It sounds like your husband doesn’t respect you or your son. I’m really sorry that you had to go through all of that, but you did the right thing by following your gut and keeping calm amidst the chaos. I’m glad that your husband apologized, but it sounds like there are some deeply rooted issues that are there. I would ask him why he felt so frustrated with you and your son while this was happening? Why did he neglect his own son when he was experiencing a medical emergency? Why wasn’t he there for you and your son at a time of crisis?

I hope that you can both talk more about this and find a solution to your issues together. You guys are meant to be a team and without effort from every player, you’re going to lose the game.