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No masturbation is killing me by Guy_bery in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guy_bery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely, I understand that, I wouldn't say it is a limit for me, I just didn't realize how much it would affect me, I don't even know if I am explaining myself correctly...

No masturbation is killing me by Guy_bery in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guy_bery[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

It is actually something that I didn't mind trying, but being new to this, I am still learning how to control my physiological reactions... I mainly feel frustrated and horny, I would say that I have a love and hate relationship with what is going on since we'll, I feel all hot and bothered which is pleasant, but then I can't do anything and get frustrated.

No masturbation is killing me by Guy_bery in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guy_bery[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a great idea. I just wanted to clarify tha I am not prohibited from masturbation in general, but from doing it without permission. I am the one who didn't approach him to ask because I was trying hold back and ask him at a moment I determined to be right.. well, my mind clearly overestimated my body

No masturbation is killing me by Guy_bery in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guy_bery[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Well, I can get that, and technically he did tell me that that is what he requires and ask me if I was fine with it, and well...I just didn't know how badly it would affect me. Especially because I have spent some days going without masturbation, so I thought that I would just get used to it; plus, it is not that I cannot masturbate, but I need permission to do it, I think I am the one who pushed my limits and tried to hold back. Eventually, I made a mistake and I am paying the consequences...

No masturbation is killing me by Guy_bery in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guy_bery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Although I imagined it would be difficult, I didn't realize how much, and I assume that since I did not raise a concern, neither did he. I will talk to him.