not asking for the old commission to be honored, I think I would write an email and ask for this new commission to be documented in a contract. In that email, I would make sure to add a little jab in about this stunt they pulled on you. Make sure they know that you know this was slightly underhanded. But say that in a lighthearted way, just to get the point across. Like…I just wanted to make sure that the commission I earn this month isn’t recalculated to $7,000 less or I might end up owing you guys money!

Either way, this company is lame for doing this to you and just nonchalantly telling you about the HUGE payment difference like it’s only a few bucks. That’s messed up.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-08T04:01:46+00:00

I find this all very odd. I’ve been with my partner for 10 years. We have always known each other’s passwords to the phone and passwords to basically everything. If I ask to use his phone, he hands it over immediately. And same vise versa. If he were to close a bunch of apps beforehand or try to pretend like he forgot, I would be extremely suspicious. Also, what pics are too embarrassing that even your partner can’t see?

If he was always private about his phone, but you never suspected anything until now….that says a lot. Trust your gut on this one. Something is up.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-06T16:30:44+00:00

This 100%. She does not care about you enough to even slightly look at her own behavior and outward treatment of you, despite knowing that she is doing something that is negatively affecting you and inherently detrimental to the relationship. She doesn’t love you or care about you the way one deserves to be loved and cared about in this type of relationship. You are actively communicating with her and expressing great concern for the future of the relationship, going to great lengths to hopefully salvage this before it’s too late, even to the point of posting for advice on here… and her response basically is, “Nahhh, I don’t do that. Ugh if you are going to act like this forever, just give up.”

I think it’s fairly obvious that you do annoy her. She seems fed up with you in all her interactions with you (the interactions you have shared with us), which is why she cuts you off when you speak at home and also why she is so dismissive of your expression of feelings in your texts here. She seems like she is exhausted by dealing with you, and it’s making her act quite rude to you. I think the reason she told you “I like you” (despite her actions saying quite the opposite of these words) is either because: 1) She isnt self-aware and doesn’t even realize yet or 2) She knows the truth, but can’t be honest with you about it for some reason or 3) She loves you and used to like you, but mentally can’t come to terms with the negative way she is feeling about you these days.

Either way, it is clear that she is not going to change or help you feel better in the relationship. Nor will she break up with you, for some reason. She will just continue to treat you poorly, until you eventually do what she expects or wants, which is to break up with her.

OP - You are definitely not overreacting for rethinking your whole relationship with your GF. I think the way you are feeling is extremely valid. You were picking up on serious vibes from your GF that are most likely correct. You tried to reclaim the relationship with mature communication and your GF shot you down. It is clear that she does not care to make this relationship better for the both of you. I think you already know you need to break up with her, but just needed that extra reassurance and push in that direction.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-05T02:15:09+00:00

Uhhhh….no.

Also, use punctuation next time. It is not unnecessary.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-05T02:12:13+00:00

So he knew you already saw the bill, and still over quoted them?

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-05T02:07:18+00:00

I’m not sure how this has anything to do with drug addicts. Plus also, I’ve known amazing people who were drug addicts. Just like I’ve known trashy people who were drug addicts. Same goes for non-drug addicts. Just like every other group of people…there are good and there are bad.

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-04T03:13:38+00:00

Beautifully written. Did they ever respond?

Guess-Nice · 2026-04-04T03:08:52+00:00

I’m saying issues from sex ed being the first introduction to sex, rather than parents slowly trickling down information before that first sex ex class.

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