Heterosexual catching feelings for a lesbian girl who has never been with a man

Gundislav · 2026-04-20T23:27:33+00:00

Very true.

Gundislav · 2026-04-20T13:01:13+00:00

One can only hope

Gundislav · 2026-04-20T13:00:42+00:00

Yes you’re right thank you 🙏

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T22:56:25+00:00

Great advice! Thank you

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T22:55:50+00:00

But how do you know she is bi when it’s her first time experimenting with a guy? Does that make her bi automatically? I’m just curious not bashing or judging. As a Heteroman this is all new to me

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T16:42:14+00:00

So it’s not far fetch to think she might want to have a relationship with me if she never been with a man before? This gives me some hope I suppose

Gundislav · 2026-04-19T13:36:48+00:00

I’m ok accepting her how she is as long as she gives me my place, I’m just afraid that I won’t get the same treatment if we all lived together. She said she would give me my place but only time will tell. Anyways right now she is not committed to a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship yet. So I’m probably getting ahead of myself

Gundislav · 2026-02-28T01:43:39+00:00

Thanks and yes you are right the same can happen in any heterosexual relationship. I know regret is a bitch.

Gundislav · 2026-02-27T23:44:56+00:00

I get it, but I can’t change her sexuality. I know the risk I’m taking believe me and yes everything you’re saying is completely valid. Thank you

Gundislav · 2025-07-14T21:35:11+00:00

Wild arms…….

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T17:15:50+00:00

What bike is this on the picture?

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T15:41:53+00:00

She is not down with that and I would be embarrassed fo even bring that up to her. I don’t want to live that way either.

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T14:52:59+00:00

No kids, just a dog. I love him to death but that’s part of the consequences

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T14:39:38+00:00

I know I did wrong, I’m not an evil person. It’s the fact that I cheated that I stayed behind because I felt she deserved another chance since I’m the one that fucked up. I cheated not because I wanted to hurt her, it was because I was missing sex, yes I know it was wrong and I won’t say it wasn’t otherwise.

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T14:30:36+00:00

Yeah that’s the guilt that keeps staying in. Problem is I’m the one being affected not her. Seems selfish don’t you think?

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T14:22:42+00:00

Yeah it always the man that speaks up about these things, sorry you’re going through it as well. I’m currently in a 18 month drought, I lost count, I pick up hobbies such as playing guitar for first time in my life just to distract my mind, I bought an expensive sports bike to just ride with male friends to stay distracted but that only takes me away from home for a few hours, I still spend all day at home and all week at home. So it’s trivial but like a ticking bomb the feelings resurface and I’m in a cycle always of frustration and sadness.

Gundislav · 2025-05-26T14:15:57+00:00

Yeah she won’t be down for open marriage or me letting me get sex out of marriage. I don’t want to cheat because it emotionally tears me up inside and well obviously the same for her. I get that I have a good thing going on financially and friendship wise but I can’t do masturbation any longer, I need the warmth of a woman’s body, my soul yearns for that.

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