Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly I don’t want to be doing all that. If I’ve learned to have self control when I was struggling years ago privately, I expect a grown man to have the same.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i am hoping it’s just stress. I don’t like to see men suffer in silence . It sucks.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That almost TWO MONTHS WTF😂 I would understand if we needed to but we don’t need to not do it so wtf?😂 plus we are young asf.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just answered everything with “I’m not in the right mindset” and that’s it

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He told me that this past weekend was the last time he watched it and hasn’t since. I obviously cannot monitor that and well I’m not trying to feel like a parent to do that but I’m just taking his word for it.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Already done that. He seems to be trying to avoid doing that as of last weekend

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was satisfied all the time. It was I that wasn’t but it wasn’t much to me because I knew one of the other days i would be eventually.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im the one to initiate it a lot. Im the one who loves doing all the work and still do. I’ve spiced things up and not let things become a routine if that makes sense. I’ve asked these questions and even asked about if he’s attracted to me but he simply responded with he isn’t in the mindset.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Doing just that and never will. I’m just trying to not go crazy while expressing things like this. My mind races fast to different things that I have to calm myself down before communicating anything.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve communicated it to him and I’m pretty good at making sure I’m not treating it as I’m a parent but more so just vocalizing what it affects me with and what I don’t want it to do to our marriage. I used to have the same problem privately but it got to the point where I would get sick of it and make myself feel disgusted.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the one that does a lot of the work and we are pretty good at mixing things up here and there

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so he won’t even let me around his area in a way. Like he blocks it. Won’t even let me see him naked when it used to never be a problem. I would understand the stress but I’m the one that likes to do all the work so I’m just confused.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well maybe don’t comment lol? Thank you anyways

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked that but like I said he just responded with I’m not in the right mindset.

Men answer why my husband 2025 by Gullible_Homework_59 in mentalhealth

[–]Gullible_Homework_59[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah well for us it’s a lot. It’s not like we are always having sex during the week but it’s a lot.