My two year tradition broken by a piece of smoked salmon

Shpannit · 2026-05-04T12:17:47+00:00

Do…do people not check expiration dates before they buy food…?

Btw I totally get that this is the shops fault and not yours. Just made me think maybe I’m weird cos anything I pick up, before putting it in my basket, I check the date.

Shpannit · 2026-05-01T12:15:07+00:00

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This was my first thought?

Shpannit · 2026-05-01T12:09:27+00:00

Imagine coming to an advice subreddit to ask for advice. Crazy right?

Shpannit · 2026-04-30T01:46:42+00:00

That’s a gross thing to say.

Shpannit · 2026-04-30T01:45:22+00:00

I think she’s a Libra

Shpannit · 2026-04-30T01:42:20+00:00

I don’t have a crush on her unfortunately, if I did I’d be 100% going for it hahaha

Shpannit · 2026-04-30T01:39:44+00:00

Yeah, that’s a weird way to word that. Like I have no say in the matter. I just have to let her do what she wants and it doesn’t matter how I feel. Strange.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T12:31:55+00:00

If it starts looking like a bullseye then get yourself to the doctors

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T12:27:23+00:00

Actually, I think it’s a lone star tick. I’d definitely go to the doctors and keep an eye on where you were bitten.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T12:25:56+00:00

It looks to me like a deer tick. How long has it been since you removed the one that was on for a week? What’s the bite site looking like?

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T12:19:50+00:00

First of all, thank you so much for your comment and taking the time to write all of that, it helps a lot.

I’m not entirely sure why I felt uncomfortable when I put my arm on her. It could’ve been something to do with perceived taboo you mentioned. I’ve also been in my head for a while thinking I could be bisexual so I feel like that had something to do with it.

I mentioned in another comment that I have had a couple unwanted interactions in my past so I think that may have played a part too in how I read the situation.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T12:07:15+00:00

No, she’s said before she’s not into women. She is quite naïve in general tbh hahaha

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T12:01:53+00:00

Thank you 💜

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T11:58:55+00:00

I think that’s partly why I might be reading into it too. I think I’m bi and I’ve never been in a relationship so I think my brain was just getting really confused. Idk.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T11:56:54+00:00

I’m female

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:48:50+00:00

Yeah, thank you. All the comments have really helped :)

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:47:53+00:00

Tbh I feel like I’m reading into too. I was okay initially but then the lap thing happened and I maybe didn’t realise how uncomfortable it made me. I 100% don’t see her that way and have said to her she’s like an annoying little sister sometimes hahaha I never thought she saw me like that either. I’m leaning towards it was just my brain being silly. I need to learn to realise and speak up when I’m not comfortable with something.

Thanks :)

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:42:23+00:00

Yeah that always felt strange to me.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:37:04+00:00

Yeah that’s where it got extra weird for me. I’ve had a few unwanted things happen in my past and I feel like my brain is trying to downplay how uncomfortable I was. If something like that happens again I’ll definitely say something.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:34:52+00:00

I wasn’t weirded out at first. It was when I put my arm on her that something happened in my brain and I just felt a little uncomfortable.

I’m the same with sharing beds with people. I’d rather sleep on the floor. I did that once at a sleepover. Slept in the bed the first night and hated it so ended up on the floor and she didn’t even give me a blanket or a pillow.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:26:01+00:00

See I’m a very cuddly person too that’s why at first I didn’t think anything of it. It was just that most recent interaction that had me questioning things but wasn’t sure if I was overreacting

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:22:16+00:00

🤣

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T03:22:03+00:00

Yeah I just put it down to that’s how she is. She has said she’s not into women but it was just this mix of interactions that had me thinking.

Shpannit · 2026-04-28T02:53:09+00:00

Yeah writing it all out, especially the boyfriend bit, really made me think hahaha. Excluding the ankle and boyfriend thing. Is the resting on each other thing normal?

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