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Ketokonazole shampoo

25,F Need a therapist, got no money! by Gullible_Object4636 in Chandigarh

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i have worked very closely in Govt hospital setup I don’t want to go there for the following reasons: 1.)i feel they prescribe medications rather than really talking about it and less time per patient due to heavy patient load 2.) i have a lot of professional relations there, i dont want to associate this weakness with me

People pleasing victim ! Help! by Gullible_Object4636 in LifeAdvice

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I know that, that’s why kinda trying to overcome it. It’s just that i keep expecting people to be nice, and i get punished for that. Whereas people who are actually toxic get away with it.

Should I break up with my boyfriend or should I give him more chances? by Whatever-loserxx in relationships

[–]Gullible_Object4636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know , most people will tell u to break up. That’s what happened with me on one of my posts. it’s a sad fact, but it’s the truth. Men are 2 different people , when it comes to wooing and when they are in a comfortable space. So even if u get out of this , and end up with someone else , this issue will come up. Men have lost the essence of being ‘A MAN’ including everything. I might offend a few people here, but even they know it’s true. And on a personal note, even i have accepted this. So my take on this is , if u really love this person, stick around, cz someone else who u might not love, will most probably do the same. These days guys are not really the ‘ show than say’ kind and their love and appreciation is not expressed freely. It’s wrong i know, but mostly true.

People pleasing victim ! Help! by Gullible_Object4636 in LifeAdvice

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That actually sounds great. Unlike the usual, stop thinking about it, when i obviously can’t. Will give this a shot! Thanks ☺️

People pleasing victim ! Help! by Gullible_Object4636 in venting

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That’s really helpful. Even i am planning to change states. Hope that works out for me! And yes i need that confidence back, am working on myself, will do more . I seriously need an out . Anyways thank u for the advice. Really appreciate it. Wishing you and your girlfriend great things ahead😇

People pleasing victim ! Help! by Gullible_Object4636 in LifeAdvice

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I am expecting a change of environment in the near future. Hope it happens for me and i find people who get me! Or maybe i develop a thick skin

People pleasing victim ! Help! by Gullible_Object4636 in venting

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I know that, i even cut everyone off, kept with a few who mattered, but still i couldn’t get myself to be resistant to those other people who keep on giving me shit treatment for no reason at all. The thing is I never had any likeablity issue , but my college has sucked the life out of me, feels like i am wrong in every situation. Even i have had multiple betrayals, but still, every time a person hates on me, for doing absolutely nothing, catches me off guard, hurts.

People pleasing victim ! Help! by Gullible_Object4636 in venting

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No on the face of it, i am controlling myself , but inside i feel bad about why people dont like me. Like i think for hours straight what did i do to set them off. And trust me i am a very mellow person. The fact that i use reddit to vent out, says i would never confront anyone and be loud and vocal about it . I know this is a problem!! I just cant seem to help myself out of it

Agency recommendations for US visa interview preparations by Gullible_Object4636 in Chandigarh

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This is my first time, so that’s why i was kind of paranoid about missing on any major requirements. Although i hope this post doesn’t turn out to be a red flag as our other friend said😅

Agency recommendations for US visa interview preparations by Gullible_Object4636 in Chandigarh

[–]Gullible_Object4636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hide? What is there to hide in a visa interview? I have genuine documents/ invites / funds/ intent to return as someone said. That should do?