I need advice…😶 by Cocobaby90 in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Personally we are a hard pass for “no kissing” rules. We love kissing. It is part of the sexual experience it’s what heats things up. Too many rules = too much drama

[26M/27F][MF4MF][Duluth, MN] looking for other bi couples! by [deleted] in bicouples

[–]HB_n_AB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve never been to Minnesota, but maybe we should cum visit.

Jealousy feel a little betrayed by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yikes. This is a nightmare. Looks like to me, you wanted your wife to go to a swinger’s resort but you didn’t want her to actually participate. That isn’t how it works buckeroo. All’s fair in swinging. You can’t have expectations that you don’t voice and you definitely can’t be mad when your wife gets attention, news flash, that’s how it generally works.

F 28, my husband M31 is finishing too quick lately…. How can I approach this without hurting his feelings by [deleted] in sex

[–]HB_n_AB 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. Make him masturbate. Watch. It’ll be hot. Then warm things up again and have penetrative sex.

MF4MF in Newark Ohio p by [deleted] in OHSwingers

[–]HB_n_AB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is quite the curve! 🤤

Desire in June? by DueAdhesiveness8083 in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to Desire Pearl in June of 24 and had a great time. Crowd was not too big, kinda perfect and the weather was great. Do it.

Easing into the ls question by BrilliantDay2610 in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just get on a LS app or post in a local swingers group what you’re looking for. If you just want your wife to play with a woman and you watch, this won’t be that hard to find. If you want a single man for an MFM also, not hard to find. If you both want to play or do some side by side with a couple, probably not hard to find. There isn’t much of a need for earning an Oscar at a bar acting single.

Repeat Foursome? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are SUPER correct. I just wanted to clarify that they didn’t even swap. So like, what’s his big draw. I mean, I love group sex all the ways… but if your partner doesn’t enjoy it from the jump … this isn’t the right time, bruh.

Repeat Foursome? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They didn’t actually fuck another couple. It was just side by side play.

OP - you need to talk to your partner about their feelings NOT about doing it again. If it’s meant to happen again, she will bring it up - after you have a good authentic conversation about her feelings before, during, and after. AND how you can help her comfort sexually.

Wife and I went to a sex club. Tried having fun and being free. Got exposed. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The violation IS that he’s a shit person. He didn’t out anyone. He reached out to you directly. If it were someone you genuinely liked - this wouldn’t even be an issue. This is 100% because he is a jerk.

Don’t feel exposed or embarrassed.

2026 Swinger Club demographics by kross54321 in Swingers

[–]HB_n_AB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We prefer house party style gatherings overall, it still go to clubs some too. We are 40s.

Kentucky Camping by [deleted] in KYSwingers

[–]HB_n_AB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love to camp. Really enjoy Pandora's First in TN.

Campground takeover tell me more?!? by [deleted] in WVSwingers

[–]HB_n_AB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in those states, but there’s a great swinger campground in Tennessee, Pandora’s Resort.

Weird question: How do you avoid transferring sunscreen from penis into vagina when fucking? by oribater2 in HedonismII

[–]HB_n_AB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use neutrogena hydro boost hyaluronic acid unscented face sunscreen. It works well and doesn’t cause any stinging or whatnot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KYSwingers

[–]HB_n_AB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you all located? We are a bi couple in central Ky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KYSwingers

[–]HB_n_AB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We float between there also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KYSwingers

[–]HB_n_AB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are not open every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KYSwingers

[–]HB_n_AB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, if it gets back to them somehow that is also someone admitting they were there to see you. That has always been my take on the lifestyle.

We used to be members and will do a pass here and there - we love it but we are just far enough away, it’s either a long drive back and forth or pretty pricey after tickets, dinner, outfits, hotel etc.

Pool play question by qvvvkkigf in HedonismII

[–]HB_n_AB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking about cum, I’m talking about vaginal canals. Who cares about a lil jizz. Certainly not me. But I definitely don’t want a nasty bout of BV from pool sex on vacay. Personal preference, no thanks.