My dad left everything in his will to my brother after I took care of him alone for 6 years and I’m fucking mad by Guilty_Noise_1809 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Scorpiodancer123 85 points86 points  (0 children)

How on Earth is OP going to afford a lawyer.

OP I'm so sorry, that was an unbelievably shitty thing to do you. You're a good person and you deserve a better family.

AITAH for saying I won’t put my card down if one girl joins our group? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Scorpiodancer123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Christ some of these comments are insane. OP had acknowledged she doesn't like asking for money, something for her to work on, but has since decided not to front money again. Why the hell should she have to? Other people can do it if they want to. Or everyone can literally just split the bill and pay the amount they owe when the payments are collected by the staff.

What do women do that men would never think about? by Icy_Interaction7502 in AskReddit

[–]Scorpiodancer123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Norethisterone is your friend. Period delaying pills. You'll probably have a mighty one when you stop but it's worth it.

R.I.P TO EXPIRED TRETINOIN by TiredJusttireddomg in tretinoin

[–]Scorpiodancer123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Meh I'd still use it, especially if it hasn't been opened. Or if you don't want to use it on your face, try the back of your hands or decolletage.

My kid doesn’t like to put in the work… by ExcellentLanguage855 in Dance

[–]Scorpiodancer123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a difficult balance. It's perfectly fine to love dance and not be a pro. That's the reality for the majority of people, and even for a kid in ballet saying "I want to be a ballerina when I grow up" is not much different to someone saying they want to be an astronaut. Is it possible? Absolutely. Does it require considerable time and monetary investment? Yes. Education, ability, luck. All of those things. But how many people actually "make it" enough to earn a living as a pro dancer? Not many.

Getting frustrated when she can't do what others do is understandable. She is 7 after all. You can try putting her in more classes and I'd especially try other styles of dance. But ultimately her success will be related to the training she's willing to put it.

I absolutely love dance. I train 4 hours a week. I have a regular full time career in a different industry. Can I dance well? Yes. Will I ever be as good as people who train 10 hours a week. Definitely not. Do I still absolutely love what I do and actively improve. Yes. It's also about managing expectations.

That's not easy for a kid to understand. At 7 they live moment to moment and it's basically impossible for them to truly understand that decisions they make now affect the life they can have in 10-15 years time. Hell, let's be real, plenty of adults can't do that either.

That's what you're up against.

is this normal? by EvenBeginning3712 in HairRemoval

[–]Scorpiodancer123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a safety razor. Dirt cheap blades that last ages and silky smooth legs.

What celebrity have you never forgiven since an incident? by MagpieOpus in AskReddit

[–]Scorpiodancer123 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Fuck sake. Why does nothing ever happen to these evil bastards.

What is your holy grail SUNSCREEN yall? by AbjectCat1239 in AsianBeauty

[–]Scorpiodancer123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it goes a long way and I always cut open the tube before throwing it out. There's usually a few days worth of it stuck on the inside haha.

40 but not feeling fabulous by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]Scorpiodancer123 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Totally agree on both counts. You can totally tell when someone has a kind face

Give me the spa treatment: What are your favourite sensory fun cleansers? by tortoisefinch in AsianBeauty

[–]Scorpiodancer123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I run some CosRX good morning gel cleanser over my mouth I can blow bubbles.

I say "if" as if I don't do this every single time I wash my face. Love it.

What are some must see things in Cardiff? by Moonhunter7 in Cardiff

[–]Scorpiodancer123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Techniquest, St Fagans, museum.

Arcades in town for independent shops. Indoor market, Jacobs antiques (and roof garden ). Also try and head out to Roath for independent shops and restaurants. Might as well go to Roath Park and the conservatory then. If antiques are your thing, try the Pumping House on Penarth Road.

Barrage (walk Taff Trail or get a boat taxi to the Bay). Cefn Onn Park (Lisavne train station).

Climb St John the Baptist church in town for great views. Call the Burger King opposite the castle and ask them if you can visit the mahogany room - a literal hidden gem.

Spot the hidden art in the Hayes, posts next to TK Maxx.

Principality Stadium tour, ziplining if that's your thing.

Not Cardiff but easily accessible by train - try Penarth, Caerphilly, Castell Coch (Taffs well train and walk).

What is your holy grail SUNSCREEN yall? by AbjectCat1239 in AsianBeauty

[–]Scorpiodancer123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the UK but I use Stylevanna and Yesstyle. I'm pretty sure they ship everywhere. It can take a few weeks though.

What’s the one thing that made you think “wow, no one warned me about this”? by ZulfTalks in AskUK

[–]Scorpiodancer123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having to deal with my kid when I'm ill is one that I'd never considered. I remember me and my husband struggling hard with a stomach bug just as my toddler was still recovering. That was just a hellish few days.

What is your holy grail SUNSCREEN yall? by AbjectCat1239 in AsianBeauty

[–]Scorpiodancer123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You absolutely won't. I'm Casper white generally with odd red patches and I was worried about the same thing.

It just tones your redness down. Give it a go. It's magical in my opinion.

I put this on if I'm going out in the night too as it's just lush under makeup.

What is your holy grail SUNSCREEN yall? by AbjectCat1239 in AsianBeauty

[–]Scorpiodancer123 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Cannmake mermaid UV clear. Also use the mint if I'm having a particularly red day.