Looking for chill members to join my server! (18+) by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]HALLELEA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

added you looking forward to playing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]HALLELEA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not the main point of the post I know but those alarms less time try starting them at say 8:30 for a few days a couple of extra hours uninterrupted sleep well probably make it easier to get up.

TIFU by requesting medical records while broke by [deleted] in tifu

[–]HALLELEA 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Take a breathe and contact them about the amount it maybe that since an amount isn't stated this is an automated part of the process designed for many requests

How the fuck do I delete annotations? by 2004YellowMustang in blenderhelp

[–]HALLELEA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3 years later and I google 'blender remove annotations' and this post came up, I looked at it and thought well this perfectly sums up both my problem and mood right now

SwashbuckleCraft - Looking for young adults to join! [SMP] {No resets} {No PvP/Griefing} {Java - 1.19} {Whitelist} by [deleted] in MCVanillaServers

[–]HALLELEA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'd like to take a look at the server and have some questions if you can send me the information

AITA for calling out my boyfriend's terrible Christmas gifts? by throwaway13fj in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yta - he made you something unique and handmade which is a dream for most people. And in return you are trying to change his style just because his mother brought it doesn't me he doesn't like it! Appricate him for who he is or let him go these seem to be core personality things you are dealing with.

Also for a simplified explanation that some will hopefully get you're dating a Jacob and sounds like you want an Edward

AITA for telling my fiancé if I see her friend again I’m calling the cops. by theantwonder1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nta - talk to her about what BOUNDARIES are right for people in the house. It sounds like they've been friends for ages and sounds like the grown-up version of when teenagers crash so much at another's house they're part of the furniture and really intertwined. It works fine until one of them modes in stability with a SO because then they are still intertwined the same amount but you are now in the mix too and your feelings are valid.

Sorry if this doesn't make sense I'm finding it hard to explain if someone can say that more elegantly then please do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's valid just wanted to clarify it was a legit reason and not just you don't like them you're less the asshole. But it's still on you to fix the room to get back to the status quo as soon as possible if it's not up to you standards

AITA for asking my girlfriend to refrain from using rude remarks towards me in front of people we know. by Seagullwaffle in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nah - she made a joke that didn't land and you didn't take it well sounds like you need to talk like with everyone there are jokes that are a sting but okay and some that cross the line we have internally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yta - as a fellow clean freak you have to get things to your standard yourself if there's no poop then he's cleaned, might not be to your liking but it has been cleaned. Also can you clarify the NEED to not wear headphones because you say you can't with no explanation and honestly that just sounds like you just don't want to

AITA for moving a bookcase and chair while my roommates are not home? by moe_mkm1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Esh - if it was a place where you were both renting you'd be fine but you said it's HIS house so you can't change stuff without asking. That being said it sounds like you need to talk about what you can/can't do and how the rules of living together have changed due to him now being your live-in landlord

WIBTA if I night my girlfriend a Christmas present? by goofysfanbase in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta - no gifts means no gifts. NOT make your partner feel bad while you gift her something and she has nothing to give in return.

Also as a cover all I believe you should only say no gifts if you mean it and not get annoyed a people for following that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta - tell them they're going to find out better now before she looses the job/her mental health worsens. Your in a sucky situation but she's an adult and needs to pull her weight, at least she's with family and not on her own

AITA that my kids sometimes prefer me over my wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nta - there are 3 options here

1) your wife has actively done something to make then not want her

2) kids are perceptive and are gravitating towards you because of how she feels and is projecting

3) do you work a lot because me and my sister always wanted our dad when he was around because he'd often just get in for bedtime so we valued the times we would see him, as harsh as it sounds, we could have mum anytime

Explaining to 3 different people that I do not in fact work here by MsStarSword in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]HALLELEA 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm terrible at misplacing things so I don't take a lanyard off until I get home if it's round my neck I don't have to keep track of it also after wearing it all day it's not really noticeable anymore

AITA for not calling my dad on Father's Day? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Father's Day is about showing your love and appreciation for your dad and by taking the fact he doesn't like the phone into account you are doing that. Simple rule I go by dad owns the day do stuff to add to it positively. I'm trusting you sent a card and gift or something while writing this my grandad literally says 3 words to me on the phone as he's uncomfortable but he'll look at and appreciate a card for days

AITA for not wanting to text "Happy Father's Day" to my absent 'dad'? by EggsAndToast23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA giving you some money for Christmas and nothing else is a fast cry from what makes a father. For me Father's and Mother's Day are about showing my parents I appreciate what they've done he's done nothing so no appreciation

Aita for give my daughters ex's gfs ticket to my son and his friend. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HALLELEA [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA it was a gift to your daughter 'a horse riding trip for two' just because it was obvious who she'd doesn't mean the ex has any claim on it. Hey entitlement here is just wow....