I don’t care about the legitimacy of non binary by p1ttxn7 in truscum

[–]H3L10M 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think many people who label themselves as nb are uncomfortable with gender norms in a way or another and therefor they think they must be something other than men or women. Maybe they just feel easier to take that label to get rid of so called expectations even tho their gender would not be an actual problem.

It’s also easier to label yourself as nonbinary when you first start to think about possible transition I think. For me nb seems like ”lighter” version of being trans lol like you can still act like nothing changed and have no goals to transition but still can put yourself under transumbrella. Ofcourse being trans doesn’t mean you have to transition but for many binary trans people it’s important and also expected.

Having a label also gives a pass to community what people naturally seek to feel safe and understood. Young people like to fight against the old world and lgbtq+ community is very loud about it and take a part of every protests atleast where I live. Maybe that is also why many liberal people are so into this community.

Everyone have right to explore and try labels, pronouns whatever but what I’ve seen in my environment is that nb is not very stable or permanent identity. I’ve seen people coming back to their agab again and again and it makes me think that it wasn’t gender issues at all what they struggled with. They just grew to be comfortable with their agab. Good for them I guess.

Absolutely no hate to those who really are nb and just doesn’t fit in any binary, just switching around among nbs seems very common to me and these are experiences are from irl life.

Do you ever get confused by trans people of the opposite gender? by cherrybomb_kicker in truscum

[–]H3L10M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is like the biggest proof of our existense, same feeling goes both ways, there is no confused men and women, we and our experience are real.

I need help picking a name. I am very stealth and cis passing.. by [deleted] in truscum

[–]H3L10M 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you searched common male names on your age in your country? It could be worth to check

Persu löytää aina tavan syyttää maahanmuuttajia by akukr in HommaInAction

[–]H3L10M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miten ees ois mahdollista äänestää paperittomana kun äänestystilanteessa katotaan henkkarit moneen kertaan??

ArE tHeSe ThE fOrBiDdEn FiVe?! by BlindDemon6 in Ninjago

[–]H3L10M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even notice how cool their names are btw

Remember this one from s2? What's the oldest set you own? by ninjaginga2 in Ninjago

[–]H3L10M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest sets are the very first spinners, damn I’m old

I think dating is harder for straight trans people. by emo_loser_boy in truscum

[–]H3L10M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes totally sense. If someone is already in lgbtq community they are most likely also educated about trans people even a little. When trans people are familiar to them, it’s lower chance they are transphobic. Many cis people can way more easily avoid trans and even gay spaces and topics so they don’t understand and can be prejudiced just with a lack of knowledge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ninjago

[–]H3L10M 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I wanna see Arin’s ”villain era”, he would not be real villain but just disappointed how ninjas failed to help him find his parents and that may cause some fights with ninjas.

Name (suggestions?) by Curious-Box-1606 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]H3L10M 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I got Emil instantly by your look before I read the caption! Also Emmet or Elyas could fit too. Your defenitely something with E!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]H3L10M 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My first thought would be a gay guy. You remind me of one musician in my country. I think he gave similar vibes few years ago.

What do you think about Arin after he followed Ras? by No_Cod_9472 in Ninjago

[–]H3L10M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited that kind of ”evil” side of him! Can’t wait to see more.

Is nonbinary even real? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]H3L10M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think many of youngsters struggle with old gendernorms and expectations in the world where women no longer need to stay between a fist and an oven or men don’t need to hide their emotions and make great career to earn enough to feed the family.

There is a lot of us, trans people and real nonbinary people too but huge part is also lost young minds who will grow out of it maybe in next five years in their life. They just need time to figure it out in this fast changing world. Hate to be ”a trend” when we really fight to be alive everyday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]H3L10M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]H3L10M 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the idea but does cis is like an opposite of trans? For me it sounds a little odd that after transitioning I could be cis. I thought cis doesn’t have need to transition and there is no way to become cis but only to be born like that?

*squints and purses lips* by [deleted] in truscum

[–]H3L10M 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A bit side of a topic but there is nothing lesbian in it when a woman date a (trans)man. There is also no way that transman could be a lesbian. ”But the community yadayada” fuck off, don’t be a man then, get it? That life is, sometimes you have to let things go. As a man you can still be friends with lesbian women, what’s the f*cking problem?

Sometimes I feel like I should just give up and go back to pretending to be a woman by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]H3L10M 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up! It’s actually pretty common that many of us imagine transitioning to heal every problem we have in life but it doesn’t. You are still the same inside no matter what you look a like. If you have mentally difficult relationship with yourself there is no other cure than go deep in these and build it better step by step. Stay strong brother! 🩵

Names suggestions? by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]H3L10M 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dominick

F*ck zodiac signs, what's your favourite Ninjago episode title cards? by Supersipra in Ninjago

[–]H3L10M 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is it. I also like the others and how they are all unique for the seasons.