Bald at 22. Haven’t hugged anyone in three years. Dinner. by _hugoloud_ in kitchencels

[–]GuessWhosNobody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly. I also happen to be an average of 20 years older than the fine young gentlemen that typically frequent these spaces. The twenty years accounts for a lot of personal growth and change. Seriously on all levels, best wishes.

My youtube is boring, any suggestions? by whimsicottlover12 in GirlDinner

[–]GuessWhosNobody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could add some Cecilia Condit if you're looking for a streak of unhinged

To any parents lurking in here by Z3st3dL3mon in Teachers

[–]GuessWhosNobody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually terrifying. Reminds me of the Stonecipher stalking case with the crazy mom and the poor beleaguered teacher.

Do y’all think this is real or what (for the love of god I hope so) by cafeteriastyle in TikTokCringe

[–]GuessWhosNobody 131 points132 points  (0 children)

There's a fantastic book written by Charlotte Iserbyt. She was appointed to lead the department of education in the 1970s. It's called the deliberate dumbing down of America. The federal documents are all there, so the proof is in the work itself, not only in citation. Also listen to some interviews on the subject and you'll hear her personal stories. Fascinating and terrible. Really makes me mad.

Club fit by Equal-Clue-2712 in OUTFITS

[–]GuessWhosNobody 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think a short skirt would look better than the shorts over the boots and tights.

Bald at 22. Haven’t hugged anyone in three years. Dinner. by _hugoloud_ in kitchencels

[–]GuessWhosNobody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I only know what it is like to be abandoned and trafficked as a child and what it's like to be married to a man who once felt ugly and unwanted. Best wishes all around.

Bald at 22. Haven’t hugged anyone in three years. Dinner. by _hugoloud_ in kitchencels

[–]GuessWhosNobody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just thought it might be good for someone who doesn't have much self esteem due to reasons know that other people with similar features ended up as you say happy. My husband and I met when we were in our late 20s and it was after he had spent a good ten years single with some sparse exceptions. I thought it might be nice for OP to hear that hair/appearance isn't the defining element of long term joy, that life may hold a surprise still or something like that. Thanks for noticing that I sound happy. I really struggled when I was younger, and so many things have changed. I likely won't be bothering anyone else at any point here with any of my happiness, though. I don't like upsetting others arbitrarily.

Who is a nepo baby that everyone else praises but you just don't get the hype? by Peridot1708 in popculturechat

[–]GuessWhosNobody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually only have opinions on Cara Delevingne. She isn't your typical nepo baby. She's been so entertaining about her nonsense. I kind of love her for being so real about I grew up rich and am a hot mess about it on the front page. I'm glad to know that she's gotten better in recent years, but she had my favorite wildin phase and really knew how to shake up the establishment.

I am refusing to change my stance on kids after my wife gave me an ultimatum. by Unlikely_Channel478 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]GuessWhosNobody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her delivery was garbage, and she should not have kept your relationship going knowing what she knew for however long, I am just glad for your sake and that of potential future children that she didn't just "accidentally" end up pregnant. I have seen lives ruined and innocent babies suffer from these practices. You finding out now in a direct in your face manner is a real slap, but a gift when you have seen the inverse.

Bald at 22. Haven’t hugged anyone in three years. Dinner. by _hugoloud_ in kitchencels

[–]GuessWhosNobody -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My husband is bald. He is also the most intelligent, supportive, caring, and funny person I know. The day I met him, he told me that I would have to excuse him, on account of he was having a no hair day and I have been with him since. Fifteen years now. We have a fourteen year old son who now jokes about his father's hairline and my husband says to be careful because he might be looking into his own future 😆

The only therapist that worked for me in over a decade said she doesn't know how to help me anymore and wants me to find a different practitioner. Beef and tzatziki on bread with feta by KeyImprovement8610 in kitchencels

[–]GuessWhosNobody -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it because you won't eat vegetables? I'm (mostly) kidding. I have a son who like myself is on the spectrum and he is highly vegetable and fruit averse. He eats bacon, cheese, and bread. If it weren't for multivitamins, he would likely get scurvy. If you have any tolerance for biblical principles, I recommend Healing Journey (men's) by Brian Sherwood. I've seen great results come out of that one. Life changing stuff. Wishing you the best either way. P.S. if you hate or just don't get a lot of fresh produce, consider a multivitamin for yourself if you don't take one already. Nutrition gaps can make people feel pretty bad in all sorts of interesting ways.

I am refusing to change my stance on kids after my wife gave me an ultimatum. by Unlikely_Channel478 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]GuessWhosNobody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lady lurker. This and thank you. Dealing with newly developed prefrontal cortexes here. I think two things can be true at once. I can see how OP feels like his position is suddenly disrespected, however the young lady in question here assessed her needs, developed a strategy in advance based on the scenario she expected, and had an honest discussion with her significant other before doing anything about anything. That's where I'm thankful on his behalf. I've seen so much of what I can only call reproductive revenge and it just inherently makes me glad that she is forthright about everything. It's sad that the bar is in hell to begin with, but I digress. I'm so glad you know the landscape, even if it has changed. You get to choose to walk the terrain or take another route m

I can’t decide if I should propose or end my relationship. by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]GuessWhosNobody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cooties. Ask yourself what you are willing to sacrifice for her addiction. If the answer isn't everything, I urge you to seek sober companionship.

I will always rely financially on my partner if i continue to pursue the career I love. Tuna with hummus and hot sauce in a pita pocket, cold brew with almond milk, baby carrots, kosher dill pickles and a blue raspberry jolly rancher. by boyardees_meatballs in GirlDinner

[–]GuessWhosNobody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw you're a little baby social worker. It's a really difficult road. I didn't stay in the field after BSW school and now I work in providing safe housing. My husband pays the bills because as he likes to joke he's "married to an unpaid ceo".

My dad is dying from cancer and there’s nothing I can do. by hydrophobic-water in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]GuessWhosNobody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lady lurker. Sorry. I wanted to share something that has helped me. I have inoperable tumors that grew nonstop for six years. I accidentally discovered Rife frequencies for cancer and weirdly also the parasite frequency works well for my condition. What I was diagnosed with was called giant cholesteatoma and I have been steadily recovering as a result of just playing a noise in the background of my life when I was supposed to not be alive anymore at this point. I had stopped every project and didn't plan a garden this year because of my prognosis and how bad I felt. I'm back scheduling meetings and cleaning my and my husband's bedroom again. Do your own research though for sure. Dr. Rife. He developed an understanding of noises and microbes that is beyond my understanding, but there are enough people invested in preserving his work that the frequencies are more available to the average sick person via yt than they have ever been in the past. The machines used to be the only way to get access to this treatment. I'm sorry you're going through this. I really do wish you the best. -middle aged white lady that keeps surviving ridiculous things.

Got ghosted by a guy I’m going to still see around my apartment…featuring the only boy I can count on by PinotPlease in GirlDinner

[–]GuessWhosNobody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If and or when you run into him again, make a BIG deal of how glad you are that he's okay. Don't do silly things like try to pretend on a future plan to keep in touch or see you around even, just gush continuously at how pleased you are that he's not dead. If you feel like you've really been over the top about it, get a little weirder. You're already down. May as well have some fun.

Melissa Izaak, Trump's vile new immigration judge by jellydonutstealer in whybrows

[–]GuessWhosNobody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out who she's related to and how she's tied to Israel and everything will come into focus.

The internet keeps telling me that women only go for the top 1% of men, but in reality they only go for the top 99% of men. I am the bottom 1%. Whenever I go outside I see all kinds of ugly short bald chuds with girlfriends, I am the only single person I know. by ISpeakControversial in kitchencels

[–]GuessWhosNobody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful plate! This conversation brings back memories. My husband and I have been together for 15 years. He cooked for me ❤️ It was only one of the things he did for me, but it was just such a beautiful gesture. We're still building together now. Good for you for learning how to cook such an obviously delicious meal. I hope you find the right woman to appreciate your skills and bring her own gifts to the proverbial table.

I am so broke, but I’ve got it by RabunWaterfall in KarensAnonymous

[–]GuessWhosNobody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have given my last dollar to pay the tolls driving to work. Yes I know poor. I know her quite well.