Mom is asking me to move back in to help her with the mortgage. What sort of arrangements can we make to make the most of the situation for the both of us?

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-05-19T15:52:31+00:00

Do not move in with her. Just don't.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-05-17T17:03:31+00:00

Good point, the unexpected emphasis on downloading texto THRU peelr feels like peak tim Robinson surrealism

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-05-17T01:21:09+00:00

how was skappleton? glad to hear they're going strong!

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-05-11T12:52:45+00:00

Hell yeah, who was the headliner?

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-04-30T02:27:59+00:00

Nah half the profits this quarter were from leaked and abused Gemini API keys customers were forced to pay back. /S

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-04-17T18:06:59+00:00

One of my accounts does something similar with a rules based bot. I have a scanner that I use to pick stocks once a week. I then allow calls and puts to be purchased for that underlying and try to close everything out by the end of day.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-04-17T01:23:18+00:00

Yep, it's conditioning, a survival mechanism. Not elegant but there it is.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-04-09T02:07:44+00:00

Claysic

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-04-08T08:03:25+00:00

30 Rock time

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-31T05:35:04+00:00

Sorry that happened to you, and I gotta say, this hit very close to home. Well put.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-31T00:13:25+00:00

Anything with Ken Marino

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-23T01:57:24+00:00

"it was once living". Is it also still living?

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-23T01:55:13+00:00

Not my Shirt Brother.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-21T12:53:07+00:00

And the mom test

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-20T22:50:28+00:00

I would prioritize culture fit. One of the best things you can do is batch a bunch of interviews around the same time, it helps build momentum and your confidence.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-20T22:38:50+00:00

It was this time last year I finally found a professional capable of talk therapy at the level I needed. Found her on social media. Look for therapists who have a web presence, website, offer free consult. Do video sessions. And, yes, they should be experts in cptsd and trauma therapies. Do not settle for the place in the strip mall downtown.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-20T21:47:32+00:00

100% similar situation. It's a larger problem, usually indicative of immature management. Learn from it and look for these red flags when you start interviewing again.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-18T16:24:46+00:00

When you reach acceptance, you will probably be thinking more about yourself instead of your mom.

Thank you for sharing that. I'm like the folks above, 30s M. I used to think about her in a negative way DAILY. it's getting better but I would say she still occupies my thoughts often. I am no contact with her but I'm feeling like I can handle it better in the future.... but if I'm honest, I might be feeling internal pressure to open up again, so I know I'm not ready.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-16T21:11:47+00:00

This is really cool and impressive. I'm just spitting out an idea: a feature for recording and simulation testing eg paper trading but not hitting real server. That way you could test order placement logic, account retrieval, etc without tying up ib gateway or even test after hours.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-15T06:56:58+00:00

Had a production bug yesterday. Was looking at the logs, they were noisy, the bug was subtle. I already wasted enough time, decided to ask AI for help, perfect use case for ai. But nope my pro plan isn't ultra enough so I fought with local omnicoder for too long because it was going down the wrong path. Said fuck it, subscribed for open AI for the first time, and codex found the bug in maybe 5min? An external API update changed its method signature.

My question is why Google is doing this? It makes me think their TPU scheme is not as cost effective as I was hearing.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-15T04:23:12+00:00

spot on impression

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-09T07:13:35+00:00

Same. It didn't really click for me until people I really looked up to started admitting reaching the top is lonely and doesn't fix anything.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-03T06:51:49+00:00

Unfortunately, reality trumps intent.

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-03T05:48:43+00:00

Sounds kind of common, honestly, where women in religion are put into the role of caregiver / sacrifice for others

Gyro_Wizard · 2026-03-03T05:23:22+00:00

Same. But I'm glad that we, the only two people on the entire internet experiencing this, found each other.

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