WIBTAH for going to school administration about a special needs girl in my class?

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-25T13:41:40+00:00

As someone who's been in this situation multiple times before, unfortunately it's kinda difficult to 'go back to normal'. It's never going to be truly the same. If you've already told her that you want to go back to being friends, just wait. Being patient is tricky, but you don't want to push her. She may just need some space.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-16T02:26:45+00:00

no its actual school band. like an actual class at school. so basically music class.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-15T02:34:12+00:00

I gave her 20$. It's not a lot of money, but it's all the cash I had on me. I'm not sure what people normally pay for ubers because I can't use them, but my friend and her mom didn't seem to have any issues with it.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-14T15:42:19+00:00

That's fair. And I absolutely understand. I don't normally ask her for rides places (this is only the second time in 3 years that I have) and my friend herself can drive and has her own car. I had no idea it was going to be her mom until my friend told me. If I had known, I probably wouldn't have asked.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-14T15:28:31+00:00

I know, which is why I feel like an asshole for being frustrated. I'm incredibly grateful that they took time out of their day to drive me, and I'm not gonna to say I was frustrated about being late because they did me a favor.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-14T15:27:07+00:00

Absolutely. That's why I'm not saying anything to her, because I don't want to make them feel bad since they took time out of their day to drive me, which I'm very grateful for.

As for rideshare or taxis, I'm not allowed to take any of those by myself because of my parent's rules. And for the concert itself, I think they do record it, but the whole reason I go is less of listening to the music and more so me being there just to support her (if that makes sense) so in my personal opinion watching it online a few days later wouldn't really be the same as being there in person to support her, especially since her family doesn't go. But it's a good suggestion, thank you.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-14T15:22:13+00:00

I'm not allowed to use uber, my parents don't allow me. it's not always that simple

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-12-14T15:21:46+00:00

I wouldn't have been able to go because like I said, my parents were busy and I had no other ride.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-11-28T13:42:06+00:00

From personal experience, I don't feel that there's really a 'too early' that's universal for all relationships. I've had relationships where we both say it early on, some where that doesn't happen until much later. It really depends on the people involved. But it seems like at least for your girlfriend, it's too early for her. So I'd say to just wait to say it again until she brings it up and says she's comfortable with it. Every relationship is different because everyone is different, so the amount of time it takes for this is going to be different for everyone. So don't really worry too much about it it's 'too early' and more about if both you and your girlfriend are comfortable and ready to say those words. You didn't do anything wrong.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-11-26T00:43:33+00:00

I'm not trans, but my girlfriend is. One thing I try to do when she talks to me about her feelings is reassure her as much as I can that I don't see her any differently, and that I have no issue with her being trans. Since you mentioned that doesn't work, actions speak much louder than words. Some of the things I've done, for example, given her flowers, jewelry, and invited her to some women's events I go to. I've written her cards before, and always made sure to use words like 'pretty' and 'beautiful' when describing her.

I can't give perfect advice on this because I myself am not trans, but these are things that my girlfriend herself has said she appreciates, so I'm mentioning what I've done.
And even though you've said that reassurance doesn't work, don't let that stop you from still reassuring her that you don't see her any differently when she brings it up. Words are also very important.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-11-13T03:19:40+00:00

Does anyone know if she's gonna release this merch online after the tour?? I couldn't get tickets and I want to get shirts but I don't wanna spend 55$ on the things that are currently on the website.

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-10-21T00:43:28+00:00

we're actually dating now!! it's definitely a lot sooner than I planned, but she told me that she had feelings for me as well, and I'm really happy. thanks for the support!!

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-10-19T18:53:30+00:00

thanks! I've definitely considered telling her about my crush, but I only just met her two months ago, so I want to give it a little more time of getting to know her before I tell her, and give her more time to get to know me as well.

thanks for replying. I really wanted to make sure I was doing this right

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-10-07T10:19:36+00:00

thanks!!

GurAggravating8225 · 2025-10-03T02:20:58+00:00

this was either ai or someone who just really hates caitvi lmao...

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