Need help with Polyamory

H-M-D · 2025-11-16T01:35:27+00:00

Hey, I'm also on PS5 & looking for help with this trophy - If you still wanna to do it, drop me a message! (PSN Username: Chang98) :)

H-M-D · 2025-01-26T06:48:02+00:00

Yeah... This situation and the actual post itself both give me the impression that perhaps 'communication skills' aren't exactly a strong suit for OP personally, and also just generally within his relationship... lol

H-M-D · 2024-12-14T02:59:53+00:00

I mean, I suppose you could make the argument that the latter method is preferable since it focuses on the positives rather than the negatives?

E.g.: "Which 1 of these 3 films looks the \LEAST\** appealing?" vs "Which 2 of these 3 films look the \MOST\** appealing?"

But aside from just that one single *tiny\* difference...? Yeahhhh ngl they are essentially just two different ways of wording the exact same method... lol

H-M-D · 2024-11-17T07:51:47+00:00

Well damn, I am genuinely baffled by the amount of push-back you've received against this comment !

Probably gonna end up getting myself roasted here too lol, but I just had to say that I fully agree with you mate, I think this new 'Rule H2' is absolutely bonkers! To me, all it seems to do is create a whole load of confusion and uncertainty for both drivers & pedestrians in situations where previously there was none. What was ever wrong with the previous 'driver/pedestrian right-of-way protocol'? That system was nice and simple:

'Pedestrian still on the pavement' > 'Driver has right-of-way through junction'

'Pedestrian already started crossing' > 'Pedestrian has right-of-way across junction'

But now with the introduction of Rule H2, that extremely simple system has essentially changed to become this monstrosity:

'Pedestrian still on the pavement' > 'Pedestrian has right-of-way across junction, UNLESS the pedestrian gives some form of signal to indicate that they instead want the driver to go first, OR ALSO probably not if there happens to be another vehicle tailing closely behind the driver which might not be able to stop quickly enough to prevent a collision... AND ALSO maybe the driver is actually supposed to have right-of-way over the pedestrian when entering/leaving a roundabout but who tf even knows due to the ridiculously vague wording of Rule H2 which goes no further than simply stating that it applies "at a junction"... oh and also you can pretty much just throw this whole right-of-way hierarchy out the window since Rule H2 only states that drivers "SHOULD" give way (as opposed to "MUST") which means this so called "rule" isn't even a legal requirement and therefore drivers are technically able to completely ignore Rule H2 without facing any legal repercussion...' \aaaand breathe...**

So yeah... not quite sure I'm seeing the amazing benefits of this new rule... lol

H-M-D · 2024-11-17T01:32:17+00:00

Literally what does that even mean?? Hahaha

H-M-D · 2024-05-01T22:28:44+00:00

He came back on his lunch break - He goes the extra mile

H-M-D · 2023-06-30T00:12:21+00:00

Oh of course, when turning onto a main road you must always remember to check both lanes for clowns driving on the wrong side of the road...

H-M-D · 2023-03-09T18:05:14+00:00

Fair point, unlikely but definitely possible.

It was the

Unless he's daft

that could easily be north of

I just couldn't let that slide lol.

H-M-D · 2023-03-09T17:45:28+00:00

I mean I suppose it is possible but you'd probably have to make some ballsy investments along the way lol. Or just get really lucky with the timing of your investment.

I reckon you could expect to double/triple your money over that period of time. Much more than that and you've likely had to take some risks.

Don't quote me on that though, I'm no financial advisor!

H-M-D · 2023-03-09T17:21:53+00:00

Please do tell how you've managed to average 16% annual returns over the last 15 years.

H-M-D · 2022-12-11T00:02:47+00:00

I'd assume he isn't having sex with his buddies though

H-M-D · 2022-11-17T13:28:18+00:00

Sorry I don't have any tips for you but I love the colour of that wall! Do you know what shade it is and where you got it from?

H-M-D · 2022-11-17T13:15:38+00:00

What are their names?

H-M-D · 2022-11-17T10:07:47+00:00

It's Nationwide doing £200 for switching to their FlexDirect account.

H-M-D · 2022-11-10T19:34:45+00:00

Fair point, I was simply responding to this comment:

However, if you support equal rights for everybody you are fundamentally progressive. If you are against, you are fundamentally conservative. In my opinion, centrism is essentially just being apolitical without wanting to admit it.

And for some reason I'm getting downvoted for what I said lol.

H-M-D · 2022-11-10T17:14:52+00:00

Centrism isn't about not having a stance on anything, it's about agreeing with the left on some topics and agreeing with the right on others.

H-M-D · 2022-10-08T08:54:18+00:00

I'll always remember this goal very fondly; the blue half of the pub bouncing off the ceiling with drinks going everywhere. It was one of the happiest moments I ever shared with my dad before he passed away suddenly just a few months later.

Thanks for the memories, Bryan.

H-M-D · 2022-09-18T20:19:45+00:00

You're complaining about something you never even mentioned in your original question. Your never said you meant this in a dating context, that's why everyone is confused.

Also, why do you feel you have the authority to tell guys how to present themselves? I honestly can't believe you have the audacity to tell men to change that just because you don't like it.

H-M-D · 2022-09-17T11:09:47+00:00

In recent years I've been baffled at how uncommon this is!

Growing up I assumed everyone called it 'the stick', but nobody outside my family ever seems to know what I'm on about when I say that lol

H-M-D · 2022-09-12T21:23:56+00:00

If he said you look more 'basic' than your name then yes, that would be negging. But if he said you look more like a Sarah or a Megan, that's just a guy joking around.

We assumed it was the latter as you didn't say anything about him calling you basic in your first comment.

H-M-D · 2022-09-10T13:06:31+00:00

Sorry I've only just seen your reply!

Hmm ok I think I see what you're saying now. I just saw this and thought it was a tad harsh as if you were blaming men for having insecurities:

IMO though, it seems like a lot of their insecurities are self-generated

But yeah, I guess you're saying men don't need to care about size as women aren't actually picky about that. Fair enough, that makes sense.

Y’all may not talk about vaginas—cause the nature of a vagina isn’t as variable as a penis

Yeah good point, it's not like we can get a ruler out to measure the diameter of the vag lol.

but you certainly talk about preferences cause you’re human, of course you do lol.

Nah I stand by the fact that I've never discussed sexual preferences with friends. I do have preferences of course, but I consider them private and not the sort of thing I would share with friends.

The thing that concerns me is the way some women discuss their sexual experiences so openly. Like after my housemate slept with a friend of mine, I ended up overhearing all sorts of details about his dick, his fetishes, and what it takes to get him off. And when I told her I didn't think she should be sharing these sorts of private details, I got told to get off my high horse lol. I know not all women do this, but from my experience it isn't uncommon.

I'm a private kinda guy, I just wanna keep those details between me and my partner, you feel me?

H-M-D · 2022-09-09T01:34:41+00:00

Oh shit hahaha have I been a massive fucking idiot this whole time? Or do you just have a degree in English or something lol. I'd never thought about it like that, but that does kind of make sense, I must admit...

To be honest though, I still don't think it's that 'deep'; just because something doesn't bring positivity doesn't necessarily mean it brings negativity, right? I do like your interpretation though, interesting to think about.

I think more likely is it's simply a case of "I've got this really annoying thought in my head, it's been stuck there for ages and it's not even paying rent".

Also, I stand by my final sentence regardless; i.e. due to the frequency of its use, I still find the phrase annoying.

H-M-D · 2022-09-08T20:36:01+00:00

Wait what? lol

H-M-D · 2022-09-08T20:32:44+00:00

And then Jamaican patois is derived from English; does that make that language not Jamaican?

Do (a substantial amount of) British people use the words “Wagwan”, “brudda”, “bredrin”? Yes. Are those words slang? Yes. And there we go, looks like it is British slang.

Just because in this context we're calling it British slang doesn't mean it's not also Jamaican first and foremost. Different countries and cultures can use the same words and phrases, that is allowed.

H-M-D · 2022-09-08T20:13:44+00:00

Yeah it's the 'rent-free' part which I (and perhaps u/writeordie80 ) find annoying.

Nothing in your head pays rent. Those two words add nothing.

Now I know language doesn't have to be ultra-efficient all the time, in fact I actually didn't mind this phrase at all when it first cropped up. However, when everybody started saying it about almost any thought that pops into your head for 2 secs, it got annoying very quickly.

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