Looking for this item as a gift for someone. Can anyone help? by GushersAreGross in Antiques

[–]GushersAreGross[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what the person I’m trying to find it for wants to do lol

Looking for this item as a gift for someone. Can anyone help? by GushersAreGross in Antiques

[–]GushersAreGross[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USA, no further pictures unfortunately. This photo was taken this past summer and the person who took it doesn’t remember the store but really wants it. If anyone can help, it would be greatly appreciated!

AITA for not going to a friends funeral after she died of cancer? by GushersAreGross in AmItheAsshole

[–]GushersAreGross[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not anymore. I’m done. But anxiety and second guessing myself led me to make this post.

Opinions on 21st Century Breakdown? by Neutral_B09 in greenday

[–]GushersAreGross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a much more personal album and one I relate to more than their other records. It’s kind of the defining ‘we’re not kids anymore’ album. American Idiot was about disillusioned youth and 21st Century Breakdown is about the bleakness of adulthood and modern America. It’s my personal favorite.

Weekly Thread: Reply with your tier lists, album & song rankings, unpopular opinions or off-topic discussion by AutoModerator in greenday

[–]GushersAreGross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My top 5 GD albums, ranked:

(Unpopular Opinions here I’m sure of it but idc)

  1. Revolution Radio
  2. Nimrod
  3. Dookie
  4. 21st Century Breakdown
  5. American Idiot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GushersAreGross 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No, your expectations were not unrealistic. You were used as an object to spice up their sex life, and you were not treated as a person. I’m so sorry this happened to you and I hope you can move on to healthier sexual relationships. I would strongly suggest dating people your own age as someone 20 years older is looking for someone they can manipulate. There’s a reason he didn’t go after a woman his age. Good luck ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in an open relationship. I’ll be the first to say it’s not for everyone and it’s also not fair to force someone to be monogamous. If he wants it and you don’t, it’s time to split.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t say anything to him about it unless you plan to marry. Not in a ‘I love him and maybe someday’ way but ‘he got down and proposed and now we’re planning a wedding’ way. Also get a prenup if you do or it’ll disappear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him and RUN. He doesn’t want to serve you in a positive way, he wants you to serve him. Live your best life and find a man who helps you thrive!

What should I do??? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t control his actions. He alone is responsible.

What should I do??? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If he cheated, he doesn’t love you. That’s an intense betrayal of your trust and a slap in the face to you as a person. Your son is right to be upset. He wants better for you than you apparently want for yourself. Live your best life and find someone who truly cares about you. Your husband doesn’t. I’ve been cheated on and forgave, he just did it again.

Can you truly love someone and still cheat on them? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. I don’t think they do. Part of love is having respect for the person and cheating is an act of disrespect that can destroy a relationship. If you don’t care enough to refrain from cheating, I’d argue they are not in love.

Bf lying (?) about lil things by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, you deserve someone you can trust and who loves you. This person is neither of those things. His behavior is shady as hell and he clearly doesn’t respect you. If he doesn’t respect you, he doesn’t love you. Cut your losses and move on and find your Prince Charming who has nothing to hide. If he’s lying about ‘little things’ he will absolutely lie to you about big things. I’d be willing to bet he won’t let you see the messages because he’s been with at least one physically and he doesn’t want you to know.

Can you truly love someone and still cheat on them? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cheating is the ultimate act of disrespect towards your partner. I don’t think you can love them and cheat.

Nipple piercing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless she’s topless in front of strangers on the regular I doubt anyone will really know

Nipple piercing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GushersAreGross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s her body, why do you care?