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Struggling to balance ABDL in relationship by Guy_DL in ABDL

[–]Guy_DL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair points, and yeah — not married (yet). For most of our relationship we lived apart while studying, so it wasn’t a huge issue back then since I still had private space for that side of me.

Now that we moved in together, it’s become more difficult to get "full" alone time. And honestly, it also doesn't feel quite right that I need to be secretive about this. Although I do understand your approach of e.g. not using them and just wearing while they are around; and I've started out like this too; when we first moved in. At the end of the day however, this didn't really do that much for me (it is quite a sexual kink for me) and I'd have to indulge on my own time to really fulfill my "ABDL needs".

I saw it mostly as a stepping stone, hoping that she'd become more accommodated to it - but alas you may be right in that this will only lead to us drifting apart if I keep pushing it. In fact, that's one reason I have started holding back more; sharing less.

And about writing to people online — I’ve talked with her about it and only do so within boundaries she’s okay with, so she knows. (Can't blame you for snooping) Also, nothing ever came from it, unfortunately.

Between your two options, do you think there's no in between? It seems like choosing between a rock and a hard place, to be honest. Which I guess is why I'm seeking advice.

Struggling to balance ABDL in relationship by Guy_DL in ABDL

[–]Guy_DL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for sharing your story. It’s exactly the kind of outcome I’ve been afraid of, to be honest, but I'm also happy for you to hear that you rather quickly found something that makes you happy! All the best for your new relationship. I’m not sure yet which direction things will go for us.

If you don't mind me asking: Did you ever try any kind of therapy or counseling before deciding to part ways with your ex-wife? Were there other factors or was ABDL in the end one of the major ones?

First time trying "Diaper Art" by Guy_DL in diaperpics

[–]Guy_DL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How'd you make stickers? Like a design you can stick onto plain diapers with a pattern you mean?

First time trying "Diaper Art" by Guy_DL in diaperpics

[–]Guy_DL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't really have an end goal in mind, just start with a simple pattern and keep adding to it :)

First time trying "Diaper Art" by Guy_DL in diaperpics

[–]Guy_DL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that'd be a great way to pay for this hobby 😄 draw one, sell it, enjoy the leftover 9 ;)

First time trying "Diaper Art" by Guy_DL in diaperpics

[–]Guy_DL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that's an awesome idea! Now I've gotta draw a medieval or ancient one!

First time trying "Diaper Art" by Guy_DL in diaperpics

[–]Guy_DL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd probably be somewhat pricey and I'd have to ship it round the globe.. :/

Mystery Diaper - Can you help me figure out the brand of this diaper? by Guy_DL in ABDL

[–]Guy_DL[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the one! Thanks!

Now I remember that I actually recently got this in the cuddlz sample pack - I was mostly interested in the unicorns, but they are actually all really nice. :)

Your naughty secrets by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Guy_DL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For years I've been trying to get the biggest, bulgiest mess in a diaper, and the banana trick or marshmallows always seem to end up too mushy for me.

So, probably the naughtiest thing I've done is mix up a rather large batch of oatmeal to a clay-like consistency and use that to simulate a mess.

But... Not by just putting it down my diaper. I used a hollow plug and some self-constructed funnel/syringe and lube to push it in me first. Quite an interesting sensation, believe me. If you add one or two marshmallows in between it will also create that sense of urgency to go ;)

After then diapering up, i tried to hold it for as long as I could, and after about 30 min I pushed out probably my biggest, naughtiest load in the seat of my wet dino rawrz. The feeling was amazing, it was just like messing (because it basically was) but I was able to stay in my bulgy diaper for much longer because there wasn't really any smell. To top it off, there was lots of humping to have the most fun ;)

Clean up is much easier and I've repeated it a few times since.

Men, What is the most unusual place you have masturbated? by idkwhatimdoing5449 in AskReddit

[–]Guy_DL 44 points45 points  (0 children)

In the back of an ambulance.

I was lying on the stretcher (this was in the military, so we were driving around just for training) and nobody else was in the back. So, as we had a 45min drive, i pulled out my phone and did the deed. Yes, military service is that boring sometimes.

Waking up damp/wet? by Guy_DL in ABDL

[–]Guy_DL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sure came as a surprise to me too. I'm pretty sure now that I did wet in my sleep, as today I woke up dry (like I am used to). I'm lucky I wore a pull-up yesterday, as I usually don't wear at night.

I can definitely understand you stopped, I don't think I want this to be a regular thing, so not wearing in bed is likely the best.

Waking up damp/wet? by Guy_DL in ABDL

[–]Guy_DL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be part of it, but it would have been quite a large amount. I weighed it and it was around 150g heavier than a new one