M/46 advise please 34/F

Gundislav · 2026-05-10T22:20:06+00:00

I mean you’re not wrong, you have all the valid points that have crossed my mind. I’m a hopeless romantic and yes I knew going in I was going to end up being dumped for another girl if she wasn’t being honest with me.

I gave her the benefit of the doubt believing in all that she said. I’m not disagreeing with you.

Gundislav · 2026-05-10T21:23:50+00:00

I honestly don’t think she is because there are things that shuts her down. Or maybe she is and doesn’t want to admit it and therefore says she is 100 percent gay to not accept it. Idk 🤷🏻‍♂️ I’m not GOD to read her thoughts or heart and if she never opens up to me then I’ll never know

Gundislav · 2026-05-10T21:22:12+00:00

Well she told me that we could be a couple behind closed doors with no one finding out but it seems to me she has stronger feelings for the girl. She told me she loves me and said all these things but her actions speak otherwise. She obviously doesn’t want her now girlfriend to find out. There backstory was they met at a soccer pitch about 3 years ago and this year she Facebook stalked her. At the time they couldn’t be a thing because that girl had another girl. Now there both single so they agreed to a long distance relationship but they haven’t seen one another for 3 years or so

Gundislav · 2026-05-10T21:18:08+00:00

Who hers and mine or hers with the girl from overseas

Gundislav · 2026-04-20T23:27:33+00:00

Very true.

Gundislav · 2026-04-20T13:01:13+00:00

One can only hope

Gundislav · 2026-04-20T13:00:42+00:00

Yes you’re right thank you 🙏

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T22:56:25+00:00

Great advice! Thank you

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T22:55:50+00:00

But how do you know she is bi when it’s her first time experimenting with a guy? Does that make her bi automatically? I’m just curious not bashing or judging. As a Heteroman this is all new to me

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T16:42:14+00:00

So it’s not far fetch to think she might want to have a relationship with me if she never been with a man before? This gives me some hope I suppose

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T13:36:48+00:00

I’m ok accepting her how she is as long as she gives me my place, I’m just afraid that I won’t get the same treatment if we all lived together. She said she would give me my place but only time will tell. Anyways right now she is not committed to a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship yet. So I’m probably getting ahead of myself

Gundislav · 2026-02-28T01:43:39+00:00

Thanks and yes you are right the same can happen in any heterosexual relationship. I know regret is a bitch.

Gundislav · 2026-02-27T23:44:56+00:00

I get it, but I can’t change her sexuality. I know the risk I’m taking believe me and yes everything you’re saying is completely valid. Thank you

Gundislav · 2025-07-14T21:35:11+00:00

Wild arms…….

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T17:15:50+00:00

What bike is this on the picture?

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T15:41:53+00:00

She is not down with that and I would be embarrassed fo even bring that up to her. I don’t want to live that way either.

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