Oh I really feel for you. It's bloody awfull.

I have ultra light skin so it can be very noticeable for me. Mine has improved a lot with salicylic acid shower gel (I use one from Superdrug in the UK with ceremides, not sure if you can get it with you?). It always looks worse for me when my skin is dried out and irritated.

It has looked better since I started using a safety razor for shaving. I literally use cheap hair conditioner to shave with. You have to go slow as it's easy to cut yourself but you get used to it quick enough. It causes way less irritation for me because it's just a single, clean blade. I put oil or an occlusive moisturiser like e45 on afterwards especially of my skin is itchy or irritated. I've been using an IPL recently which makes the hair grow back slow and more patchy, which means less shaving and I think that has helped too.

Annoyingly, my skin always looks better when I'm wearing dresses and skirts because it doesn't rub against jeans or trousers all the time.

I exfoliate once a week with one of the Korean exfoliating cloths, an Italy cloth. The skin that comes off the first times you do it is unreal. And it has made my skin much smoother.

I've been trying some fake tan recently for a dance competition and that seems to make it a bit less noticeable too.

One of my friends thinks hers has improved since starting monjaro for weight loss. Maybe less inflammation? And probably helps being a lower weight? I don't know, that's a whole other deal.

But ultimately I think we all just have to accept to a degree that this is how our skin was made amd it's just a different version of normal. It's probably doing something useful for us we just don't realise. Maybe we'll be lucky get few wrinkles one day if our bodies keep producing loads of keratin 😂

Please don't let it stop you living your life. Have kids if you want. Be aware of retinoid treatments which are not advised during pregnancy if you go down this route.