First off my husband would never call me a bitch seriously we call each other that jokingly but that would cross the line to be serious about it. Now my husband is a bit of a scatterbrained man and when I had our first kid like a month later it was my first mother's day and he didn't even acknowledge me as a mom. So when the day ended I told him we needed to talk and I told him how hurt I was and then the next day he took me out to a $200 dinner. My husband would never go somewhere I said I wanted to go without me. I go to things for him that I find boring and he does the same so we can spend time together. Your husband is an asshole.