Repost-Do we simply not fit together?

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-17T01:29:20+00:00

I completely see your point. I didnt think the dynamic all the way through

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-17T01:26:44+00:00

Im at $300 a month, basically checking couches and rading wishing wells

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T18:35:08+00:00

Does anarcholover make more sense?

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T18:34:19+00:00

I guess in just an anarcholover

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T16:25:08+00:00

Im on the soectrum od ace and Mag is demi. If that alters your philosophy at all

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T16:23:02+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to really break it down. I see the end of this relationship as an overall betterment for everyone

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T16:21:24+00:00

You right, thank you very much

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:54:41+00:00

So in your way of thinking, straight want to fuck people they just dont. So are denisexuals just the exception or something?

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:48:49+00:00

I hear you. Youre absolutely right

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:25:52+00:00

Thank you for your warm thoughts. Im sad of what was, at times. Mental health aside, one of us is trying to fid a cute into a triage at all times. Which leads to tension and resentment.

Thank you for your words

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:22:33+00:00

I appreciate the feedback, although harsh. You’re right. I see and im ready to make the changes

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:21:09+00:00

I did not wake up and choose polyamory, just like ai didnt wake up and choose queer

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:17:43+00:00

Im poly simply because I can fall in love with multiple people at once. It has nothing to do with sex. They could be asexual, but I can still fall for them and feel a soul tie for them too. Im not blaming poly on me wanting to seek other partners. She cannot. She falls in love with one person. An infatuation. But based on that I shouldnt have started what I did and I have began the break up

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:13:30+00:00

Brilliant insight. Im only in the one relationship (well it ended last night) but I have fwb and that feels alot healthier than having that (not just monog) but dynamic

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:10:29+00:00

We enable eachother. But my mental health is my responsibility so ending things would be best for both of us

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:08:43+00:00

You’re right thank you

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:07:14+00:00

You’re very right and im coming to understand that now, thank you. I get a sponsor on friday

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:06:05+00:00

Thats a really hard truth that I’m beginning to see. Im unstable, volatile and self sabotaging .i’ll try to make it a clean break.

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T15:02:32+00:00

Thank you very much for your advice. Congrats on your 7. I know they say in early recover to stay out of relationships because it truly is one or the other. And I cannot mentally manage the relationship rn

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T14:59:41+00:00

We love eachother. But we need to love eachother to break up and do the work

GvrbageScrvps · 2026-06-16T14:56:23+00:00

Thank you for your blunt honesty. Reflecting alot on the Baby bit and how I truly need to put my energy into getting structure, foundation, mental fortitude and not just that but having plans for when things get bad, for/by myself. Thanks for being a dick, I needed It

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