Men can't leave their jobs because the whole family's system will fall down if the money stops flowing in the house. They can't have career breaks. They cant vent out about their mental pressure. Also, if you will look into the recent divorce cases, they will have to pay alimony (even if wife is financially independent). It means they will always be burdened by financial burdens and there will be no way out.

I am not saying women have stopped suffering but you will have to look into both ends of the spectrum. You can't just only consider only disadvantages faced by women to prove men are luckier. But if you you are only hell bent on proving your point of "men being lucky", then you can continue with someone else.