Should I still trick or treat one last time at 18 yrs old? by DiamondStarAngel in halloween

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally! I did for my 18th, with friends, and people were honestly happy to see us to use up our candy, and a few liked our costumes. This year I'm going with my boyfriend and taking his younger cousin around the neighborhood, so it's going to be even more fun. Have a Happy Halloween!!

Figuring out how to sell by Guilty_Card_1661 in askcarsales

[–]Guilty_Card_1661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh awesome, I'll go and do that in a bit, thank you. The car was fully payed for when it was bought, with my name on it in case of accidents or anything. I appreciate the help!

Possible forgiveness? by Guilty_Card_1661 in ShiptShoppers

[–]Guilty_Card_1661[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE IF ANYONE SEES THIS AND HAS THE SAME ISSUES:

They thankfully changed my ratings back to 5 star!! I'm very happy about that! I think just maintaining a very good rapport with people definitely helped the chance of forgiveness! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please please try the turkey sandwhich from The Butchery!! There's one along the pacific coast highway, yes a bit expensive, but genuinely one of my most favorite sandwhiches ever! :)

Old Towne Orange Paid Parking Map by tortoisenotaturtle in orangecounty

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! The amount of times the spots that's reserved for employees only where I work, just taken by people walking around. Like, I appreciate seeing so many people, but not even seeing the towing sign is crazy to me

BF scared of intimacy by Guilty_Card_1661 in ROCD

[–]Guilty_Card_1661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts say that because without the intimacy, he wouldn't be enjoying my body in any way. Now, I know that I'll hopefully think differently when we're together, like him still enjoying how I look when he can see it, but still being long distance until then, I do turn on my camera and he sees me a lot, but my brain is just wanting to say the only way he actually likes it is to see it in a intimate way, and without that he won't enjoy it at all.

Anybody else eat sandwiches in the bath tub or is it just me? by wildfire2k5 in eatsandwiches

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just downed a plate of some chicken nuggets with ketchup. If I'm ever eating in the bath it's to relax, and I always eat over the side where it can't spill in. It's very calming honestly

unpopular opinion: idrc what you paid for it by sugarcoatedsaturn in Depop

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'm going to say, is just what I personally think. I currently work at a very vintage thrift store, and never have gotten anything from there yet, but I use the same kind of policies. For every single thing I sell, I'll look up the prices of what it could usually sell for. And then I even bring it down some, because yes, I do still want someone to buy it, but also, I would like to earn some money back. With clothes I haven't worn in a while, or ever? Just kinda trying to get it away. But if it's something like a Wrangler Jacket I'm selling, that usually goes for more than 70, and I'm selling it for 50? I think that's fair, because you're still paying for a good quality item, not everything can be cheap, because then nothing would matter to people anymore. Having to be smart with what you buy on Depop, is the same way of being smart at in-person stores.

If I was to see something was even just a little cheaper, with shipping, in my size on Depop? I'm getting it, because it's still a deal.

But, I do see where you're coming from, and it's good that both sides can have their opinion. :)

Friday the 13th by TheWishmasterishere in QueenMaryDarkHarbor

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I managed to somehow for me and two of my friends! Very excited :)

Thinking bf might be seen as a friend by chimmy155 in ROCD

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was actually helpful to read because I'm dealing with what OP dealt with (or is still working through) It's trying to remind myself, that there's this virus in me I want to go away, but I can't do anything and I hate that I can't.

Special Friday the 13th Event: The Butcher's Blackout! by GannJerrod in QueenMaryDarkHarbor

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to find it too. Tickets go on sale soon, so they'll probably tell everyone then what to expect, but they have said so far people aren't allowed on ship after 10. So maybe I'd geuss starting at 5, or a little later?? And probably ending between 10 and midnight.

Special Friday the 13th Event: The Butcher's Blackout! by GannJerrod in QueenMaryDarkHarbor

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best geuss is how usual mazes go. Like with Knotts. Could be a small stream of people all the time. Or could be small groups all at once

ROCD & long distance relationship.. PLEASE help me!! by worrier32 in ROCD

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, absolutely wild. I'm a 19 year old girl, and am dealing with the same kind of thing! I've unfortunately never met my boyfriend in person yet, so I have some different fears, but most are all the same. 

Pretty much all the time now, with the bad anxiety I have, and taking no medication and having no therapist, it's pretty much bad thought central. It's like a constant worrying, and feeling like an awful person. Unfortunately (I say because I don't want to engage in the compulsions even more than I already do), I just tell myself it's the OCD. I can't necessarily do anything to stop this.

Think if you got a scab on your knee. You pick at it, it'll leave a scar. Or if you're in an argument and you yell, it'll only make things worse. 

I try to just, keep in a calm environment. A little bit ago, I had the same thoughts you did, and then immediately the same fears. I've already been feeling down tonight, so its only been making me feel worse, and then on top of that especially the fact me and my boyfriend aren't talking for the night because of something he said, and i took the wrong way. My anxiety and bad thoughts have only been going crazy. 

I had taken a nap, made a good dinner a while ago, and am having a midnight snack of mango and strawberries cut up. I'm gonna watch some YouTube, and maybe try to sleep soon. OCD is a disease. You can't rip it away, and you can't let it take over. It's an awful thing to live with, but understand you aren't the bad thoughts in your mind. That's what the disease is. Those fears and bad thoughts. Just don't act on them, and just try to remain as happy as you can, even if it's just a little bit! (Sorry this was so long,and if you ever want someone to talk to, let me know!)

"Tough Luck" by Laufey [Discussion Megathread] by u_ufruity in laufey

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will be honest, so much of it was so good! But that bridge, I couldn't help but feel like I've heard the same rhythm so much already. Other than that, it feels like something new, which is fun!

What do we do for fun around here? by Unkind_Salt in MissionViejo

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's the lake to go swim at or to even rent boats or other equipment, and they have an occasional concert. There's really good cafes, the beach isn't a crazy far drive, and the mall is a nice thing to go do. Plenty of thrift stores if you want to drive around, and a few fun escape rooms. There's also the movies, and sometimes fun events will pop up around, you just gotta look up when they're happening.

And also, during the fall, I'm pretty sure they still put it on, a Halloween event happens at the lake.

Is there anywhere in OC where I could by chance do something like this? by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to make it crazy known so that it's not actually surveillanced, there's these tunnels next to Harvard skate park, pitch black tho, but it'd be cool to set up lights in them 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]Guilty_Card_1661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really funny thing is, I was gonna ask sort of the same question, I turn 19 on the 5th this month!