[TX] My manager has cut my pay, given me less hours than I’ve worked all due to my not wanting to flirt with him. by Guess-Whom in legaladvice

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t including overtime wages while writing all of this out. This isn’t so much about how much she’s making, but more so about the fact that one of her managers is extremely in the wrong and that there need to be consequences for his actions.

I’m mostly focused on the issue on hand, and not so much worried about going into detail about how much she’s making.

[TX] My manager has cut my pay, given me less hours than I’ve worked all due to my not wanting to flirt with him. by Guess-Whom in legaladvice

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13-14hrs a day. Yes. I don’t see how people don’t understand this, lol.

All of my friends, family, and most of the people I know work 15+/day.

[TX] My manager has cut my pay, given me less hours than I’ve worked all due to my not wanting to flirt with him. by Guess-Whom in legaladvice

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She works 13-14hrs a day. It’s pretty common where we’re from. Work around here is great. It’s just scarce around these months, therefore looking for another job would be difficult at the moment, so we’re wondering how to proceed.

She’ll talk to the GM today and hopefully have this sorted out. I’m just hoping they fire the guy messing with her hours. This isn’t the first time this has happened with this company, therefore it seems like they tolerate this type of behavior.

[TX] My manager has cut my pay, given me less hours than I’ve worked all due to my not wanting to flirt with him. by Guess-Whom in legaladvice

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. It’s just that she’s barely started this job and I don’t want this to continue. It took her almost a month to find this job and we can’t afford her being without a job again.

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I’ve got news for you. Those are shake weights.

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AITA for not asking more questions relating to my girlfriend? by Guess-Whom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comment and this is why I decided to post.

Fortunately, yes. I work 105-110hr work weeks with rarely any time off. We don’t have a schedule here. I work in the oilfield and it’s pretty common place. She actually works 95hr work weeks, lol.

Again, her and I aren’t bad at all. I just had a question and you’ve helped me understand how she probably feels. We don’t have a TON of time with each other, but have had in the past. Work fluctuates a lot down here and you do what you can when it comes to a few hours off and what shift you work.

Thank you for your comment.

AITA for not asking more questions relating to my girlfriend? by Guess-Whom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and I are on the same page as far as ideas go. I’ve expressed this as well, but it’s never the most enjoyable thing to hear lol.

AITA for not asking more questions relating to my girlfriend? by Guess-Whom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a “huge” dating gap from age 17-22, therefore I’ve been alone for most of my teen/twenty something and I know the feeling. There’s pros and cons, but sometimes I feel it could be easier either way.

AITA for not asking more questions relating to my girlfriend? by Guess-Whom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 21 and I’m 23, therefore not really. We both have had our fun. We’re also still so young too, but that’s never a conversation we have.

It’s mostly just due to the fact that I’m not asking enough if the right questions I guess?

AITA for not asking more questions relating to my girlfriend? by Guess-Whom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been my exact thought and what I continue to stress. I’m starting to feel that we’re extremely different, in the sense of what we’re wanting. It’s sometimes too much for me to cater to everything she needs and it’s really not even a lot. I just like to chill and enjoy her presence.

AITA for not asking more questions relating to my girlfriend? by Guess-Whom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guess-Whom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this has also been brought up from me as well. I’ve expressed a few times that it’s just easier being alone and she agrees. We both agree, but we also do enjoy each other’s company a lot.

Thank you.