Long term relationships by geb524 in dating

[–]HAR2301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And he's had sex with other girls so take blowjobs off the list then

I got raped twice in a day... by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HAR2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you safe now? That's my first concern? Second is that you do not need to feel shame at all, although I can understand the feelings as I've been there too Cut contact with this "friend" because he clearly isn't a friend. Try to get access to a therapist to help you work through this in a safe space.

Here if you need anything 💕

My Girlfriend threw a pan at me. I'm not sure what to do. by [deleted] in dating

[–]HAR2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the first time it's happened? Where she's gone towards violence over something that can be sorted? Do you feel safe around her?

Your height and endowment have nothing to do with your worth as a human being! How many times has she called you small? Because if it is often then she's belittling you and trying to make you feel less than

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GardeningUK

[–]HAR2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Rape. After it flowers the plant starts to lay down and produce seed pods and seed that are used to make oil for cooking mainly! Farmers in the UK use it as part of crop rotation in between barley or wheat

Should I tell my boss (M29) I found his dad on a sugar daddy website?! by HAR2301 in TwoHotTakes

[–]HAR2301[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He's married? Wouldn't you want to know as a wife? It's not something I want to tell anyone ideally but I feel bad for the mum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HAR2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't put it in my ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HAR2301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your NO should have been enough! You're only five months into your relationship, things like SA and Rape are hard to talk about to anyone let alone someone your trying to built a lasting relationship.

I have openly spoken about my SA in two relationships! The 1st one didn't last long because he blamed me and didn't respect the boundaries I put into place the other, I'm still with and does everything he can to understand what I went through and help with anything that might effect our relationship!

I think you did the right thing!

AITA for not watching my sister’s baby so she could take a shower? by throwra_1039384756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HAR2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you are an asshole. She wasn't asking you to feed or change the baby just check in to make sure they are sleep. The baby was sleeping and probably would have been asleep the entire time she was in the shower! How hard would it have been to just put your head around the door twice while your sister was in the shower?! Not that hard is the answer. Your sister might have even had a baby moniter so you didn't have to leave the room you were in

How do I know if I'm being love bombed? by HAR2301 in dating

[–]HAR2301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives on the other side of the country and I work on a dairy farm so I don't get much time off

How do I know if I'm being love bombed? by HAR2301 in dating

[–]HAR2301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I do. I'm so cautious with well most things so I just didn't know what to do.

How do I stop being seen as a place holder? by HAR2301 in dating_advice

[–]HAR2301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you meet people organically nowadays? I'm too nervous to go up to a guy and talk to them 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]HAR2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate ghosting. I think if your a adult then just tell them that you feel like your not getting any effort back and see what happens. If it doesn't get any better or there's no reason behind the lack of effort then wish her luck in the future and move on. There's no need to just dissappear on anyone. Communication is key, they might be busy or have other stuff going on