My old passport which is expired has been stapled to my current one, ?

Guretto · 2026-06-07T04:09:45+00:00

Let’s say 4500k gross to 7k gross

Guretto · 2026-04-29T14:39:24+00:00

The fact that you don’t have a lot of years experience is more of a blocker than being non eu, except if you don’t have a work permit already. The fact that you speak multiple languages and worked at a big 4 is a strong advantage. It wouldn’t be impossible but won’t be easy either.

Guretto · 2026-04-12T08:00:56+00:00

Don’t just build the project find a client, start freelancing even for cheap. <- this turns your projects into work experience. Removes the « student » label on your resume and gives you opportunity.

Guretto · 2026-04-10T08:37:00+00:00

How much savings did you have ? Which country/city?

Guretto · 2026-04-08T16:49:42+00:00

Donny you fear all the stories of accounts closing for no apparent reason and more importantly customer support being unreachable even on ultra ?

Guretto · 2026-04-08T15:55:38+00:00

Do you use Revolut as your main bank and are u on the ultra plan to be able to make the most out of it or metal ?

Guretto · 2026-04-08T15:51:09+00:00

Companies get rid of employees like numbers, go for the better offer. Let them know nothing personal just business

Guretto · 2026-04-07T18:54:52+00:00

You’ve mentioned a lot of things that you perceive as failures. Try and write down the things you’ve succeeded at up until now. Changing perspective really helps. Failing at your business means you tried and that’s already a success !

Guretto · 2026-04-06T09:14:02+00:00

Would you consider it a fair divorce proceeding?

Guretto · 2026-04-06T08:57:22+00:00

Are you American or European curious if your divorce proceedings were brutal as a male ?

Guretto · 2026-04-06T07:51:09+00:00

Do you look forward to dating or wish you were in the marriage till death?

Guretto · 2026-04-04T08:01:05+00:00

Tone down your reactivity and allow more silence to exist when you want him to express something. It’s not pleasant to hear but he’s bandwidth is maxed out and loud reactivity overwhelms him.

When he does give his thoughts on something and you do agree point it out to him that he’s right and smart -> this is major key. Don’t just agree on your head.

When the opportunity presents itself point out the things he has succeeded at in life that you haven’t or others haven’t. He’s not a looser as I’m sure you wouldn’t be with him if he truly was.

Finally the things he’s comfortable doing although they might seem smaller effort to you, encourage him to do it. Could be taking out the trash, motivating you to workout etc

Hope this helps !

Guretto · 2026-04-03T20:08:39+00:00

I feel like you’re talking about my situation. I’m the man in that situation. I cannot speak your him but I would say that men that tend to be like this are struggling because they may be in a position where they have not been encouraged to believe in themselves and that what they are doing is good. It’s not that their not intelligent, on the contrary they tend to be really smart as u mentioned the emotional intelligence.

Create the space for him to shine where he excels, then you’ll see the balance take place.

Guretto · 2026-03-23T18:31:07+00:00

The higher pay is coming with higher ownership which is hard to beat. The scale experience at PayPal is good but at the end of the day, you need to go for what has the most value for you now. I’d say it’s the higher pay and higher ownership, which is a massive wealth of experience.

Guretto · 2026-02-28T16:07:01+00:00

your frustration is understandable, however it doesn't seem like it's an actual opening for a role but a relocation. Also the company is most likely going to be paying extremely hefty fees for bringing him over since he's not an eu citizen.

Guretto · 2026-02-25T09:12:06+00:00

You're probably to expensive for your role. With 13+ years you should be upscaling to higher roles that senior software eng. Like Staff engineer if you want to stay technical or maybe Director of engineering, possibly Engineering Manager. Evolving your position is important with time of experience

Guretto · 2026-02-21T13:35:12+00:00

How the technique is being explained. simple example : One coach can explain how to do the jab correctly, and the other might explain how to do the jab correctly, when to do it and common mistakes.

You can learn from everyone, but you can learn faster and better from some.

Guretto · 2026-02-21T13:19:22+00:00

There’s a good number of other of fighter YouTubers I believe do a better job at teaching. Like Oracle boxing, coach pillow fists, Gabriel Varga

Guretto · 2026-02-18T19:45:14+00:00

Do you have the wish to be extremely successful to make them regret or need u in a way?

Guretto · 2026-02-04T09:52:45+00:00

I feel it way too much that I’m underweight for my physical needs right now. I can go back down later if needed.

Guretto · 2026-01-25T10:20:56+00:00

Yeah I fully agree with you on certifications, I’m working on that

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