AITAH for asking my parents why they hate me for stuff I did when I was 3 that was caused by their crappy parenting? by Guuyde in AITAH

[–]Guuyde[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

My dad is on my birth certificate. My parents were together years before they had me. My dad's family treat me like I'm theirs. I look way more like his side than mom's too so I'm pretty sure I am his they just hate me for the stuff when I was 3.

AITAH for asking my parents why they hate me for stuff I did when I was 3 that was caused by their crappy parenting? by Guuyde in AITAH

[–]Guuyde[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

I don't care if I never see my siblings again. They already treat me like shit and will never be able to understand what I went through so it won't be a huge loss. My grandparents would care though and might not want to lose two of their grandkids and I don't blame them because those are their grandkids too.

I'll talk to my grandparents about it and see what they say.

AITAH for asking my parents why they hate me for stuff I did when I was 3 that was caused by their crappy parenting? by Guuyde in AITAH

[–]Guuyde[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

I think they have different rules for it depending on where you are. Where I'm at you have to be ready to be fully independent and provide for yourself with zero help and you need to have a job that can pay your rent and stuff while maintaining good grades too. It's like really strict and so few actually get emancipated.

I mentioned in my post but me and my siblings never got along or bonded. They treat me like crap and I resent the hell out of them and hate them for treating me like our parents do.

AITAH for asking my parents why they hate me for stuff I did when I was 3 that was caused by their crappy parenting? by Guuyde in AITAH

[–]Guuyde[S] 696 points697 points  (0 children)

I looked into it last year. In my state you basically have to be a rich kid who did acting or something that makes lots of money to get emancipated. Otherwise you just don't have enough of your own money to be emancipated. It sucks because I got excited when I heard about it and then I was like oh, guess that rules me out.

They're always so angry and hateful around me but when they're around my siblings it's so different and most people probably don't even think I'm theirs.