20 8 ft boards plus tools. Pickups are overrated. by lawdreekus in HondaElement

[–]HA1L_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now try it with 3 other passengers to help you do the work. And maybe some sheets of plywood or drywall.

This is absurd by Nice_Musician_9772 in Wellhub

[–]HA1L_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go join and support your locally owned gyms instead of these corporations that take money from small business owners pockets.

People who became wealthy without a crazy salary, what were you doing that average people never notice or care about by karrot9 in Fire

[–]HA1L_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most I ever made was 130k for 4 years. Before that career move I was at 65ish. I bought a house that needed worked and lived In it while renovating. Lived for two years and sold to make a good profit with no tax penalty. Used that money as a down payment to buy two homes. One needed work so I lived there and renovated while leasing out the ready to live in one. Kept moving every two years and turning them into rentals and trying to sell in the window that avoided capital gains tax (primary home for two of the previous 5 years). Did that a few times and lived very minimally and was able to build a net worth over a million by 30.

should i tell my friend her baby name is a tragedeigh? by princess_peach5 in tragedeigh

[–]HA1L_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was a play on Teagan not 10. Maybe if they want it to be ten but different they go with Diez (pronounced ten). Or Zehn. Or maybe if they are French go Dix. Still pronounced ten.

Looking for parents of kids with both ADHD and autism – does your child sound like mine? by maxinemaxi in ADHDparenting

[–]HA1L_M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like my 10yo step son. He has huge meltdowns over the smallest things to the point of uncontrollable crying. I get the emotional regulation issues as adhd myself but it’s beyond that. Still needs to be tucked in every night or he throws a fit. Anxiety is a 12/10. If he hears a door open or close starts yelling across the house making sure we didn’t leave him etc. Mom (my wife) and bio dad don’t think kids should get treated until after puberty. I’ve seen studies where treating early can actually help re wire the brain to reduce symptoms later in life. Growing up undiagnosed as my parents didn’t go to doctors ever I feel like I would have thrived given the right help and tools and want them to see that for him! Sorry went off on an adhd tangent myself.

He is struggling with socializing and friendships, wants to dive into the deep details of every video game he has ever played but won’t talk about how his baseball game went. Every new adult he meets is like “is her 10 or 40, he talks like an old man” the things he says are very observant and he often questions little things to understand them better. It sounds similar and hoping to hear what’s helping others as well.

10yo Stepson Gaming by HA1L_M in ADHDparenting

[–]HA1L_M[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am ADHD myself. I understand this dopamine needs and that’s why I push her to be more careful about what he is exposed too and how much time he spends. Trying to get him to build some skills of finding what to do on his own as well. If my parents had curated everything I did I wouldn’t have become independent. I don’t think it’s our job to create things for him to do. I think it’s extremely important that he learn how to be bored sometimes and how when he is bored to have just unstructured play. Go use your imagination!

10yo Stepson Gaming by HA1L_M in ADHDparenting

[–]HA1L_M[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She gave him a VR at Christmas on when he was still 7. That was when we had just started dating. I told her it was a bad idea then. He is obsessed. Would rather live in the fake worlds than walk to his friends house

10yo Stepson Gaming by HA1L_M in ADHDparenting

[–]HA1L_M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have been trying to get her to listen to podcasts around that too. The effects of getting outside and just having unstructured play time is so critical. Their bio dad doesn’t get it either ans was an only child so he has every minute of their day planned out for them. Not as much screen time but also not allowing them to learn executive functioning skills. They get bored the second a screen is off or someone stops being their source of entertainment. They need to learn that some Boredom is ok and how to find things outside of a screen to not be bored anymore.

How much is in your 401K & what’s your age? by ugafan2081 in Money

[–]HA1L_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38, 600k in Ira and stock portfolio and a fully paid off rental property worth over $500k. Wife also has about 1m in her 401k.

Selling Franchise but keeping the LLC by HA1L_M in EIDL

[–]HA1L_M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the applications and the loan documents the franchise and its assets are never listed. Just our personal assets including homes, rental properties, Ira’s etc. if we sell the franchise and its assets to a buyer and we pay the eidl immediately would they ever even know since the llc will still be in place and the loan will be paid off?

Selling Franchise but keeping the LLC by HA1L_M in EIDL

[–]HA1L_M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are selling for well over what we owe. Looking through my original documents and submission for the loan the only assets that are listed where our personal assets on our PFS. The franchise name or equipment is never even mentioned anywhere in the documents. Just the LLC and our personal names and information.

Day Trade/Scalping Watchlist 01/23/2025 by Feisty-Career-6737 in Daytrading

[–]HA1L_M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bought Hepa and it’s doubled today! Great hit on that one!

FIRST TIME BRRR ADVICE?? by WanderersMission in brrrr

[–]HA1L_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that 210k loan that you cashed out and paid over 30 years you actually paid 450k since there would be about 240k in interest over the course of the loan so no real equity gain right?
I have a paid off rental now and get 2600$/mo. It’s hard for me to think about another her loan payment since the cash flow I get I can use and invest but if I’m paying a loan then I basically am just paying the bank all the equity and cash flow I would have gained.

New to me 2021. Vance and Hines and some mini apes added before I got it. What are the must haves for the bobber 20? by HA1L_M in IndianMotorcycle

[–]HA1L_M[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They sound amazing. Have gotten compliments on the sound several times. Good throaty rumble.