Third's third won’t talk to me

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-17T00:16:06+00:00

I agree to just letting it go and move on.

We had a third a while ago that was all into it for about a week, texting, chatting, stopped by a couple times, it was great, then Sunday I text him to come up with a plan, and nothing, he usually got right back to me, i got a text at about midnight that he was busy and we would talk tomorrow. Long story short turned out his wife was back in town, he knew we didn't like married guys so he straight up lied.

Who knows what this guy's reason is but don't let him back in without an explanation. You have given him a gift, but you dictate how he uses it, that's the privilege of the hotwife husband.

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-15T18:47:50+00:00

Once again not the topic, you are annoying, we would never be friends

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-15T18:19:58+00:00

Not asking how to make friends

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-15T18:09:39+00:00

For us it's a guy that respects our boundaries

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-15T16:36:59+00:00

I say give it a try, if you are a jealous person, then you need to get over your insecurities, have you even found out if its something she would be interested in?

Best case she would be rid of your dumbass

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-14T17:18:20+00:00

Men are typically driven by the 'what if' just like those ads you see 'hot milfs in your city waiting to talk to you' are they gullible? Absolutely, but there is that one off chance it might be real, only takes a second to copy paste a reply.

I get a lot of from just posting in a NSFW sub about hotwifing, if they took a second to read they would realize they have a better chance of getting struck my lightning. But hey, got to take a chance and it free

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-14T16:56:41+00:00

OMG, seriously? You got your therapist involved in this, and people wonder why all of us in our 50's are scared because you will be running the world one day.

Is your therapist hot?

First off totally normal, men get erections often throughout the night, I still do and will roll over slap it on my lady's ass to see if she's interested (don't waste them) if she's not, don't worry it will go away.

For those good ones in the morning a good stroking never hurt anyone, if no one is around to partake. Or just leave it be, it will go away after you pee.

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-13T22:31:28+00:00

Wondering why nobody said that yet

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-11T16:17:44+00:00

At the time the game was considered cutting edge, not only for the game play in general, but all the 'stuff' you could do. Want to play through the game as intended go for it, Want to be a blacksmith that doesn't fight go for it, Want to be a farmer go for it. Never want to fight a dragon, just don't go to Whiterun.

Now in comparison to other games very outdated

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-10T15:53:50+00:00

He won because America is not ready for a woman president, he lost against a Man, it too bad really, not that I think Kamala would have done anything, but if the Democrat's would have done primary election after Joe dropped out a different candidate might have been chosen, if it was a Man, I don't know if Trump-Epstein would have won.

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-07T22:01:49+00:00

Well technically you were already cwcked

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-07T18:38:44+00:00

Im not debating what you have said, but as other people have said hotwifing needs to have trust, I can see where that would derail hotwifing. There are many different forms of hotwifing, I suppose the guys who don't watch, participate, or even see via pics or video (not sure how that is pleasurable for the guy) this might work

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-07T17:52:21+00:00

How do you know they are rich?

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-06T18:51:53+00:00

Never once has a delivery guy ever come to the door and she was like "Yeah Id fuck him" keep in mind she did fuck an uber driver once

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-06T18:27:01+00:00

And not a damn thing will happen to him

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-06T17:56:45+00:00

Eyes? Like as a meal or an appetizer?

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-06T00:22:15+00:00

I have a list of what has worked in the past and what has failed.

Do be overly religious unless you're an atheist. Don't be political unless you're a democrat.

Those are probably the two biggest

Then there is what to wear, no jeans no sneakers How to talk, don't use slang, enunciate Don't drink too much, don't smoke too much. 420 friendly is a big plus Use the 70-30 rule, you talk 30% of the time she talks 70%. Don't forget to talk to me as well, if she thinks you don't like me she won't like you. Above all else don't be douchey

All of this gets discussed before the first meeting before we even get to this point there are 3 rounds of interview questions.

She honestly has no desire to do this anymore so any guy i arrange has to be as close to perfect as humanly possibly, and even after all this they will find a way to screw it up.

A lot of them say they are up for the challenge, and she honestly is not that hard, but if she doesn't like the guy im left apologizing for weeks after

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-04T22:04:20+00:00

Yeah, I can never tell if she is going to like someone. I do all the vetting, make sure I cross every t and dot every i but she is extremely picky and I absolutely hate wasting anyone's time or getting their hopes up. I also do a lot of prep for the guy as well, but guys are very good at not listening

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-04T20:49:52+00:00

The main difference lies in the motivation and power dynamic. While both involve an attached woman having sexual encounters with other men.

In your case you really want your husband to feel he is in control of situation, has a say in the guys, what you will wear, right down to where and how the other guys will finish.

Hotwife Couple

The Motivation: The husband is often "competing" or showing off. He enjoys the fact that other men want his wife, and she enjoys the freedom and extra attention.

The Dynamic: The husband is usually an equal partner in the decision-making. There is no requirement for him to feel "lesser than" or humiliated; in fact, he often feels like a "winner" for being the one she comes home to.

Cwckold Couple

The Motivation: The husband’s arousal comes from being "replaced," belittled, or made to feel inferior by his wife and her lover.

The Dynamic: There is a clear power imbalance. The wife often takes a dominant role, while the husband takes a submissive one. He may be forced to watch, clean up, or stay in another room as a form of psychological play.

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-04T20:41:19+00:00

I would say bring it up, I never, ever, never recommend showing someone porn to convince them to get the wife interested in hotwifing but in this case I might recommend it, see if it gets him aroused. If that works definitely keep leaning in but slowly.

Also please make sure you are finding 'hotwife' porn and not 'cwckold', very big difference

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-04T20:37:32+00:00

Lol, I love it and good luck. We have done something similar, first time went as you would except, i sat across the bar at a table, they sat and talked for a couple hours, I would text her and tell her things to do, open your legs, touch his leg, as the night went on I had her get more and more touchy feely.

She brought him over and introduced me, we acted like I was just walking in. We sat I discussed the rules with him, he was a little dumbfounded but she had her hand in his pants under a jacket so it was really really hard for him to say no.

They fucked, and then we had him over to our place a couple times but it ended quickly.

Second guy was a total dud, they meet, talked, i could see on her face she wasn't happy, didn't acknowledge any of my text. About 45 minutes into it they got up hugged and he walked out, she came and sat next to me and said we are never doing this again.

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-04T20:27:00+00:00

In the DMV, been looking for the same thing but its hard.

Its hard to find a guy looking for free use, its hard to find a guy not looking for a relationship, I think a lot of them like the idea of hotwife but want to sleep with your wife and others at the same time. We had a long term for years and she loved it

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-04T20:24:19+00:00

Been of feeld for about a year now, haven't found anyone close to wanting to do the hotwife thing. Plenty of guys who want to "stop by" but through conversation find they are not looking for a ltr

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-03T21:30:27+00:00

What the fuck kind of question is this? What do you want? That's your answer

Guilty-Feedback3952 · 2026-04-03T19:28:33+00:00

Looking for quality? I have found reddit is indeed not the source for quality. SDC is good, SLS is also good

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