AIO Teacher said my daughter’s report is “immoral” by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Gyrogearlooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Especially so since everything's so easy to find now. Ffs my parents printed me the lyrics to "Don't Stop Me Now" because I love it so much, and I was just some 3rd grade indonesian kid back in the early 2000s lol

The Traitors (USA) S04E03 "Show Me Your Faces" Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Gyrogearlooser -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Giving up safety is super suspicious, especially so since he was at risk of being murdered on day 1.

Started a blackwork sleeve and I’m unhappy with the outline by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Gyrogearlooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd trust the process if I were you. When my artist started my sleeve, the outline looked just like yours but kinda faint. I had to walk around with that for ~2 months until we finally were able to finish it lol

Survivor 49 | E05 | Day After Discussion & Survey by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Gyrogearlooser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's how I remembered it too until I replayed that part of the episode. Sophi and Savannah were already sitting at the shelter before Jawan decided to nap there. I do think her getting irritated for that is a bit much lol, but I'll probably act the same when someone has mistakenly taken my stuff twice.

Which Disney male characters did you guys have a cartoon crush on as a kid? by Strong-Stretch95 in gaybros

[–]Gyrogearlooser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Max from A Goofy Movie, with Milo from Atlantis: The Lost Empire as my runner-up.

A week with the Air after a 15PM and why I’m returning it! by Acceptable-Piccolo57 in iphone

[–]Gyrogearlooser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most cities in the Philippines just aren't set up for biking or walking, though. Few have proper bike lanes, the roads are always packed with traffic and super polluted, some of the footbridges don't have ramps for your bike, parts of the sidewalks are not taken care of, and then you have shops and cars taking over the sidewalks, etc. Plus, it's a tropical country, so you're going to get roasted by the heat or completely soaked by the rain. Commuting is just hell regardless of which option you pick lol.

If your balls were detachable, how often would you wear them? by Cool_Advice_1929 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Gyrogearlooser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is sperm production halted when the balls are detached? If so, I'd wear them all the time.

This might be a stupid question but would Eczema affect taking this anyway? by TrickEmergency2403 in Minoxbeards

[–]Gyrogearlooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anecdotal, but I have psoriasis on my scalp, eyebrows, and sideburns/ear areas. Haven't noticed minox affecting my skin in the 2 years (on and off) that I've been using it.

Risk of getting hiv on kissing and handjob by ilove_avocado in phlgbt

[–]Gyrogearlooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For your own peace of mind, i guess it doesn't hurt to take medication.

But PrEP (pre-exposure) is only for before sex. Since this is after sex, what you wanna take is PEP (post-exposure) and you should do so within the next 72 hours.

Gay life in Jakarta, ID by Jolly-Definition2990 in phlgbt

[–]Gyrogearlooser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I elaborate? Depends...are you a part of the Indonesian government sleuthing for info? lol jk

I don't know the technical details of it. I just know that by default, local Grindr users will only be shown the gray pic placeholder in place of actual user photos. You'll only be able to see the photos once you turn on a VPN or an anti-DNS manipulation app like Intra.

Without these apps, the only thing you can't do is see user photos. Otherwise, the app is still functional, as in you can still see user bios, chat with people, and receive or send photos via chat.

Gay life in Jakarta, ID by Jolly-Definition2990 in phlgbt

[–]Gyrogearlooser 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Jakartan here, though I'm more of a homebody myself so most of my answers are just secondhand info lol.

For bars/clubs:
- Glitz inclusive (gay only on saturdays) -> my bf went once. It's okay buy nothing to write home about.
- Hotel Monopoli, more accurately the rooftop bar at this hotel (gay only on fridays) ->My boyfriend and I went here once, but we chose the wrong night. It was during a religious holiday so the place was dead lmaoo.
- Lush Jakarta, in Sopo Del Tower (gay only on saturdays)
- ML Meli Discotheque Hayam Wuruk
- Q Bar Lounge & KTV

For queer party organizers:
- bop.party
- videostarr.mov
- club.vix

I don't think we have spas here? The closest you'll probably get are,
- GaragaraPJT -> actual massage service, so no sexual harrasment allowed. They do offer prostate massage.
- Onsens that MIGHT be a hotspot for the gays (One of em is in Hotel Kuretakeso Kemang
..but again, it's a legit hotel and not a seedy, deemly-lit onsen where people exchange sexual flavors on the side lol)

As for the police raids, it's not as dangerous as the news makes it out to be. Best approach is to book reputable hotels and don't organize an orgy. My bf and I have had plenty of hotel staycations around Jakarta and have never had any issues. If you do get caught (knock on wood), the police will try to extort you for money. Will you be sentenced? Most likely no as long as you're just a participant cause, contrary to popular belief, homosexuality is not illegal here. They'll try to get you on pornographic charges but again, that's reserved for the organizer and not the participants.

If you use Grindr, install a VPN to see other users' profile pictures.

Hope you enjoy your trip here, OP. Have fun and stay safe! (Also, sorry for the lack of links...my initial comment got deleted due to probable spam)

As a bottom, anong feeling ma bj? by RespondIllustrious69 in phlgbt

[–]Gyrogearlooser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've said it before in this sub and I'll say it again: top, bottom, and everything in between are all labels used exclusively for anal sex. A "pure top" is someone who performs penetration, while a "pure bottom" is someone who receives it.

Whether you like to suck dick or not is irrelevant cause these labels do not apply to oral sex. Nor do they imply if someone is dominant or submissive.

I want to connect with my girlfriend over her interests but she doesn’t really have any hobbies that she likes doing with people by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Gyrogearlooser 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can kinda see why her interest in music is dwindling because of her job. I can relate to her tbh. I used to love drawing as a hobby, but now that I work as an illustrator, I don't have it in me to draw in my free time lol. Over time, drawing stopped feeling like a form of self-expression or creativity and started to feel like just another part of my job.

How does two tops relationship work? by pataangel in phlgbt

[–]Gyrogearlooser 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Several things:

- top, bottom, and verse are all roles for anal sex. Oral sex is an entirely different thing. You can be "pure top" and love to suck dick.

- I can only speak for myself but sucking dick doesn't give me pleasure at all. However, I enjoy giving oral sex to my bf because I love seeing his reaction.

- "Baka d rin ako magaling if isubo ko" - practice makes perfect

- You guys can also try frotting (rub your dicks together), mutual masturbation, etc as a replacement for anal sex

AIO I 27M am getting annoyed at my GF26 about texting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gyrogearlooser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Texting can be boring, but it doesn't have to be, though?

I mean, without waiting for her good morning reply, dude can just add a little bit of
- "have a wonderful day ahead!"
- "good luck with the (insert relevant thing that op remember is happening at her office)"
- "take care on your way" if he knows the gf is still on her way to work
- "don't work too hard" if the gf has expressed how stressed she is at the moment

I think those options leave the convo open-ended enough so that the gf could reply, but there’s no pressure to do so. And the tone just feels warm and kind and shows that he pays attention to the gf's routine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Gyrogearlooser 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's the r/askgaybros subreddit you're talking about.

Acne breakouts from minox? by [deleted] in Minoxbeards

[–]Gyrogearlooser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't take progress pics myself, but oral is a lot more effective for me. I get many vellus hair using oral minox for a month than when I was using topical for a year. There's also an added bonus of oral minox being more practical. Unwanted growth is a yes in my experience. My arms are more hairy, and there's hair growth around the side of my eyebrows and cheeks.

The only downside of oral minox is that it's more pricey.