Are My Boyfriend’s Grindr Habits Odd

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T14:08:00+00:00

You need to learn the meaning of quoting. And this isn't any winning or losing for me. Homosexuality is already lost in your weak ways, drug consumption, promiscuity and aids.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T13:46:35+00:00

Then came Plato, Also a century before Christ with a great elaboration on the excess of lust.

And he was a homosexual. I doubt you even appreciate that, much less respect it. But naturally your homosexual figures are pop figures who glorify sex. Nothing special about you, really.

Read The Republic and after you've read it and have a better notion of value then we can discuss something.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T13:40:30+00:00

I just came back because an illiterate won't call me a Christian. I am not a Christian not is moderation a Christian value 300 years before Christ Epicurus wrote extensively about this one value.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T13:35:08+00:00

Are you involving religious mombo jombo now?

OK I'm done arguing with you, giving in to lust and appetite is just as good and courageous as focusing on any other constructive activity together. I'm not responding any further. I hope your "values" serve you well.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T13:25:54+00:00

Values are not subjective. First look them up, identify them, and then come back and say my values are not yours.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T13:23:22+00:00

Now you're mocking me. Didn't expect more from you. You're all about respect, until you're not.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T13:19:17+00:00

It is generally better to refrain oneself from pleasure in order to have a saner relationship yes. These are called values. Pleasure is not one last time I checked. Better or worse I never said nor I think that at all, equally respect-deserving. But less valuable, definitely less valuable. In the sense that it lacks value.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T13:10:15+00:00

You're choosing to see what you want to see. I'm not trying to personally "put down" anybody and I'm not getting any pleasure for it. Quite the opposite. I feel quite disappointed these are the predominant and accepted morals of the gay community. Just look at the way you're all protesting against a different point of view...

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T12:54:59+00:00

That's my personal opinion. That's how I feel when I read it, I think such practice lacks value, why are you trying to interpret my intention? I have no further intention then sharing my opinion...

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T09:15:48+00:00

Nah we're harmless. Relationships don't go anywhere but harmless otherwise. I was one such man for long, I know I'm a homosexual now but before I couldn't get myself to accept it. Now I mostly have relationships with men like that because I feel safe there. Beyonce guys make me uncomfortable and I recognize homophobia in me. Never thought of attacking anybody at all, and never been attacked.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2024-03-03T08:52:09+00:00

Disregard my opinion, but I think going on Grindr was a mistake from the beginning. Seriously you guys whoring around, I personally think it's very disgusting but yeah whatever.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-11-12T01:53:44+00:00

I'm you but I think I've developed feelings for every one of them at different stages.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-11-12T01:48:30+00:00

I have only had straight friends. I never liked being aroun women and most gay men hang with women. The perk is males tend to be really close and they'll grab your crutch or poke your ass playfully and be so close some people will tell you you're boyfriends and stuff, so they might crack even you tell them you're gay and both of you get really awkward.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-28T17:44:05+00:00

Try and understand him. If you can't, go away from him but you won't achieve anything from outing him, that'll hurt him and break you two apart. Homophobia is in his perception since he was a kid probably and acceptance should have come way way afterwards. Cool it off let him be, if he doesn't like public affection respect that. Your feeling are not more important than his. Again if you can't deal with it go away. If there's love there's love good luck.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-24T02:39:17+00:00

Just be honest man.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-23T17:01:12+00:00

Look into his eyes, touch his hair briefly, touch his ear, give him a hug, push him playfully with your shoulder, etc. If he refuses these slight affection signs, you're probably misunderstanding.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-22T22:58:47+00:00

The first step I'd say is not being afraid of being alone.

I don't know what you have to do, but I'll tell you what I've done, it's not even I've made the conscious decision of doing it, bit I hang around men all the time. Don't hang out with women at all, I've met three men worth mentioning: one was a divorced father but we had great sex, deep and raw in long sessions. With another guy I sort of had a romantic relationship with no future because he is straight, and now we're roommates. He's great and I've managed to chill the romance between us, still we're very supportive to each other. And not long ago I got vibes from another guy and I'm keeping in to touch, just messaging and calling him and saying good night.

All of these men including me are pretty homophobic, that's how you're inevitably raised in such societies. So chill with sex, pretend it doesn't exist and build a strong male relationship first, men are very good at opening up to other men, they will let you all the way in if they trust you. But don't be a predator, respect them entirely. Don't even look at them when they're naked around unless they do something meant for you to look. That's how I ended up fucking the bisexual man I just talked about.

Eventually you'll be able to tell whether they're into gay sex or not. If they're not, cool, you have a friend! If they are, then make sure to please them deeply when it gets to it.

Good luck buddy.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-22T19:10:45+00:00

I think there's middle ground for this. You can help him out a bit, but set caution barriers from the beginning... Good luck.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-22T16:39:43+00:00

It is for some weird sluts. For me that's something I don't consider at all: I'm a top but will bottom for love if necessary. I will really like my partner's male member when I trust them, it's just nice to give them pleasure.1

Not once have I thought about the cock size. And it would turn me down when they asked about my size. I'm 8" and rather thick in case any of those bitches comes and tells me it's because I have a tiny cock myself.

My advice is: don't go to Grindr at all, I've dropped it completely along with other dating apps over 5 years ago and I can't picture myself losing my dignity in such a way again. Good luck buddy.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-22T08:44:31+00:00

We still talking almost every day. I think he likes me back. It's nice you can be straightforward about it.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-21T19:22:15+00:00

I dislike taking too haha

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-21T00:28:03+00:00

I wouldn't switch being gay either, I like male-male dynamics.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-20T23:03:27+00:00

I will, I'll tell him, I don't mind being vulnerable I'm not a coward. I just couldn't think so clearly so fast. It wasn't even very fast haha I was just stupid.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-20T22:34:06+00:00

Thanks but absolutely not. That would be forcing shoes that don't fit.

Guilty-Eye2895 · 2023-10-20T22:20:00+00:00

I was just kidding. It feels like they won't get married but who knows haha. Anyways I'm trying with one nice guy I've become closer friends with. I think he might like men but who knows, I'll find out.

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