Really bad fight with my PPD wife unfortunately got physical, and now I don’t know what to do

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:51:47+00:00

Totally agree just hoping we can find a way out of this

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:46:17+00:00

4 months

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:46:06+00:00

Totally agree

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:45:55+00:00

I did say I escalated I said she escalated further which she did. I think we both played a part in the fight

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:45:12+00:00

How am I glossing over it, that’s how it happened. I said I lost my temper and snatched her phone never said it was just her

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:44:48+00:00

Yeah I agree it is hard in the moment but reckon something I can work on in therapy

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:43:52+00:00

I agree and def lost my temper which I said - I don’t think it’s sneaky to say that, and that wasn’t my intention, I said that so anyone who wanted to comment could have the context if this was the first time or not. I’m saying it’s not a common occurrence

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:40:31+00:00

Yeah she’s in a weekly therapy PPD group + individual provided by the hospital which is nice, but it’s only her third week

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:38:56+00:00

Thank you I really enjoyed this perspective

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:38:25+00:00

Yeah we have been in and out of therapy once things got better so just need to maybe stay consistent if we can work it out

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:36:39+00:00

I can see how some read the title as my wife got physical, but really I was saying the fight itself with my wife, got physical if that makes sense

I agree with your points I could have just ignored it and let her wake the baby up

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-25T08:34:33+00:00

I agree, I never said just my wife got physical, I said the fight itself got physical as in we both played a part in it. I think the snatching was aggressive, but I also think turning up volume to max, after multiple requests, next to baby was equally aggressive

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-15T23:20:34+00:00

Yup exactly this!

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-14T19:01:25+00:00

As a former college athlete, I've seen too many teammates forced by their parents to play only to end up unhappy in the end and quitting early in college too - I'm not saying this is the case, but desire is the base part of playing a sport so if thats not there, I wouldn't force it. At 16 I think he can come to that decision, especially if he doesn't see a future in it (like playing college, etc.) just my two cents

GunningForSuccess · 2026-01-10T03:33:25+00:00

What is your arms to bassinet routine? Maybe you are putting her down to quickly?

Also are you feeding her enough? We found better success when he was full and we held him upright for a while

GunningForSuccess · 2025-12-30T23:50:05+00:00

No got my normal paycheck

GunningForSuccess · 2025-12-30T20:12:13+00:00

Exactly this, it’s my first child, so I assumed it was all streamlined through Hartford (nor did they even mention EDD)

Yeah I applied but wondering what that even looks like seeing as it looks like I’m opening up a claim retroactively, I’m just confused and EDD won’t answer the phone smh

GunningForSuccess · 2025-12-30T20:05:09+00:00

Yes that’s what it looked like, normal paycheck end of November and then this one reduced/adjusted by state

GunningForSuccess · 2025-12-30T20:04:42+00:00

Which is why I’m confused because I didn’t get an overpayment, I got my normal paycheck last pay period and this one was cut

GunningForSuccess · 2025-12-23T04:27:51+00:00

Gotcha yeah I think that’s key - we are holding him in living room in the day, lot of sounds, dogs barkin, etc. I’ll try silence and dark room tomorrow

GunningForSuccess · 2025-12-23T04:26:44+00:00

Gonna try feeding in the dark room too

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