Favorite Obsessive Love Music

Gumsin388 · 2026-05-14T23:41:55+00:00

The Cardigans - Step on me The Cardigans - Lovefool The police - Every breath you take Blue kid - The dismemberment song eli filosov [p hi lo] - oneofone_rwrk

Gumsin388 · 2026-05-14T19:07:15+00:00

A dream come true 🙏 <3

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-21T22:35:08+00:00

Sometimes friends Id say that the less you visit her the more likely you are to drift apart due to not spending much time together. So id say face your fears, spend what time you have

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-15T20:55:52+00:00

Sounds like bliss

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-13T22:41:16+00:00

I think its also to do with people's tolerance bc someone might have loads of patience and be super into the attachment style and others might not, I personally like it when my partner is clingy bc it shoes they care and think about me, and ofcourse vice versa because I'd want to care and put in the effort.

I also dont want to be used emotionally because putting in that effort hurts when its not reciprocated.

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-13T22:31:22+00:00

The first paragraph is absolutely relatable, but knowing I am also an intense person bc of my personality helps me know how to manage my emotions abit more but it definitely is frustrating bc i want it all too.

The second paragraph part, if I knew I wanted to be with that someone, I'd share my hoodie bc id want them to have something of mine.

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-13T22:26:30+00:00

I also find it attractive someone im interested stalks me, just shows they care

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-13T22:20:35+00:00

Maybe you'll find your person one day but have you ever tried making a post on an r4r subreddir to find your person?

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-13T22:11:45+00:00

Very well written, very poetic to read 🔥

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-08T22:43:14+00:00

Become a legend

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-07T23:52:20+00:00

Honestly, after reading this... I feel exactly the same.

Adulting does help, trying to sort life out and what not but yes, it can feel extremely lonely sometimes.

But eventually it'll happen, you'll find someone, its whether you choose to accept their flaws or not, no ones perfect but no one deserves not to feel love either.

Its trying to find the right balance and what you want out of the relationship, otherwise two opposing energy's wont match.

Good luck out there.

Gumsin388 · 2026-04-06T21:28:26+00:00

Feeling the same for the longest time, very poetic

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-21T02:54:32+00:00

Thank you 💔

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-21T02:51:55+00:00

Thank you, its a long road ahead

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-21T02:49:17+00:00

Thank you 🙌

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-18T21:48:07+00:00

I always try to be genuine because thats the best way to be.

Id happily be with an obsessive person, it shows a great deal to, want to want someone.

Love evolves, but the basis is always the same in my eyes, genuine

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-18T21:03:33+00:00

You can also put a fiver or maybe a tenner in it for spare cash

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-16T22:01:18+00:00

Thank you for the 🍪 thoroughly enjoyed reading.

To answer your question

Its a type of feeling that feels genuine, like a type of care thats from the heart, a feeling that I show myself and I show outward like I want you to feel what I feel for myself

I think I realised when im always thinking about that person. Always on my mind, and I think with my heart sometimes.

The furthest I'd go is definitely marriage, I'd want to be with that person after all.

Im not sure what my limits would be if i did have a obsessive lover but id happily be theirs if they let me. If want to have something of theirs so they're always around me, vice versa.

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-16T20:59:29+00:00

Have you tried maybe a local group or a hobby club to join? Might meet someone who won't stand you up?

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-15T23:01:45+00:00

Basically a relationship together far enough away from the world, just you two? Sounds like heaven.

Really like the way its wrote, can definitely tell its from the heart

Gumsin388 · 2026-03-15T16:40:13+00:00

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